| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/25/2009 7:24:55 PM | I would have to pose a question to you. Does her being w/ 1 man or 10 men, prior to you, make her less of the person you were attracted to? Does she suddenly possess LESS of the qualities you have come to admire about her? Is she now a crazed wild woman that you can never trust again-because of something she did B4 U?
This is the part to really listen to-can you live with someone that has had a past -at all. Or are you truly wanting a virgin-if so, you know what you need to do. Consider the values that you are seeking, those that you, yourself possess and place yourself in the same situation that she was in. (Exchanging the men for women of course)
Most men WANT 2 women-3 if they could handle it. She may be more multi-talented then you had 1st had any idea of. Take what she has told you, embrace it and learn from it-Heck-think of it this way-if she can multitask w 3-4 men-you should be having freakin fireworks if it was all devoted exclusively to you.
Best of luck to you both. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:19:44 PM |
I would have to pose a question to you. Does her being w/ 1 man or 10 men, prior to you, make her less of the person you were attracted to?
It might.... who knows what she might have been without those experiences...
Well, does it make her more of the person you were atracted to...? Not likely...
Does she suddenly possess LESS of the qualities you have come to admire about her? Well, if one of those qualities was that before, she didn't seem like a slut, yeah, maybe....
Take what she has told you, embrace it and learn from it-Heck-think of it this way-if she can multitask w 3-4 men-you should be having freakin fireworks if it was all devoted exclusively to you.
Unless her idea of multitasking is to lie there like a heap of meat as she gets pounded at each orifice.... Since I prefer a one-one relationship, the last thing I would want is someone who prefers 'multitasking'....
And maybe now, she's decided that she needs 3-4 guys to get her off... maybe she won't be happy with just one from now on.... | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/26/2009 12:56:21 PM |
Msg: 246 -- So a partner who fails to do what you wish is proving a
lack of love for you?
That is a rather crude way of putting it, but, in a word, yes.
Interesting. Where does that end, or does that apply to anything you
might wish, no matter how outlandish?
It ends at the extent of her love. My desires, though, do NOT extend
to the outlandish.
Msg: 248 -- what guy would honestly turn down a 3 some, or more?
**I** would. The very idea of sex between more than a man and his
woman is extremely repulsive to me. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/2/2009 8:50:29 PM | I think the three guys screwing one lady have there own sick issues. Man oh man, checking out three pricks, and not one getting grossed out by the idea of what they are are about to do. Worse yet, three ladies wanting to go to town on a guy! Will wonders never cease along with these questions? There should be a Past Relationships Don't Ask Don't Tell policy. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:07:36 PM | | I suppose everybody can get crazy once in a while......it depends on the person. Honestly if she sounded like she regretted it I wouldn't care, but if she was bragging about how good it was....I'd be cautious. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/12/2009 4:56:32 PM |
I recently started seeing a woman who admitted to having an orgy with 3-4 men the last time she visited Las Vegas. She is a very beautiful and a loving person (literally.....lol), but when she told me this I was a little taken back. She says it was a "mistake" and is "extremely embarrassed" (her own words). I think it took a lot of guts for her to tell me about this experience. I thought it would make for an interesting question: Should I allow this incident to prevent me from pursuing more of a relationship with this woman?
I wouldn't avoid seeing a woman who admitted to having an orgy with 3-4 men.
I would have a problem with someone who called it a "mistake" and who was "extremely embarrassed" by it. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/12/2009 5:03:32 PM | I think with 3 or more men, it's a gang-bang not an orgy... to be an orgy I think there has to be more than one female...
Although I'm sure if there were two guys trading back and forth it's basically a gang-bang from her point of view anyway... | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/12/2009 6:36:50 PM | you should not allow that to stop you from dating her..
how can u judge her for a. being honest and b. her past ?
i'm sure you have done a few things in your past u aren't too proud of..
how is what she has done any different from men who play women ..
and have multiple women ?? | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:25:42 PM | you should not allow that to stop you from dating her..
how can u judge her for a. being honest and b. her past ?
No, but you can judge them for being stupid... or not being very discerning in their choices or for making bad decisions.... or for being naive... or for not being able to say "No", or for thinking a gang-bang was a good idea....
i'm sure you have done a few things in your past u aren't too proud of..
Not everyone has. Some people are smarter than the others....
how is what she has done any different from men who play women ..
and have multiple women ?? That logic is fine, only so far as it applies to a man who plays women. If it's a guy who doesn't play women is he supposed to accept her simply because another guy might have fcuked a bunch of women...? | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/18/2009 5:44:30 AM | Bottom line is ..
How can u expect honesty from a woman when you are judging her ?
And just wondering ..
Who died n made u Judge Jury and executioner ??
There is NO one who never made a mistake in their life..
Get over yourself church !
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/18/2009 10:07:17 AM |
How can u expect honesty from a woman when you are judging her ?
Ummm actually, I'd expect honesty from a woman whether or not I'm judging her... or are we supposed to add "Lies when convenient..." to her resume...????
There is NO one who never made a mistake in their life..
Get over yourself church !
Losing your car in a large mall parking lot is making a mistake...
Putting hot sauce instead of ketchup on a hotdog is mistake...
Locking your keys in the car is making a mistake...
Having a gangbang with 3 or more men is ????? what? right up there with losing your keys?
Small mistakes I have made... (although I will put hot sauce on deliberately - I like it...)
It's the other kind....
I suppose I never made those kind of 'mistakes' because I was able to understand that some things do have consequnces both obvious and unforseen... and are maybe not a good idea....
Who died n made u Judge Jury and executioner ??Get over yourself church !
No one did.... but now you're 'judging' me too.... is it then ok to judge people only under certain conditions...? and for certain things...? | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/22/2009 10:39:21 PM | | Dont ask ?s you dont want answers to. Its all male ego nonsense, wew want to be told were the best ever and your mate wont want to be dishonest. If you have a good sex life dont worry about prior relationships. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/22/2009 10:45:37 PM |
If you have a good sex life dont worry about prior relationships.
Unless she had better sex before you. Then you might not have good sex life for long.
Women have no problem telling you that you were good in bed. We can even say it without laughing. | |
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