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 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 7:58:41 AM

Waaaaa! All men do it. Why can't we?



I get tired of hearing this BS from certain women. It simply isn't true. It's a stereotype based on a small percentage of men. If one guy is able to whore around, then all women should be allowed to do the same... without being judged by people who don't agree with their actions. Baloney! There's a line where personal freedoms and personal responsibilities meet. Sure, you can do what you want when it comes to sex and being promiscuous, but it doesn't mean others have to accept it, or agree with it. Do you think the guys that ran a train on this girl have a high opinion of her, or are they talking about the tramp they met in Vegas?
 WomanInProgress

Joined: 10/16/2005
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:02:19 AM
I keep seeing this "train" business...where in the OP was that stated? Or is it being assumed that more than one man in a room naked constitutes a "train"? How do we know it was the way it actually happened?

I haven't heard that word since the late 80s for cryin' out loud.

Three guys and one girl is not an orgy. M-M-M-F... Choo-choo!

Ok, so we know they were lined up and waiting for their turn? LOL....no, we don't. According to many many men I know in this area, a train is a line of men...for all we know one guy went out for pizza. LMAO
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:10:41 AM
Three guys and one girl is not an orgy. M-M-M-F... Choo-choo!
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:20:01 AM

Do you think the guys that ran a train on this girl have a high opinion of her, or are they talking about the tramp they met in Vegas?



well if they dont have respect for her what does that say for them .... any man who would partake in a sex act and condemn or not respect a woman involved ...is the lowest of lows

walk away from it and then you can judge others who didnt ...unless you can say you have never done anything immoral ..then your opinion on what someone else has done dont mean squat

if a guy can truly say that if four great looking girls wanted to pull a train on him and he would refuse ...then i will value his opinion ...otherwise quit judging ... me thinks if this is the case wont be much judgng
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:26:24 AM

Ok, so we know they were lined up and waiting for their turn? LOL....no, we don't. According to many many men I know in this area, a train is a line of men...for all we know one guy went out for pizza. LMAO


The guys don't have to be on que for it to be a train. That's the image one would get, but they could have been all in at once for all we know. (That's much more attractive.)

Nobody goes out for pizza from a motel room. Just about everyone delivers these days. And the OP said 3+ men. Apparently there is a question of just how many fellows were standing line.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:28:05 AM
Ack, the hypocrisy of some of the sex forums is so amazing to me. Another thread asks "who here is a proud freak" or something similar. All these people chime in..."oh I'm a freak and proud...I'm the freakiest freak you will ever come across" "I will do anything asked of me" "bring it on" "wave your freak flag" Wooooooooo and such.

NOW...someone posts some "freaky" behavior here and people are like "oh hell no....she's testing you...I would never accept that" "I couldn't live with it" such things.

So which is it?

As far as the OP, if something happened sexually before you even knew a person, shouldn't have any regard on what your relationship with the person would be in the future. This person told you what she did, it's called being upfront and honest. If you can't handle it and want to judge her, don't get involved with her.
 Bobisherenow

Joined: 11/12/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:29:51 AM
Wonder how much the 3 men paid her to do so...sounds like to me there is more to this story and it would be a good idea to have her provide a clean bill of health before you proceed with anything further...also was she ashamed at the time of this adventure???...what's done is done..saying you are ashamed after the fact does not make the actions that took place go away....
 Raging Heart-on

Joined: 8/4/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:30:57 AM
" Let he who hath no sin cast the first stone "

She says it was a mistake . Have you ever made any ?

If you think she's worth it cut her some slack.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:32:32 AM

Ok, so we know they were lined up and waiting for their turn? LOL....no, we don't.

No, probably one or two at each end of her and another holding the video camera.
 ChinaShopBull

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Posted: 11/19/2008 8:39:47 AM
well if they dont have respect for her what does that say for them .... any man who would partake in a sex act and condemn or not respect a woman involved ...is the lowest of lows


Agreed.


walk away from it and then you can judge others who didnt ...unless you can say you have never done anything immoral ..then your opinion on what someone else has done dont mean squat


Jesus? Is that you? I can honestly say that I have never had any number of guys run a train on me. I am not holding anyone to a higher standard than myself.


if a guy can truly say that if four great looking girls wanted to pull a train on him and he would refuse ...then i will value his opinion ...otherwise quit judging ... me thinks if this is the case wont be much judgng


Didn't you hear? Us guys do this stuff all the time.
 Samantha44

Joined: 10/25/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 9:02:26 AM
What she has done in the past has no bearing on what is happening with you. There is nothing wrong with having a little wild side and stepping outside your so called comfort box....now had she said it happened more than few times I think that would give you a little reason to worry.

She threw caution to the wind and possibly had a once in a life time experience....whooo hooo good for her it does not change the fact that she is capable of loving you and only you.

If your open could be good dialogue for some dirty sexy talk for the both of you....
 Izabella02

Joined: 11/5/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 9:22:36 AM
I don't think she was testing you. Then again, I wasn't there for the entire conversation. If you and her were having and open/honest conversation about past sexual experiences, maybe she was telling you where she draws the line in a very open way.

JMO.
 fitguy33

Joined: 11/13/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 9:31:32 AM
Hell no toss the slut aside, she has no self respect once a ho always a ho
 Bobisherenow

Joined: 11/12/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 9:34:11 AM
You can take one off the street, but you can never take the street off of one... get tested and wash with some good soap afterwards...
 Chancelore

Joined: 10/1/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 9:51:39 AM

Do you think the guys that ran a train on this girl have a high opinion of her, or are they talking about the tramp they met in Vegas?

I've been in the "train" before on a few slags. Yep. We had a really high opinion of women like her. A little higher than the opinion we have of a toilet. Face it men are pigs. We'll **** anything that has a hole in it. But that doesn't mean we'll lie down and be a public service to a group.
I've seen chickies like this. They think they're being "oh so liberated" sexually and they think everyone pounding away at them is "sharing" in the experience. No, we're getting ourselves off and laughing at them for being a ****ing cum dumpster. The biggest laugh is the one we get when we think of some dude down the road falling in love with a slag like that. Met a guy like, that comes round the pub with his "sweetheart" all big smiles and me and my mates are trying to keep a straight face. She's ready to shit because she's worried we're gonna let her guy know what kind of a slag she was. Funny thing about booze, causes people to say all the wrong things at the wrong time! hahahahaha
 Chancelore

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Posted: 11/19/2008 9:55:24 AM

I recently started seeing a woman who admitted to having an orgy with 3-4 men the last time she visited Las Vegas. She is a very beautiful and a loving person

Well, there's a pretty picture in your head eh?
One guy in her**** one up her backside and another in her mouth, 3+ grunting, sweating guys trying to drop a load in her, I'd say she was very loving. But somehow the mental picture of her being the focal point for 3+ guys**** doesnt seem to equal "beautiful" to me.
 Emil72

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 10:09:18 AM
We all have a past and if we share it with someone than that means alot. I am sure others might have a darker past than others but lets face it.

Lets face it not only did she admit to something personal and private matter but she isn't afraid to express or go for something that most can only think about.
 deerdog1

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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:09:51 AM

all big smiles and me and my mates are trying to keep a straight face


yea chancelore we all on the forums know exactly what you mean ...we have to all hold back a laugh when we see one of your hypocritical post ...where you are bragging about being a man whore ...and think its cool to brag about your filthy habits while putting down the women you have been with and calling them slags but if you like admitting you are a male SLAG by all means continue but no one will take you serious ... we are all just laughing at the 53 year old little boy who will never grow up
 compleat_man

Joined: 10/3/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:18:09 AM
Well, at least you know that she likes sex for sex, and not for manipulation, to barter for love, or duty, or...etc.,..


well, no..you DON'T know that "for sure"...

it MIGHT be true..or might not be..

it is also possible that she has self-esteem issues..or wanted to 'rebel' against a strict upbringing, and figured the best way to 'get back' at her daddy the preacher was to do 3+ guys? who knows?

possibly she herself WANTED to feel like a 'dirty slut' as some here have labeled her.?

all sort of POSSIBLE motivations..




 somewhatcute

Joined: 11/13/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:22:40 AM
Well...... Have fun but dont go further.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:25:27 AM

yea chancelore we all on the forums know exactly what you mean ...we have to all hold back a laugh when we see one of your hypocritical post ...where you are bragging about being a man whore ...and think its cool to brag about your filthy habits while putting down the women you have been with and calling them slags but if you like admitting you are a male SLAG by all means continue but no one will take you serious ... we are all just laughing at the 53 year old little boy who will never grow up


exactly!
 Chancelore

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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:51:10 AM

yea chancelore we all on the forums know exactly what you mean ...we have to all hold back a laugh when we see one of your hypocritical post ...where you are bragging about being a man whore ...and think its cool to brag about your filthy habits while putting down the women you have been with and calling them slags but if you like admitting you are a male SLAG by all means continue but no one will take you serious ... we are all just laughing at the 53 year old little boy who will never grow up

Laugh it up all you want. I don't really give a toss. Sure I'm a male SLAG! I admit it! But then I'm not looking for confirmation or a relationship on here. If it's much easier for you to make fun of me than to consider I might be right then so be it.
You don't like what I have to say then fine. But what makes you think you have the right to criticise me for what I say? Are you so much better than me that your opinions are more worthy than mine?
So you ALL hold back a laugh? Good for you, glad you took a poll to make sure it was ALL of you, otherwise I'd think you were a pompous ass.
 stilltryn

Joined: 10/26/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:51:30 AM
Can you imagine the "ghosts" that some people have in their closets? I personally don't want to know about a lot of the experimentation and such that a person goes through. When a bomb is dropped in your lap, it is a different story. I don't have a clue as to how I would react in your situation. Your situation would fit in the "TMI" category, as far as a relationship goes. IMHO
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 10:52:13 AM
This is my take on this.........

Everyone has a past........some really good things and some I'm sure we would never want anyone to know about. I think our past is ours to tell or not to tell. I find it very strange for her to tell you something that she is so ashamed of.........unless she thought it was going to rear its ugly little head later or she wanted to see your reaction. Either way...........you either have to deal with it and move on or cut the lose and move on. Personally that would be a deal breaker for me..........but that is just me. I hope it works out for both of you.
 Bobisherenow

Joined: 11/12/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 11:00:50 AM
I would answer her question with another question such as this.. So how much did they pay you to do this?..Have you brought this up to "ALL" the others that you have dated? You were not ashamed of it while you were performing the act so why are you ashamed now? Or Do you think your parents are proud of you now? Why would you tell me this? Then I would say some things I just don't want to know...as long as my health is not compromised..
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