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 rock_hunter

Joined: 11/6/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 12/1/2008 10:48:57 AM

Depends.

Come on, I don't think her sphincters were damaged so bad.
 Chimera_Obscura

Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 177
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 12/1/2008 10:53:57 AM
It was mentioned before in another thread. The big problem is when there is so much disparity between two people's sexual experiences. Two people who have the same levels of sexual pasts won't have a problem with it.
I don't agre with calling a guy or girl out on it if that's the reasoning they have trouble dealing with it. If they're just being hypocrtical then they should just keep their mouth shut and comments to themselves.
My B/F' past was very conservative compared to mine. Truth to tell, he has a few problems dealing with it and I don't blame him. I wish there was something I could do to change things. I've tried to put myself in his shoes to see if I can understand, and I've come to realise his views are very valid.
I know if my past was pure vanilla and my B/F's was extreme, I'd be very put out by it.

Chimera_Obscura
 Joee_187

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 178
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 12/3/2008 12:19:41 AM
OHHHHH ****KKKK HERRRR!!

LEAVE THEE DAMNNN BROD!! WHILE SHES GETTIN SOO MUCH****UR SAYINGGGG TO URSELF "BUTT SHE LOVESSS MEEE..ITS THE PAST!" **** THAT HOMEY LEAVE HER SHE HAS HISTORY!!! FOR GOD SAKES I AT LEAST DONT TELL ME BOUT U HAVING AN ORGY! WHAT WONT KNOW WONT HURT YA!!! shes blew it!!

i would NOT TOleraTE THAT! NOT ONE BIT!! thats really sick!!

UR BETTER THEN THAT!!
 Bobisherenow

Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 179
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 12/3/2008 6:24:20 AM
I wonder if the OP would be as concerned if she was in a 3-way with 3 women at the same time? Would that make a difference?
 edster1224

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 180
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 12/3/2008 6:38:35 AM
It depends. Was I one of the three?

Seriously, though, at first I was going to say that I wouldn't date her, but after I thought about it, I changed my mind. After all, who hasn't done something sexual in their past that they regret.

Note: If the two of you get bored, you can always give me and my buddy a call. LOL! Just kidding!
 Snake10

Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 181
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/20/2009 8:37:16 PM
well if you dont want her no more me & sure two or four mates would dearly love to see to her, sorry see her
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 182
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 4:41:01 AM
Depends on how hot she is, and if she assures me that it was a one-time incident (I'll believe her until she gives me reason to think otherwise).

If I KNOW she just finished having sex with 3-4 guys, uh, no--I couldn't get it up knowing I was "sloppy fifths".
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 183
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 9:52:58 AM
I don't think what someone has done sexually should prevent them from finding love. People have different sexual preferences so why not pursue her. As long as she is not doing this while your having a relationship. Some people really get into sex.
 tonytexas25

Joined: 4/6/2008
Msg: 184
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 11:00:18 AM
So OP are you MR. Perfect, I guess you never did anything that was wrong. Just think about it.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 12:22:17 PM

So OP are you MR. Perfect, I guess you never did anything that was wrong. Just think about it.

I just love this type of statement...
Trying to justify something on the grounds that the other person might have done it is really silly... Particularly in this type of instance... usually the person is upset because the other person did something that they never would do....
 MikeM1968

Joined: 11/3/2007
Msg: 186
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 12:31:22 PM
Please say she was at least DRUNK or ON DRUGS at the time and has tried to clean-up her act a whole lot. I'd be a little less leary if a woman told me she was wasted and it was a mistake then that she did it fully aware and consciously. How was that a *mistake* then?

Mike
 RonnieSimo

Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 187
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 12:45:00 PM
If I was inclined to date her before the confession, then yes, I would date her. I'd really rather not know about her sexual past, but if she told me. I wouldn't hold it against her.
 flexei

Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 188
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 3:49:19 PM
I do not care who a lady I am seeing has had a past, I just don't want to see him get off.
 wes5901

Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 189
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 5:34:24 PM
this double standard crap really piss' me off.if a man has sex with three ladies at one time he's a stud but just reverse the situation and bingo you've got a slut on your hands.come on fellas wake up and grow up.so what if she's had three partners at once.if any of you guys out there tell me that you'd pass up the chance to bed three ladies at once you'd be lieing your a$$ off
 Nos800

Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 190
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 5:39:47 PM
Of'course but I could give a shit less about sexual partners and what not has long as they have no STD's and are willing to be committed
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 5:44:16 PM

this double standard crap really piss' me off.if a man has sex with three ladies at one time he's a stud

I know a lot of folks would not consider the guy to be a stud.... they'd quite likely call him a pig... or man-whore etc....

And a lot of guys wouldn't care whether what she did... she just wouldn't likely ever be their long term partner....
 gentleplus

Joined: 9/8/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 6:02:30 PM
The issue is whether this was a one time careless exploration or an unresolved deep seated emotional issue that was a driver.... the first is an innocent issue and not a problem .....the second requires counseling and discovery of issues to enable the healing of her soul.... the main point to consider is how she now feels about herself moving forward and what has this event shown her about her life's journey sexually and as a person..
 Some random name

Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 193
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/21/2009 10:19:20 PM
Ask yourself this.......if it was you in Vegas and 3 women wanted to give you the full treatment would you have refused? Doubt it, so it shouldnt matter what she did in the past.
 flappo77

Joined: 2/6/2009
Msg: 194
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/22/2009 12:07:29 AM
Yes. As long as she never contracted anything from the men. I'm very open minded.
 Sumo_sumo

Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 195
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/22/2009 12:57:53 AM
So long as mine is the only penis she ingests or inpales right now, I'm fine.

What's in the past is in the past.

Why should I expect perfection from my partner when I'm far from it myself. I've done a lot of wrong in the past and it sucks being judged by it.
 whothehellknows

Joined: 7/23/2006
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/22/2009 7:15:55 AM
If she were STD free, it wouldn't even be an issue. Actually it might be a plus because I think it shows she would atleast be open to trying things that might be outside the norm and probably wouldn't be too judgemental when it comes to my own past and past mistakes.
 4latinas

Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 197
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 2/24/2009 12:27:05 AM
That my friend is whoreish!unless ur into that kinda thing...I was once dating a fine as hell woman of nearly 6 feet,and she totally had me(unbeknown to her), but one day she reveaked to me that she and a friend had had an orgy w 2 guys...needless to say, I lost so much respect for her IMMEDIATELY!!I tried to hide it, but she saw right thru it,and I really liked her!If it REALLY bothers you, let her go...cause it will only eat away at you throughout whatever you try to build!
 Pontoon guy

Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 198
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 1:37:03 AM
Wouldn't bother me at all, but then again i am pretty liberial when it comes to sex,so no would not bother me.
 VinceDaPrince

Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 199
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 6:39:54 AM
i personally would not enter into relationship with any woman who has seen more dik ends than weekends ! if she is ok with f*cking 3-4 people in one go ,,, do u think u and your one penis will please her ,,,,, think again ,,,,


JMO
 theconducter

Joined: 11/18/2008
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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 6:40:15 AM
bukakke!! i would only date her if she had lots of money come on man that shit is haunting you i know it. you need to learn the lesson never wife a girl from a train session
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