| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 7:13:59 AM | | o hell yea four men.and they most likely do it all the time.wich means everybody they have slept with you have to.when most women who do this are warming you up,because they really want to tell you about the other secreat,you think this one was bad,wait until you hear the other one. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 10:04:13 AM | Newsflash um guys, the girl your dating probably already has. (Hello college!) You didn't think those campus sex parties were just the same women over and over from campus to campus did you?
It doesn't matter what somebody did way back when. Who they are now is who is relevant. Do they have no diseases? Did they learn from it? Etc.
Obviously this girl regrets it and it shows how much she likes you to share something so embarrassing and personal with you. Unless this disgust you, you shouldn't hold it against her.
I would be more offended if she was proud of it and bragged about it. That kind of woman you need to avoid like the plague. This woman, from what you say isn't like that. Why not give her a shot. Well all have a right to screw up.
It refusing to learn and grow from our mistakes that makes things worse, not the opposite. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 10:37:08 AM |
I would be more offended if she was proud of it and bragged about it. That kind of woman you need to avoid like the plague. This woman, from what you say isn't like that.
More or less offended? Yeah, if you are at all offended by her either having or sharing the experience, punt. Far better to open your eyes (mine would be saucer-sized, probably), and run with it. Most of the posts I've seen by women who have had the experience (or claimed to), add that they would not repeat it. If she's sharing that with you, OP, she's offering you something that is at least as personal as her vaginal canal. She tested the envelope and returned to tell you about it. Cherish the moment. And "admissions" follow crimes, or sins, for some; if your take is that she is "admitting" her past, you're in the wrong place, and probably expecting contrition.
On the other hand, if she's braggin' about it, well, put on your Pecos Bill boots, cuz you're lookin' at one hell of a ride! Lol!
Why not give her a shot.
ShotS, my friend. Once and done is hardly ever the right stuff.
Well all have a right to screw up
Bless me , Father (and brace yourself!), because I HAVE sinned. 
Hey, I have two rules:
1. You can't hurt anybody else: and
2. Don't mess with their stuff.
That's pretty much the way I "judge" anybody, including me; and the only "punishment" I mete out is that we part ways. All the other sins, imo, belong to somebody else, their definitions, not mine; so if you're expecting contrition to accompany my "admissions", you're probably gonna be disappointed. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 3/17/2009 11:45:03 PM |
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
That would be one open-minded man. I don't think I'd date him, but I'd sure have a LOT of questions for him. The logistics are mind-boggling.  | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 4/2/2009 10:58:35 PM | Gosh people need to open their mind a bit. Thank her that she actually told yo about the ORGIES. Fess up to yourself, you are the jealous type of guy. A#1 killer in any relationship. Communication is key if you are thinking with an adult mind. Know that the relationships will go thru different phases and will have to adjust and nourish the relationship as it evolves. Learn to adapt and fulfill each others needs ( not necessarily orgies, but at least discuss what went with that....a trauma, escape?
You may be a confident man but maybe you haven't learned enough to fulfill her sexually to enjoy her completely. Attitude. Have a curious child like mind to learn new things and accept them as they are. Kids love you no matter what. If you love her, you will want to know more about her and get to a place of understanding her or helping her understand herself more.
Will you remain faithful forever? Probably not. Most men will not...you see alot of marrieds online looking..Hmmm. SO there you go. What is she supposed to do then? Dump you? Do to her what you would want her to do to you in case you slip....That is LOVE.
THINK BIG PICTURE MAN.
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 4/3/2009 2:13:49 PM |
so i guess you want sloppy seconds over and over again ehh?????
not many have been first .....its only sloppy till you wash it
te past is the past ...from my experience the virgin bride that has sown no wild oats is the first to cheat ... we who have lived recognize that there is a time for every purpose under heaven ...the wife who has had the wild times will not spend a life wondering what it would be like ..open your eyes and you will know if she has sown her wild oats ...telling you about it is a good sign she is over that life ...unless she is suggesting you join her for another orgy | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 4/3/2009 3:37:23 PM |
who cares about self respect.
i can hate myself tmrw...
I think a lot of these people who do these things actually have problems...
1... They often suffer from a lack of self-respect...
2... They often have self-esteem issues...
3... They're often over-weight or have body or appearance issues...
4... They possibly have issues with drugs or alcohol abuse
5... They were possibly abused as kids... or even as adults...
6... They tend to be easily manuipulated
7... They tend to be in denial... they think they have no issues....
8... They've done this as a plea for 'love' or 'acceptance'...
9... They've often done this as a form of 'anger'
10.. They often convince themselves that they are in control... | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/22/2009 1:41:47 PM | | Personally, I think those things should remain private. I dont like to hear about past experiences with someone I am intrested in. Now , with that said , I guess its ok without giving names , something one of your past loves did with you to your new love if it was something you enjoy and wants there input on weather they would enjoy it. I did some pretty wild things in my youth , that while it was fun at the time, I would not share , nor do I care to do all of it again. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:41:35 PM | My thought processes can NOT bend around such a thing. There is ONLY
**ONE** excuse that exists that a woman would do something like this;
she was FORCED into it by the man she LOVED. The man commands her to
do this to prove her love. She complies in a DESPERATE attempt to
prove this love. She experiences NO enjoyment from the procedure other
than the HOPEFUL pleasing of her man.
Later, for whatever reason, the relationship ended. Such a woman would
have my respect and consideration as a possible partner.
However, if she actually ENJOYED the transaction, that would KILL any
erotic attraction I may have had for her.
I am well aware that this does not directly answer your question,
simply because I have never been in such a situation. To imagine
myself in this experience would cause me extreme revulsion. I choose
not to advise you, but my personal response would be to seek another
woman and set her aside.
Msg: 205 -- I can give her a chance. Im pretty sure every guy who is
creeped out about this would gladly jump in with 3 women
Your assumptions are presumptuous. You are NOT personally acquainted
with "every guy", so you are being OFFENSIVE to those who disagree
with YOUR POV. Personally, I have NEVER done or DESIRED to do anything
other than one-on-one.
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/23/2009 1:04:06 PM | | 3-4 men at one time, maybe they were are hung like Lex Steele too- if that sorta thing bothers you, you are gonna have a hard time getting a woman being honest with you. My theory ( which is proved wrong on occasion) is that most women have done dirty nastier things with men who have bigger phallus'es than me and prolly make more money than me. A woman is with you because she wants to be- no matter her past. Im 31 and have been in more than one group sex situation also- specially when I was younger- it's not that big of a deal to me. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/23/2009 1:09:58 PM |
Should I allow this incident to prevent me from pursuing more of a relationship with this woman?
Well provided she passed her last physical without issues, I'd say go ahead and pursue a relationship with her.
From my perspective, at least she's being honest and open... so that has to be worth something in a really good way. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/23/2009 2:39:47 PM |
My thought processes can NOT bend around such a thing. There is ONLY
**ONE** excuse that exists that a woman would do something like this;
she was FORCED into it by the man she LOVED. The man commands her to
do this to prove her love. She complies in a DESPERATE attempt to
prove this love. . . .
However, if she actually ENJOYED the transaction, that would KILL any
erotic attraction I may have had for her.
Wait, so it's okay if she totally allowed herself to be manipulated sexually through emotional blackmail, but not okay if she's consciously exploring her sexuality? That strikes me as a rather twisted view. | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/23/2009 3:46:35 PM | | Starregazer....you are a little too uptite and easily offended to be in this particular thread, if you cant wrap your mind around this....dont jump in when the title says its about an orgy. But I'll revise to include you anyway.....MOST guys would have no problem jumping in with 3 willing women. And to say the only way a woman would do such a thing is if she was forced also shows you are too narrow minded for this | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/23/2009 5:34:42 PM |
I recently started seeing a woman who admitted to having an orgy with 3-4 men the last time she visited Las Vegas.
3-4?
I don't think she's telling you the whole story here.
I think you can easily tell the difference between 3 or 4 men.
Maybe she meant like 30-40 men...THAT would be kind of hard to count! | |
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| Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 6/24/2009 9:40:15 AM | If she's into me, why not? Who cares who or what she did before me? I'd certainly want to know, but more so because I if I'm going to be with a woman, I want to know what she is into. Doesn't make it or her sick minded--how many of you watch porn?--doesn't make her a girl with low self-esteem or some absurd idea like that, it makes her who she is & Goddamn, what are you worried about? That your family & friends won't approve? THAT appears to me to be a little sick. Nobody but me has any decision on who I spend my time with...& that's it. Besides, I want an open & adventurous gal.
The people who matter, understand & the people that don't understand, don't matter.
Plain & simple. | |
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