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 ***significant-other***
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 226
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That is a fowl word. It should never be spoken.
 Oakland Honey
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 227
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/13/2008 3:09:46 PM
WTF! Allowing a man to disrespect you and you just smile and take it? Oh no! He would be NEXTED so fast it would make his head swim.
 Noharley4me
Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 228
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/13/2008 3:27:45 PM
In in a previous experience or 2, hearing some guy say something that rude, loud enough to hear, I have responded.

On one occasion, I walked up to the guy who was a diminutive little fellow, looked down at him and laughed and said, "I hope you don't go to sleep before she does without hiding all the sharp Implements in your house". He was a bit surprised and wasn't sure how to take it, but his wife had a big smile for me.

Its so far off the disrespectful chart, its pathetic. A knee to the grion as a reward generally stops that behavior..
 Kixxie
Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 229
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/13/2008 3:37:12 PM

So do any women find that word cute and would stay with a guy that called you that?


No, that word is NOT cute. And I would not tolerate being disrespected like that. His backside would be kicked to the curb Godspeed!
 bcsofnc57
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 230
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/13/2008 3:46:51 PM

So basically a guy call you that and have no fear losing you. Glad that there are women like you around to keep the losers busy why I go after the quality women who don't like being called C*nts.

It's just a word. Not everyone puts the great importance on this word as many in this thread do. What exactly does the average person mean when they call someone the scary c word? I had someone tell me this word means can't understand normal thinking.

I guess the word quality has little meaning as it seems to you it means a woman who would leave a man for little or nothing. This is another leaving the toliet seat up type issue.
 kellygrl51
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 231
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 12:27:14 PM

This is another leaving the toliet seat up type issue.


I don't agree the word is disrespectful and usually said out of extreme anger...JMO
 Jazzythecat
Joined: 8/17/2008
Msg: 232
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 2:20:59 PM
No, because there would just be more verbal abuse to come.
 misshoney31
Joined: 12/10/2008
Msg: 233
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 2:27:36 PM
He'd be history and very fast! That's verbal abuse.
 starstuff942
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 234
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 4:05:02 PM
OH HELL, NO!!


It's almost a term of endearment in the UK..

Yeah, but what about "fanny"? That word is very innocuous in the states but very taboo in the UK and Oz.
 Feather Sandwich
Joined: 11/1/2008
Msg: 235
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 4:27:33 PM
I did, but I wouldn't again, I wouldn't stand for being called anything demeaning or derogatory again.

"Your Most Wonderful Preciousness, Queen of My Heart and All You Survey" is acceptable.
 ooobaby77
Joined: 8/20/2007
Msg: 236
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 4:49:48 PM
LMFAO sad how some people have no respect for themselves...... To answer your question absoutely NOT!!!! I couldn't care less if we invested 5 yrs together if he ever disrespected me like that SEE YA A**H***
 SingleTorontonian
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 237
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 5:51:03 PM
The C word is plain vulgar and uncouth. I hate the word and if I were ever called that, I'd likely drop the guy. It's extremely disrespectful.
 VivaciousVixen2010
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 238
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 6:14:21 PM
men that use the C word out of anger are abusers and have to take state programs such as Domestic Violence Intevention Project and Anger Management in addition to jail because these men don't just use the C word they also hit and kick and punch and destroy the woman's belonging's. These are severely disturbed men with very low self esteem.
 Pink Rose Lady
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 239
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 6:21:11 PM
Why would anyone want to do a dumb thing like that? Not knowing any better is not an excuse. Yuck.

Pink
 Kirota
Joined: 10/21/2008
Msg: 240
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 6:45:06 PM
You can tell me I am "acting" like a b!tch and I will be pissed, but alright
You can call me a b!tch and I will probably agree, but we will not be dating any longer. I don't call anyone names and I won't be called them.

If you call me a "cunt" you had better hide your nuts and protect your chin, because after I kick you in the nuts I am going to upper cut you in the nose. Then you will have the reason to call me a name that no woman should ever be called.....not even in anger.
 robernj
Joined: 11/3/2008
Msg: 241
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 8:55:04 PM
I don't consider myself a very old fashioned guy or anything like that, but IMO there are some words off limits. I wouldn't even talk like that in front of any female, let alone my girlfreind, let alone referencing her! I do not think you could get any more disrespectful than that, and there must be something seriously wrong with that girl.
 Happily Ever...maybe
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 242
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:07:49 PM
Like George Carlin said, it is the one you save for the end of the argument. From a guy's perspective, I know that if I ever get to the point where I call a woman that, its the last conversation I will ever have with her. And I mean by my choice, not hers, because whatever she did that got me that angry meant it was all over. I don't talk down to or curse at women in general, but I could probably count on one hand, and have digits left over, the number of times I've said that to anyone in my life.
 Indigo rose
Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 243
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:13:35 PM
Nobody has has lived to tell about it.
Words are just words..sheesh do men get all bent when you call them dicks? Nope..because they are proud of that dick that's why! But call them a c*nt and see how they react,
 CourtneyP
Joined: 12/10/2008
Msg: 244
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:17:53 PM
he probably hits her too....forget that. Why waste your time on someone who has no respect for you? Lifes too short
 Missilee
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 245
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:46:21 PM
If i guy said that to me.. i'm telling u .. i would THROW his money on the ground.. and say order your own damn food.. and have a really F***KD UP DAY .. then he he kept swearing and embarressing HIMSELF.. i would LOUDLY SAY... listen i do not want to have sex with you.. PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE.. and the amount of people who turn around will embaress the CRAP out of him lol
 Barbarella36
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 246
 shananana
Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 247
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:17:50 PM
hell no..i would immediately break it off..if i show respect to any man he damn well must show it back.. if a man ever called me that he would end up with a fist mark on his face...and no girl lol
 Braddl1
Joined: 9/22/2008
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/15/2008 11:00:33 AM

It's just a word. Not everyone puts the great importance on this word as many in this thread do. What exactly does the average person mean when they call someone the scary c word? I had someone tell me this word means can't understand normal thinking.


All the guys that I know who have called women this were also abusive in some other ways towards her. IMO it just shows a total lack of repsect for her. It might just be a word, but it's a word that losers use to hurt and humiliate women.

I myself could never be with woman that allowed a guy to call her that and remain with him. To me, it just shows that she lacks a healthy self respect and that in itself is not attractive.


I guess the word quality has little meaning as it seems to you it means a woman who would leave a man for little or nothing. This is another leaving the toliet seat up type issue.


If I ever got to the point of calling a woman that, I deserve to have my ass kicked by her, my mom and my sisters. I have done stupid things and women have made me angry. But never once have a I stooped so low to call a woman that. It just shows me how pathetic the guy really is. But hey, if you want to stay with a guy like that, then it's your choice.

It just means that there will be a lot less women that he called a c*nt in the future. Thanks for the sacrifice. LOL.
 ladydi8
Joined: 1/28/2006
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/16/2008 2:59:15 AM
when a feller talks like that he aint anybody i want in my life anyhow....even if he apologizes later that foul mouth will eventually run off again,..and again...and again...from the depths of the heart the mouth with speak and if that kinda garbage is in his heart its gonna come out eventually...


...i would prolly get myself in trouble hittin him over tha head with a skillet before long if he kept talkin like that...best thing to do is get rid of him ....and get a good dcg for companionship...after all you can get the dog fixed so he dont get a wonderin eye, and he dont cuss like a sailor and if he does make you mad you can always tie the dog up....at least the dog understands it's punishment when you give him a swat on the butt and tie him up!
 Validar
Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 250
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/16/2008 4:01:49 AM
Personally, I despise the word and have never used it to insult a woman.

However, not everyone is going to find it abusive. I know a couple that's been together for ten years, and they find amusement in thinking of the most vulgar names possible to call each other. They don't do it in anger, either. They do it to make each other laugh.

In fact, I know them both well enough to know that if either of them asked the other to not to use a word, they would willingly refrain.

The bottom line is, they are the happiest couple I know. They're always laughing and they're miserable when they're not together.

Sure, some may say they're immature, but again, they are happy, and as hard as genuine happiness is to obtain in this day and age, I'm not going to question their usage of a word.

It's all about the intent.
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