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 Childlike Wonder
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 276
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Yikes, did he really? I must have forgotten that part. I always loved that movie. I've hiked around the area where it was filmed many times.
 ExMtlr
Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 277
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/25/2008 9:22:15 PM
Was I being unrealistic to have hoped the word in question was "CUTE" ? I thought so :(

Any man who calls a girl a c***, should expect a swift, harsh response from her and would deserve to never see her again. Verbal abuse not to be tolerated by anyone. Simple as that!!
 storm55
Joined: 11/16/2008
Msg: 278
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/26/2008 11:16:53 AM
I once saw a profile of a young woman on another site. She had lots of photos and one image with white text on a red background. Just one word, C***, all in capital letters. I couldn't understand why an attractive young woman would have something like that as part of her photo array, so I asked about it. Her reply stated, "That's what I am". I told her no, she was not, and asked where she got that notion in the beginning. She said having it there was funny! I never got a straight answer, when I did get an answer. I suspected a severe case of low self-esteem, or maybe even abuse of some kind. All this was about six months ago, and I lost track after a while. All I can remember now is that she was in Pennsylvania somewhere, but the name is lost now. Faces I remember, but not names.
 sunny snow storm
Joined: 12/21/2008
Msg: 279
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/26/2008 6:58:05 PM
he has no respect and she is a stupid C***, it sounds like they deserve each other.
 irrisist
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 280
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/26/2008 7:03:25 PM
Let us now introduce the Christmas spirit? - What would Shakespeare have said? -

- "A rose by any other name smells just as sweet"
 Kareeza
Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 281
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 9:17:48 AM
the C word...is found in many cultures and was originally from the river...
Cunnet in England( nowKennet)...where Pirestesses of the OLD religions had their sacred wells...those of the new religions named these women "vile cvnts...."
(also in LAtin as someone has said..cunabula(cradle).((.KUNTE(Africa)...)
...cunning comes from this=knowledge

to be called a cvnt now is a derogatory...thing in western society...combining ingrained learned..habitual hatred of womyn POWER and using slang for genitalia to..
demean someone....just as one would say dic etc...

In Holland...cvnt is at the end of many sentences and is NOT derogatory..it is an ending to a sentence...like the CA ... eh??
We have NO IDEA about the dynamics of the relationship in question..

My husband called me a witch and old hag/bag as an indearing title....sooooooo??


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 JackDiamond312
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 282
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 9:40:31 AM
I'm thinking this C word is used mostly when someone is upset and disrespectful, Just like the N word and there are many others. If these words are in someone's vocabulary... even if it is only when heated... I believe there could be some other deep rooted issues that may surface as well.

Using these words makes someone seem very uneducated and creepy.

Just a thought.
 ubergeekazoid
Joined: 11/23/2005
Msg: 283
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 9:41:52 AM
yeah f-ing right! I'd f him up...
 JohnEDeep
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 284
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 10:22:47 AM
Cupcakes?

What's in a word? All words are just a collection of one or more phonetics...any meaning is up for interpretation. What is to one person a 'dirty' word can be a term of endearment to another.

It cracks me up when censorship replaces one word for another, yet the intent remains. For example..."Fvck you, man!" becomes "Forget you, man!" Does anyone actually believe the speaker literally means they wish to forget someone? Nope, the intent is clear, and our minds replace 'forget' with the appropriate substitute.

George Carlin pretty much sums up the whole subject.

As for 'cupcakes', what some of us interpret as a yummy dessert can be slang used in place of another, more notorious 'C' word. Isn't the Urban Dictionary wonderful?

For the record: I love cupcakes.
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 285
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 10:44:58 AM

So do any women find that word cute and would stay with a guy that called you that?


Wow dude, i can't believe that he called her 'stupid'. lol
 beadonna
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 286
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 11:52:49 AM

Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?


unfortunately, i did, for many years

men who use this name have much bigger problems, as does the person
that is subject to it..........someone who spouts this bile is a very angry and abusive person

i know through experience

i would never again allow it; he would be gone.......unfortunately, with my ex, i didn't know a way out............and the c word was the least of it

not to be tolerated; there is alot more, verbal and otherwise, where that came from
 sweety210
Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 287
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 12:41:24 PM
no wouldn't. exspecially in public but to not casue a scene in public i would of probably did what she did then when we got outside or in the car i would of told him to go to heck.
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 288
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 12:58:22 PM
Maybe the truth hurts alot of women.
 SweetSmartNSassy2
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 289
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:03:17 PM
limaj34, your last comment on here is in direct opposition to what's on your profile. here you come off pretty unkind. well, truth will out, won't it?
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 290
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:10:17 PM

limaj34, your last comment on here is in direct opposition to what's on your profile. here you come off pretty unkind. well, truth will out, won't it?


If YOU can just admit it, maybe it wouldn't hurt you so much.
 SweetSmartNSassy2
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 291
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:23:06 PM
limaj34, and what am I supposed to be admitting? maybe you should admit you're a guy who hates women, no matter what your profile says.
 paymax
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 292
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 1/6/2009 7:14:53 AM
This has to be said... and for all you that feel the need to come back with some scathing remark, save it; I won't be checking for responses.

It's just an effing word, and the reason it's so powerfully "painful" for some of you is because you allow it to be.

Me?
I LOVE it.

Way to be a bunch of tools.
 123helen123
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 293
 nocatchyname
Joined: 1/15/2007
Msg: 294
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 1/7/2009 2:29:27 PM
^^Haha, nice.

At first I thought the OP may have come into contact with a guy I work with. His wife loves the "c word" and uses it a lot. So him calling her a stupid cvnt wouldn't be much of an insult or anything. It's actually quite a laugh to watch how they bicker back and forth.

I know quite a few women that it wouldn't bother actually. Most of them have a fairly fowl mouth themselves though, *shrugs*.

I actually agree with Paymax, and anyone else who said it's just a word, same with a lot of insults. Just remember, the saying "sticks and stones may break your bones, but names can never hurt you" is only true as long as you don't let the names hurt you.
 MzBigNSexy1
Joined: 6/12/2006
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 1/7/2009 2:41:00 PM

I know quite a few women that it wouldn't bother actually. Most of them have a fairly fowl mouth themselves though


Hey , i may be able to defend myself like a potty mouth but I'm still a lady. the word just doesnt offend me .
 ohthereugo
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 296
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 1/7/2009 2:49:13 PM
Shit dont come to Australia if dont dont like that word lol


Have you seeN the add so where the hell are you Inviting English and Americans to Tour Australia

Teenagers in Oz favorite saying so where the hell are these c----





I KNOW IKNOW AUSSIES SWEAR ALOT .
 TALLDARKNHNSM4U
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 297
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 1/7/2009 5:41:44 PM
It depends on what she calls him first ? It might be justified .
 sunbonnet
Joined: 11/15/2008
Msg: 298
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 2/2/2009 9:37:53 PM
Uh.. NO. That is actually on my "deal killer" list. And for all those woman who claim they would kick or hit the guy... uh... hello, if he is willing to call you that he is more than a little likely to hit you back. Better make sure the first blow downs him.
 beelover
Joined: 12/19/2008
Msg: 299
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 2/2/2009 10:02:24 PM
First of all there is never an excuse for poor manners (yelling at her in the food court) and secondly he would be history and missing a few vital extremeties by the time I got through with him!!! I'm afraid if I'd heard that in person I would have been right in the middle of both of them, him for saying it and her for taking it. If she is that STUPID to take such abuse then we may be hearing about them on the 6 o'clock news.
 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 2/2/2009 10:17:00 PM
HELL NO!!! My ex husband use to do that, then wondered, gee when he wanted to re-marry me, how could he convince me that he loved me?? As Carlos Mencia would put it "DEE-DEE-DEE!!!"
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