| | Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him? Page 8 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | [qoute] Can you cite where the OP claims he screamed it loudly? from the way he described it, it appeared as though he was either in line or in their immediate vacinity. If he yelled it, and the entire food court stopped in horror, then yes it was inconsiderate. Ignorant? Well that is up to interpretation.
Well didn't scream it at the top of his lungd, but he did say it loudly enough that all of us around himdid hear it. As I have stated before, I was in line directly behind them. He didn't whisper it, but said it loud and clear and in an angry tone.
I thought the dude was an Idiot and so did the others that heard him say it to her. | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 11/24/2008 10:15:35 AM | Whether he uses the "c" word or any other words to show his discontent is not acceptable in private or in public, the point is the fact that he is disrespecting and verbally abusing the young lady in question, and what is to say he doesn't "punish" her later for saying he was cute for cussing.
He would have been wearing his food and I would have walked away.... | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 11/28/2008 3:56:56 PM | | hi... personally I would die if my b/f called me that in public or any where else... thanks to the media men can say and do anything to women/girls so women/girls are desensitized to verbal and even physical abuse from an early age on... fathers who call their wives names in front of their children are setting the standard so low that the children do not even know that its a problem.. same goes for moms setting low standards, our kids learn more at home than what we probably choose to believe... kids are a product of their environment so if we judge them as having thinking errors, we as their guides and role models will need to own up to it as well... blessings to our youth that they may have higher standards to aim for, warmly Mona | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 11/30/2008 3:52:14 AM | | Any man or woman who has to use crude,vulger ways ,not just words to communicate is disrespecting himself and her,,him/her for saying it,,,him or her for allowing it,,,anytime one has to use any type of insulting actions or words,,,they are not just disrespecting themselves equaly,,,but everyone else around them,,,it certianly is NOT class nor manners,,nor respect to anyone to use such demeaning activites,,,Have a great day,,Dave:) | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/1/2008 2:14:40 AM | | Op incause you didnt notice it are/can be weird! some of them actually LOVES it when a guy acts that way towards them because it shows he is a tough macho manly man who is aggressive and doesnt allow the woman to control him etc..however this trait is usually portrayed by younger women..i bet the girl was young right?..however, unfortunately some women never grow up and still continue to behave like that until they are grey and old! | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/1/2008 12:23:21 PM | *GASP!* *CHOKE!*
You mean to say that he actually walked out of there upright?!
I most certainly would take offense at the term 'stupid'....NOBODY calls me that!....
As far as the 'c' word....in private, used behind bedrooms doors...oops, too much info!
In public, used to denigrate the person that the "c" is attached to, nope, no way would I tolerate that.
Interesting. In other languages there are many other words and descriptions made for that area of a woman's body...and used in the 'affectionate' sense. My favorite being the Brazilian Portuguese word meaning "honey pot". Can't envision someone yelling at me in a food court "You stupid, honey pot!" It just would not have the same effect. | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/1/2008 12:49:44 PM | Ok let's put some perspective on this: I think as an insult it's totally out of order and would never think of doing that myself BUT ... devils advocate time ... we're not that couple and I have no idea in what way he said it to her. For all we know it was a bit of a joke between them: I had an ex once who was talking about a friend with her girlfriend and she called her a tw a t (not sure if that translated in the USA - it's technically an alternative way of saying c**t but it can also mean you're an idiot - as in "you did that wrong, you tw*t!!") - I just happened to be looking at her at that moment in time and she was horrified and said "Oh God, I didn't mean YOU!!" - from then on whenever we messed around or got pretend-annoyed with each other she or I would say "you tw*t" and it was a standing joke.
Aaaaanyway, I'm rambling. All I'm saying is that for all we know it was one of those phrases - ok a bit less 'fun' than others can be (actually a whole lot less fun if I'm honest!!) but it's possible.
If not then he's an ignorant scumbag and needs a good slap. Mind you, if she puts up with him calling her that then she's probably the type who'd slap YOU for having a go at him for verbally abusing her! | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/1/2008 2:00:59 PM | I suppose different English speaking cultures have different attitudes to the word. A bloke once called me that in a pub. I hit him; then he hit me back. I hit him again. Then I got barred from the pub. In my particular culture (British), it's an insult. Not even as a joke would I call someone that. Not even in sexual gameplay (I vaguely remember what that is) would I use it. It is an insult; Full stop.
By the way, can someone tell me what a New York Minute is? I assume it's either a lot more or a lot less than a standard minute. Which is it and why New York? | |
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| Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 12/1/2008 4:14:51 PM | Is that "cute" or "cuddly" ????........ 
Either way, it works for me, just as long as that person understands the intent of any word stated and received.
Just like using pu*sy instead of vagina, or c*ck instead of penis, twit instead of twat, ding instead of dong.......   All a matter of intent and interpretation.
There are some words and statements that should be kept to oneself, and this word is one of them, but unfortunately for some, it will be used out of context.....
Just my opinion........   | |
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