| | WOULD SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN MEN TO MEPage 2 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | Since you asked, let me try. Most men dont make any dang sense. If their lips are moving you can pretty well be sure they are lying. Their words very rarely match their actions. Also, most of them just chatter on nonsensically in between the lying. just get used to the fact that we share this planet with some odd beings.
i hope that clears it up for ya.
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Posted: 11/30/2008 2:39:45 PM | In the wise words of Randy from The Last Lecture---
FORGET what they SAY--- WATCH what they DO!
Actions speak louder than words and more time than not.... | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 3:09:46 PM |
Most men dont make any dang sense. If their lips are moving you can pretty well be sure they are lying. Their words very rarely match their actions. Also, most of them just chatter on nonsensically in between the lying.
Wow, nothing like a bitter man-hating generalization to ensure you won't be catching any dreams anytime soon! Did you ever consider you're the one who's attracted to those types? Nice attitude!
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Posted: 11/30/2008 3:41:28 PM | hey dream...
Just finished reading your profile.
i live a simple life and am looking for someone to complicate the hell out of it.
Careful what you ask for dear...might just get it 
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Posted: 11/30/2008 3:46:56 PM | FORGET what they SAY--- WATCH what they DO!
Actions speak louder than words and more time than not....
Agreed. And that works BOTH ways
Paul ;) | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 4:44:06 PM | Well, I guess he was not the man he should have been. He should have said what he wanted and what he was looking for or not looking for. To be honest, we all want sex and not a serious relationship in the begining, then something happens, and the relationship thing happens. But he was not ready for you yet, and was afraid to admit it. So he ran like, well a fowl (CHICKEN) or a dog with his tail between his legs. I think he was a coward or a dud, but do not let that cause you to give up, you are worth more than that. The telephone number thing is a power play, well guys you know what I mean uh, a little boy thing. If you want sex then say I am looking for sex not a relationship, then both parties could move on. Have sex or not it is a mature decision, you have to choose as the woman, he can not make that choice the two of you should make that DECISION, only you can really. I am baffaled about his stupidity.
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Posted: 11/30/2008 4:45:52 PM | To the OP...what will you do when the next one does the same thing?....it is really time to move on....delete him from your messenger contacts...and stop worrying about it..
Not for the OP..
to the others:  watch out for people who spell almost every other word improperly or post pics that almost sorta don't look like the gender listed....i smell a skunk.. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 4:50:49 PM | What do you mean? The girl speakes the truth, the guy was a jerk! He freaked, for the moment, this could change. We all make that mistake of being scared. Or a coward, in the heat of things. He could change be the man he wants to be, then have a relationship. I think he wanted sex and did not not how to say to her " I only want sex", not a relationship.
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Posted: 11/30/2008 5:01:03 PM | I think your desired commentes are somewhat indifferent, you should to be more liberal about men. After all we are from another planet than you are from.
I wonder wht your response will be. You are liberal, how liberal?
Umh,
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Posted: 11/30/2008 5:48:33 PM | Poor you
you were very unlucky. The guy was too immature and probably too shy to say anything. If you want my trick on how not to get burned,I don't chat for more than once or twice. It serves no purpose. This is a place where we want to MEET,not chat.
People have a tendancy to hide behing virtual reality,and that is a fact. It's good for men and women.
Good luck next time
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Posted: 11/30/2008 6:23:03 PM | Well, I guess he was not the man he should have been. He should have said what he wanted and what he was looking for or not looking for. To be honest, we all want sex and not a serious relationship in the begining, then something happens, and the relationship thing happens. But he was not ready for you yet, and was afraid to admit it. So he ran like, well a fowl (CHICKEN) or a dog with his tail between his legs. I think he was a coward or a dud, but do not let that cause you to give up, you are worth more than that. The telephone number thing is a power play, well guys you know what I mean uh, a little boy thing. If you want sex then say I am looking for sex not a relationship, then both parties could move on. Have sex or not it is a mature decision, you have to choose as the woman, he can not make that choice the two of you should make that DECISION, only you can really. I am baffaled about his stupidity.
I want sex just as much as anyone else and to tell you the truth, I probably would have had sex with him just not the first time we see each other but I was very attracted to him and really wanted to have sex with him. I know he never will but I wish he would just say, you know I wanted sex and thought that you didnt and then we could have communicated and straightened it out and hopefully things wouldnt have ended like if did. I dont know, if he had just waited for awhile, he would have had more sex than he could have stood. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 6:25:21 PM | Wow, nothing like a bitter man-hating generalization
I dont generalize all men the same, everyone is different, I know that and I accept that. I dont even think he is a bad person, I think he got scared and chickened out and ran. If he had talked to me, we could have communicated and things would have been different. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 6:29:09 PM | What do you mean? The girl speakes the truth, the guy was a jerk! He freaked, for the moment, this could change. We all make that mistake of being scared. Or a coward, in the heat of things. He could change be the man he wants to be, then have a relationship. I think he wanted sex and did not not how to say to her " I only want sex", not a relationship.
I wish he would change, I really like him. I think he got scared and bolted or just didnt know what to say, so he took the easy way out and ran. I would forgive him if he asked and would try it again but with the realization that he could do it again. Only he knows the truth of the situation and only he can clear it up. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 6:38:20 PM | | Actually, this guy was a real jerk and the fact his colors came out early, saved you time, as he was perhaps looking for something from the Christmas party. To sit on Santa's knee? Anyway, you have spent enough time worrying about it, and as we don't have best buy stores here in Australia, I think in time, he wouldn't have been a bargain at all. Good riddance to the nuffy that lost his way I say. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 7:22:22 PM |
To be honest, we all want sex and not a serious relationship in the begining, then something happens, and the relationship thing happens. 
I, for one, do not want sex right away with anyone even if I am spectacularly attracted to them. It only leads to problems I think.
Maybe when people are either young, naive or extremely foolish are they that shallow to want sex right away. Of course, for some people that is all that matters. Perhaps I tend to take a more cerebral approach but a man must have a genuinely interesting mind if he wishes me to find him attractive enough to want to sleep with and that is usually only after serious consideration on my part.
Sure, I have given in to temptation in the past but more from loneliness than from wanting sex right away.
My main thought on this though is that the relationship thing 'happens' after sex. No wonder the world of dating is so messed up. The relationship should start to develop before the sex thing.
I don't mean to get of the topic of our friend's post here but that statement gave me pause to think that this is exactly why there are such differences between men and women and why women are still the main target of objectification by men.
Perhaps because I am planning a career in academics I ponder a bit more intellectually about these sorts of ideologies before making such broad sweeping statements. Please do not be offended but honestly, not all of us want to get laid just because we accept a date with someone. We want something more extraordinary than that to paraphrase Bridget Jones.
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Posted: 11/30/2008 7:40:48 PM | | thank you.. for your comment about my pics. i really aprectcate it.i wrote here to offer my opinion. and exposed myself to share a fellow feeling. not to be attacked about my pics.. of course i can take it. but i dont think i should be the topic of the discussion. i would never say or do anything to hurt someones feelings. but i know all people are different. in my pictures i am trying to bring back the glamour yrs when stars where more the human. to remember when we were young and lovely. i have had many people men and women say the same things they really like the photos. to me a good picture is a good picture and there arent to many out there anymore. i love art and have always loved famous artists work. a lovely women is timeless. i want to capture this with men and couples to . it has nothing to do with sex at all. its making our fantasys come alive. scarlett and red , bergman and bogart. gable and lomabard. back to our friends probelm . she.ll be ok. i find thur every experience even if its abad one if you have learned something from it then it wsnt a complete waste. learn from everything in life. what have you learned from this experience. from mine i did nothing wrong somethng was wrong with him. some people got issues. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 9:17:46 PM | | Comforyou, please take no notice, INDIVIDUALITY intimidates people, scares them so they attack attack attack...have had it from the day I was born, try and get used to it darling....cos unless you conform to the drab, mundane, and boring, it is always going to be the same. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 9:42:05 PM | | Personally I like Comforyou pic's. There is nothing wrong with being a beautiful, sexy woman and flaunting that. You go girl. There was nothing slutty or dirty about those pics. To me they were in good taste and very sexy. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 10:04:44 PM |
Comforyou, please take no notice, INDIVIDUALITY intimidates people, scares them so they attack attack attack...have had it from the day I was born, try and get used to it darling....cos unless you conform to the drab, mundane, and boring, it is always going to be the same.
you're kidding me right? i am not the least bit intimidated, I'm just amused and mostly bewildered as to why a woman would post such racy profile pics, have a username that sounds like 'cum for you', then wonders why a man she was with had sex with her, then dashed out to his car to "get something" and never came back LOL. If you present quality, you'll attract quality. If you give the distinct impression, by profile pics and username that you're all about sex, what kind of man do you think you'll attract? You'll attract the kind who's looking for easy sex, so easy that he doesn't even roll over and say goodnight after the deed is done; instead he rolls on out the door because he got what he came for, what was 'advertised.'
if you come across as easy, don't complain when you don't get any respect. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 10:14:24 PM | I love Bridget Jones...might change my name to hers.
I spoke to a guy today and he wanted to cam so I did. He then doesn't open his camera so I closed mine. He called me the whore on messenger, "from my suburb" and wait for it gals....accused ME of wasting his time. Yes they are out there and when I came back on still was going at it hammer and tong. I said "So, I guess this is your definition of foreplay"
Went to block and he has removed him himself of fish.....couldn't handle it. One less.
So be pleasant guys, as that is what we are looking for "something a little more extraordinary".
Not something that hasn't evolved and is closer to "neanderthol". Because, we as women have, very much so. Stop doing the dumb things. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 10:16:34 PM | If you present quality, you'll attract quality. If you give the distinct impression, by profile pics and username that you're all about sex, what kind of man do you think you'll attract? You'll attract the kind who's looking for easy sex, so easy that he doesn't even roll over and say goodnight after the deed is done; instead he rolls on out the door because he got what he came for, what was 'advertised.'
Well I think that I presented quality and look what I got. Im not disagreeing or agreeing with this post, all Im saying is.....people pull out what they want and leave the rest. I liked her pics, they were sexy to me but they didnt intimidate me or make me think she was easy.
All I ever wanted was honesty. If all he wanted was sex, so be it, he could have said that and then I could have made a decision and we could have went from there. Maybe I would have, maybe not but now he will never know because he wasnt honest or he was scared or something. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 10:19:10 PM | Another one. If a guy acts dumb, guess I should roll outta his bed and wipe it on his curtains and say hey, you deserve to be treated the way you advertise yourself. Dumb.
Give me a break. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2008 11:47:23 PM | As much as we can't explain one an other...
half the intrigue of being with each other is the mystery of the unexplained!
Funny us humans... | |
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