| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 11:20:44 AM | | For all men who have had their Man card revoked or removed.... I provide re validation for a fee of $1000 as a one time service charge.... Please remit in cash and contact me here for details.... You will be provided a certificate of completion to attach to your man card should you get challenged in the future... Satisfaction guaranteed!!! | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 12:29:20 PM | A.S.1s SAID:
yeah .. we know .. and we do love y'all .. but you know, if you stop hiding those feeling thingies (cuz that's lots of what we want) ((some of us)).. well you big hairy man creatures just might get a little more "Feelin' " .. if you show yer feelings . .. if you know what I mean .. ;)
in a nutshell - give us your feelings .. we might give you a feel.
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The problem with that is that many women will come back with the same sh*t that we were bombarded with growing up ("be a man not a wimp!") when we do let our feelings out and display them. I can't speak for everyone but I know that I had a lot of trouble with how to show them to a woman and not beat myself up for it. Today I realize that we all have those soft and tender feelings and protect them well. Women are just as bad as men maybe for different reasons but with the same results. How many of you will bolt and run when someone shows you there feelings or talks about love. Are they saying that now you have to love them? No in most cases they are just sharing how they feel. It doesn't obligate you to anything. It is just scary because you feel like maybe you need to do a little uncovering yourself. Unfortunatly because of pain in the past when someone has stepped on them many people both men and women have great trouble letting them out again. What most people don't realize is that the periods in your life that you grow the most are at those times when you are most vulnerable and let your tender side hang out for all to see. Sometimes it is the great pain that makes you grow and sometimes it is great joy. God really gave us a gift by giving us these soft, tender feelings and the more that we can share them the larger people we become.
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 12:51:06 PM | the biggest thing all men want is to know someone cares about them.
That's very true OP, but IMO, the first thing appealing and enticing to any man is to be a d m i r e d ... and cherished. Caring in true essence comes later.
I'm not sure - showing his strength in anger - is the best description but you might feel that way OP. Perhaps, anger is a result of his frustration, yet more refined kind of man is able to handle his frustration in more palatable way.
There it is the "great mystery of man"
To me OP, behind "the great mystery of man" is either the mysterious lady in his life or his vision and deeds of finding his 'Lady in Red'.  | |
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Posted: 12/3/2008 2:13:55 PM | I don't want back in the man club. Friggin rather rot in hell then be in another place considered to be a sausage fest. Brings me back to college frat party days. Oh yes, there were too many men and not enough women there TOO. Friggin 1 to 5 ratio of men on here.  | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 2:23:15 PM |
Friggin 1 to 5 ratio of men on here
Is it really? In real life, there are more unattached women than men, at least in Canada according to the stats, and I would vouch for that in my reality. Don't complain. Just move to Canada. I think there's something in our drinking water that produces more female babies than males. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 3:26:21 PM | | ^^^ It's not the water, it's all the loser males there - just the way evolution works: alphas tend to father sons (as copies of a winning model), while omegas make girls (oops - better try something else). It's pretty obvious when you think about it a sec. And, yes, you can look it up if you're the skeptical type. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 5:19:53 PM | | All right, I'm reading this and thinking.. wah wah wah. Quit your whining. OMG! I see that real men act more macho when hurt. We aren't taught how to show emotions. Well, let me tell you. I was raised by an army drill sargent (old school) I have 5 sisters, and yes I am very feminine. We were not allowed to cry in public, we had to be as strong as any boy, and probably meaner. Now, I am very feminine, I cry when I feel the need (sometimes for no apparent reason). What you are taught at home and what you've learned by life, should show you that emotions aren't just for women. Now, go dry your eyes, quit getting all**** and fluffing the feathers, and be a real human! | |
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tort2
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Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 86 | |
| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 6:14:56 PM | | Instead of just getting angry and showing your displeasure, why not just walk away from any woman who disrespect you? After all, if you get right down to it, its the women who need the men, not the other way around (thank God for strippers). | |
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bub84
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Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 89 | |
| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 7:59:37 PM | "lighthearted fun"
My cousin and I had a treehouse when we were kids. Girls weren't alowed... no BS... until he kissed one... Now that's breaking the man code 
Spanky was my hero 
I call it the "private den" complex. Every man has a corner in the world he stakes for himself.... an emotional corner I mean....
or how about....
"You want to know me.... can't change me, baby...."
You can't revoke revoke my membership...  I built this club house | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/3/2008 8:38:05 PM | ColonelIngus If you knew anything about how the sex of a child is determined, you would know it is governed by how close the woman is to ovulating when she has sex. Male sperm swim faster, die quicker, female swim slower, live longer. Therefore if the woman is close to ovulating, she will have a boy. When they started using artificial insemination, women were impregnated as close to ovulation as possible, resulting in an extremely high percentage of boys. Also, the alkalinity, or acidity of the vagina at the time is more favorable to one sex than the other, though at the moment I don't remember which is which. For more info , refer to the book "How to determine the Sex of Your Child" so you can take you macho/wussy theory and stuff it! javascript:smilie('')
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Posted: 12/3/2008 9:39:55 PM | Like way too few of the men on this forum, I am saddened and angered beyond words at the insinutation that you can just "turn in your card."
What's the First Rule of Fight Club? YOU NEVER DISCUSS FIGHT CLUB!!!!
Now there is only one option. Man Law is unyielding. I would not expect mercy from the court, either....don't believe the drivel that these love-starved emo swine are espousing! For God's sake, man the f*** up!!! | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 12:58:38 AM | | NHCowboy, no need to turn in your membership card, most intellegent women already know this about men. I agree that beyond the sexual cravings and appetite of desire, many men and women are looking for the same intimate connection. We all have a need to desire and be desired, to be that someone special to another person. We all want to be loved, appreciated, respected, cared for, and being allowed to give the same back to the someone special in our life. However, there are some men and women who are so damaged from a past relationship, that they are unable to trust again, and I think that is the reason for the hate and bitterness. | |
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Sefra
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Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 93 | |
| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 1:42:46 AM | LOL yeah right.... you make it sound as though men have feelings...lol good one! For a second there...I almost bought it... | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 6:12:35 AM | ^^^ We don't? So that joy I felt when I take my pictures is fake? That anger I felt at my ex for leading me on for three months was fake? That sadness I felt when my father passed was fake?
Dayum! I didn't realize all my feelings were all made out of plastic. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 11:12:00 AM |
^^^ It's not the water, it's all the loser males there - just the way evolution works: alphas tend to father sons (as copies of a winning model), while omegas make girls (oops - better try something else). It's pretty obvious when you think about it a sec. And, yes, you can look it up if you're the skeptical type.
yes, yes, Mr. Cunnilingus..and a 'huge stud' like you has fathered NO-ONE by age 46?
maybe you are too busy LICKING ..and doing nothing else?
hint : ya can't father a child using your TONGUE!! Colonel Ingus..no psermies coming out of your mouth..(WE HOPE!!! )
good luck with that then. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 11:15:36 AM | *takes notes*..
Interesting....thanks for the man-info..since your card is revoked, do you pee sitting down now?
LMFAOOOOOOOO@
yes, yes, Mr. Cunnilingus..and a 'huge stud' like you has fathered NO-ONE by age 46?
good luck with that then.
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 3:41:06 PM |
I guess now I have to turn in my membership card..
Isn't your wang your membership card? Hate to have to turn that in, I'd imagine.
There it is the "great mystery of man"
So there's only one great mystery about men? Bummer. I would've thought that the men-folk are just as layered as women are.
don't believe the drivel that these love-starved emo swine are espousing!
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 3:52:44 PM | Sabre
[what complete and unmitigated bullshit. men care first and foremost about pretty + sex. if they can get that, only THEN are they willing to start thinking about whether or not pretty + sex lady actually cares about them. alas, pretty + sex lady often does not give a rat's ass about them for very long, because you're no different than any other guy out there lusting after her parts. she can pick & choose and try them all on for size until the cows come home. ]
It is people like you that I feel bad for...you make assumptions and generalizations based on your bad experiences and then you apply them to every one. I had a relationship with a woman who was into nothing but money, and all she wanted to know was who could buy her the most expensive stuff, and didn't give a Sh*t about anyone....so based on your philosophy you (and every woman out there) are just like her huh?
As far as you saying all men think about sex firs...WRONG! The woman I have spoken about here was gorgeous so ya wanna explain why I saw her every single evening, sometimes travelling 40 miles one way to see her, and sometimes laying beside her till she fell asleep and then driving back home. Again FOR THREE MONTHS...I never did anything more than giving her a massage from time to time and never asking for anything in return, actually she offered a few times within the first two months and I refused. I wanted to get to know her, I don't need sex for that. | |
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custis
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 100 | |
| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 4:09:27 PM | I do not necessarily agree with everything you say though you make a couple of good points, especially when you talk about how men are taught not to show weakness. There are average behavioral paradigms (sp) that the majority of men tend to fit into, but there are also a lot of men out there who do not fit into the gilded cages of behavioral theory, a big reason why so many psychologists do drugs. We ALL want to know that someone cares about us, whether we are male or female. However, that does not mean that we will love that person. It is not that simple. Another thing to bear in mind is that both sexes are driven far more by sex than they want to believe.
I am fifty yrs old and college educated with a healthy dose of psychology and many years of sharp observation of the human condition. I am very capable of standing on my own alone and have been doing so for quite a few years. I am not bitter in any way, but I am a realist and I say it as it is. That tends to make me rather unpopular on forums such as these because a lot of people do not necessarily want the truth. They want enablement for the behaviors that cause their problems. | |
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