| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 5:49:45 PM | OH LORD!
ENOUGH of the psychoanalysis. Of course men think about sex first and foremost. It's called procreation of the species! It's primal! It's innate! And, by the way, males NATURALLY want to procreate with women that have desirable attributes." No, please let me have babies with the "worst." All I want is an ugly, weak, stupid baby!!! There's an attitude that would not have worked out so well for our ancestral forefathers!
"I just want to be next to her. I don't care about sex! Just spending time with her is all I need." ---> that's great, make sure you don't cry when she comes over to my house to **** me!!! Oh by the way, we are making fun of you, too! Just to let you know. Either man up or be prepared to get punked! | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 6:08:08 PM | Oh FFS!
Really,.. the OP is just the most tedious, and OLD excuse rehashed yet again, to excuse men from being real human beings. I do not believe, for one second, that men in general are walking talking rage machines, that 'fear' their feelings.. and need to lash out in fear, like some sort of caged animal.
Oooh yes, it must be very scarey, being cornered by some big bad female, who's asking you to show or explain how you're feeling. Good Lord, how ridiculous.
You know what this really is? I hate to say it, but the Op has compelled me to tell my truth as I see it.. most men dont really give a damn, about anyones feelings but their own. They're disassociated, selfish,.. and find it all too easy to shut down, rather than actually care about anything or anybody around them.
My opinion of most men has for a long time been that they have some bloody design fault, some flaw in their biological make up, that turns them into slightly socially challenged, un caring selfish idiots. Stone like in their ability to filter out anyones pain other than their own.
Nothing now could convince me otherwise.
i've seen too many men express their 'feelings' through childish, peevish dramatic displays of anger and aggression. it gets old, and tedious.
There are however, some rare men who seem to have overcome this unfortunate evolutionary tendency towrards being a d***,... and they are fully fledged human beings,.. with the ability to care for someone.. and have selfless thoughts.. and can love and talk about how they feel, and everything.
I recommend that women breed with these types of enlightened men.. if they feel like breeding,.. and weed out the ' Homo habilis' men, once and for all.
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 7:06:18 PM | Hey, I know what FFS stands for!
I am going to try to answer your assertions in an enlightened fashion:
My opinion of most men has for a long time been that they have some bloody design fault, some flaw in their biological make up, that turns them into slightly socially challenged, un caring selfish idiots. Stone like in their ability to filter out anyones pain other than their own. Well, duh! Who has the time or inclination to do that??? Take care of your business and leave other peoples' drama/trama/feelings about their mama alone. There are however, some rare men who seem to have overcome this unfortunate evolutionary tendency towrards being a d***,... and they are fully fledged human beings,.. with the ability to care for someone.. and have selfless thoughts.. and can love and talk about how they feel, and everything
Yes ma'am, there are such men. They are called fags.
Hope this helps! Happy day!
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 8:39:54 PM | | Ok now that was very good!!! It made me laugh and it is sooo true what u said...you should start your own mens club then lol....i bet you'll have all the women swarming around your club then lOL...anyways, thanks for the laugh and thanks for the truth..it all makes perfect sense and it takes a real man to say it! | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 10:26:16 PM | Yea, what a novel idea: try and play Woman's Hero by giving the dirty lowdown on all those other guys, the Bad Men who aren't as good and "enlightened" as the OP. Poor widdle weak stupid females need his help and protection. They always fall for that psychobabble crackpot nonsense.  | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/4/2008 10:35:25 PM | Ok, that works for the main squeeze, but what about the two or three on the side?
Oops, another secret. Well at least for some anyway. My favorite secrets are the two secrets of life. The first one is never tell anything at once. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/5/2008 10:35:09 AM | You go NHCowboy. Like Barack Obama's presidency, us men are taking a new direction in our ideology, in how we express ourselves, and what shapes people's prejudice ideas and tolerance.
Women stop generalizing, segregating, and being prejudice about guys being after one thing. Truth is you see but don't see; it's easier to say guys only want sex then to say a guy wanted a relationship, just not with you. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/5/2008 10:21:39 PM | nmcmill2001, what planet are we living on? come back to the third planet in this galaxy for moment.
Women stop generalizing, segregating, and being prejudice about guys being after one thing. Truth is you see but don't see; it's easier to say guys only want sex then to say a guy wanted a relationship, just not with you. what is that Yoda Lingo?
Come on ....not all women generalize, the ones that do its because of their experience, who are you to say all women generalize? have you talked to every woman on this planet?
Its like those self proclaimed " nice guys" who whine boooohooooo, no woman wants me cause im a nice guy boooohooooo, what those guys needs a smack and maybe they will wake up and realize its not the woman thats the problem, its the person in the mirror is the problem. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/5/2008 11:19:21 PM | NHCowboy,, thanks now...... I have to think like a man and act like a woman. The man here in POF are bitter ? I thought they are turning a new leaf looking for a new love/romance and all the works on it, because they were burned out on their exes ?   Hah! That fish won't bite my hook ,darned fish!!! Perhaps that fish thinks I am the evil twin of his exs.... | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/6/2008 5:38:15 AM | | yes we do want someone that cares about us and shows it .... that said theres one other human need that we share with women that we crave, desire, and will do almost anything to get "to feel accepted" to feel like theres someone there that wants us around, will care about what we deal with, how we feel, and what we think, will allow us to open up, be who we are and still like us. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/7/2008 7:02:47 PM | Well, lucky me!
Awhile back I was about to close my account. I got on...read all the negative things people have to say about "The Other Species"....AGAIN. It had so turned me off before that I took my picture down...not caring if I ever got a nibble in this pond...or anywhere.
Then....there he was. He has told me more than once he has never had any desire to be part of the infamous "Man Club". Honest. Open communication. Great biceps...the legs are great too (I told him so). Definetly male. Definetly kind.
Still...thinking I will take my picture down again.
To many macho/angry/vengeful men.
To few sweeties....but you are out there...some have even come into this guagmire!
QUICK EVERYONE....SWIM FOR THE DEEP END!!!!!! | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 12/9/2008 12:09:15 PM | | It WAS. Now he told it, and all the girls are contacting me. Why can't anybody keep a secret these days? Don't they know I am way too busy for all of this affection? | |
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| man code ? CUDDLING ?
Posted: 12/9/2008 4:37:03 PM | I notice; in most of the "Profiles"; most Men say the "like to cuddle".
But I recently looked through a Man's Magazine Web Site.
There was a Survey Question:
Which do you HATE more?
Foreplay
or
Cuddling
It was practically unanamous;
That Men generally HATED CUDDLING!
What do you guys say?
Are y ou all just Lying in your profiles?
Or; is it that you Hate cuddling; that is "just cuddling"?
. . . . that does not lead to sex?
that was what most of the Men/Mag comments talked about. | |
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| man code ? CUDDLING ?
Posted: 12/10/2008 4:28:31 AM | Ricia that isn't a fair question.
If I have to choose between foreplay, and cuddle, than heck yeah, I want foreplay!
If they have guys choose between cuddling, or watching..Um I don't know..
some chick flick, than they would choose cuddling.
I myself like cuddling, but I do try to get more out of it. There, I said it.
If she refuses, than it is just cuddling. | |
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| man code ? Woman Code?
Posted: 12/10/2008 7:54:27 AM | I have writen and posted several profiles over the few months I have been here. It is amazing to me the responces I have gotten from the woman. The more serious one had caused a couple of woman to write and say they cried when they read it. Yes I deleted it... I felt like Goergey Porgey Kissed the girls and made them Cry!!! But even with a less lighter but still serious Profile I had a woman who had her Master's Degree and was a Nurse Practitioner ask me if I would have Sex with her at 4am... I told her hell I'm up 3am... Now I didn't just step out of the pages of GQ and I really don't think I'm all that and a bag of chips, but please don't play me stupid just because you think I'm lead around by my Little Head. Some of the games that get played here because we can make ourselves out to be what we think someone might be interested in are so weak.
Here's a Classic; The Thrill of the Case!!! Woman will lurer men but once they get the indication that they can have him if they want they'll snub them. I've had more woman hit on my in bars while I was with my wife or date that it blows me away.
I've watch my own sisters play on men's emotions and get virtually anything they wanted... Cars, Jewelry, Cash etc... Now no one wants to used and I see that as abusive. We all have feelings and the games can be played both ways.
So lets get serious am I the best I can be for any relationship of the oppisite sex? | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:11:03 AM | | a true man would not become nasty and say things he doesnt mean even if the women does.a man who says these things likes swears and all of that ,because he doesnt know what to say.channel your emotions and never call are swear at that women.and never ever call a women out of her name we all have mothers and all women should be respected as such.now if she is nasty and out of control,i am done even befor we have fun. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 4/8/2009 7:53:48 AM | Nebula,
honestly why ar eyou even on pof i mean obviously you don't want a woman. If you do then you need to do some soul searching and find out how you can over come your fear of woman. I have never seen you post one good comment about women in general. You are a bitter person adn you need to get over the hurt that you have been carrying arround in you.EVERYONE has been hurt at least twice in thier life, most more than that. Most people deal with it and move on. The only thing you are attracting is unhappy discontented women, this is the type of woman who will lie cheat and hurt you because they will always be wondering if they "settled" to be with you and if there is anything better out therel. GET OVER IT ALREADY!!!!! | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:05:40 AM | the biggest thing all men want is to know someone cares about them. Uh huh, it's true, believe it or not we are looking for the same thing you are lol. Not me. I don't give a crap if someone cares about me or not.
(when we get hurt) we show strength (i.e. anger). Not me. I walk.
because he is protecting himself and his feelings. Yup.
But it's much more complicated than this. Escentially, I want to need someone. If she happens to need me, then we might have something serious going on. By need, I mean need them close, not $20 for gas need. | |
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| Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:20:43 AM | Thanks for posting this OP
Cause it's true
there does seem to be many scorned men on here.
Not all but quiet a few
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