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 ColonelIngus

Joined: 9/16/2007
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Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 5/5/2009 12:19:17 PM
^^^^ But it'll all have to wait until after the hockey game is over.
 REDDRAGON.

Joined: 10/9/2008
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Posted: 5/5/2009 1:29:15 PM

Ok ladies, I'll probably get kicked out of the "man club" for this but I think there are some misconceptions about men outh there.


We regret to inform you that you have been removed from the man club with certain eligibility pending.

there are penalties for breaking the code, with no chance of reinstatement.
 Briannazg2

Joined: 8/28/2007
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Posted: 5/5/2009 1:30:57 PM

there are penalties for breaking the code, with no chance of reinstatement


which includes a BJ and nice meal .... after the hockey game
 IntenseLiaison

Joined: 9/23/2006
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Posted: 5/5/2009 7:18:58 PM
Sorry guy, but if someone keeps attracting the cheating type, you need to examine what it is about you that is attracting it. I can't tell you how, as I'm still trying to figure out how I attract a certain quality repeatedly that I don't desire, but it's the truth. Frankly there are millions of women out there that don't cheat, and I know TONS who would never. We're not all fire breathing dragons out here.
 wolffish

Joined: 1/27/2008
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Breaking the secret man code shhhh!
Posted: 5/6/2009 8:49:46 AM
[I see where you're going with this, but I'm a great believer that no one gets to blame their childrenhood for their problems past the age of majority. We all have to suck it up and move on, men and women. ]

I agree, Im not speaking of introspection and excusing bad behavior by blaming the past..Im talking about knowing who we are and dealing with the realities that are here now, just like any old addict has to do in order to break a negative cycle they were born into.

The negative cycle is between the generations and it ALSO happens every day between males and females, trust and hopes disrespected turn into anger and pain which begets cynical behavior.. You can stop the past today, but it happens by telling the truth. Thats what Im saying we need to do, its hard, but then its oh so much easier..

Just like the change in our country where we are trying to rid ourselves of corrupt power structures in finance and insurance and so on. Its not about blaming but recognizing the bullshit so we can do better, or else its pretty much hopeless.

You cant move on without seeing where you are..I think we agree..
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