| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:27:31 PM | Hmmmm...I'm thinking don't fed the troll judging by the look of the profile here and the length of time he's been a poffer....
Maybe I'm just cynical though..... | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:34:32 PM | i have a really good friend who cheated on his gf, so she responded by cheated on him... i have no idea how they worked it out but they are now about to get married... lots of communication is my suggestion. sometimes its out of your hands from here on out whether she can accept you or not.
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:35:29 PM | Ok so I need some advice on how to save my relationship with my gf. I cheated on her by sleeping with another women so can anyone on here please give me adivce on what I can do to save my relationship.
Wait wait WAIT...whoa. Hold on...
Is this for real? You cheated on your woman and you're seriously coming on here to ask how we can HELP you get her back?! Are you outta your ever lovin' head?!
I think you need to chase a different Dragon buddy...
Asking us to HELP you is asking us to CONDONE cheating. In case you missed the umpteen threads in here, the overwhelming majority CONDEMN cheating. But you'd ask us to try and help you get her BACK?
You screwed up.
Big time.
You're on your own buddy. Next time keep your pecker in your pants and you won't have to ask for help getting back something YOU threw away to cater to your own selfishness. You CHOSE to sleep with someone that you KNEW wasn't your SO...live with the consequences of your choice.
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:38:16 PM | | Cheating doesn't mean that the relationship has to be over. Yes we all make mistakes. And yes there people who actually still know how to FORGIVE. And in many cases is is worth it. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:58:50 PM | Well I'll use the rule of three here, where you have to let her sleep with 3 times the amount of girls you cheated with. And since she caught you with one, that means you probably screwed 4 before she caught on. So let 12 dudes rail her and you deserve her back.  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:00:42 PM |
Well I'll use the rule of three here, where you have to let her sleep with 3 times the amount of girls you cheated with. And since she caught you with one, that means you probably screwed 4 before she caught on. So let 12 dudes rail her and you deserve her back. As one that's been cheated on, I love this theory! Bring on the women!  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:00:46 PM |
Ah screw it. Play her! Tell her that you were being emotionally unfullfilled in the relationship. You felt all alone and left out. Tell her that she was emotionally distant.
Tell her that you just needed to feel loved and that you felt shut out from her. you were scared and alone.
use the term 'I felt' alot. Frame it so that it seems like she was somehow not there for you. Don't be angry or agrumentative. Don't make it out to be her fault. Act like your pleading.Make it seem like if she were more giving you would not have had to seek affection somewhere else.
She will cave.
I'm going to hell for this one.
Yes you are!!! Been there, done that? lol
I'm with BDJ on this one. Are you new? The only advice you will get on this site is how to chop off your own balls and dissect them into little pieces in a woodchipper!
Methinks you're trolling....profile on POF that says "single".....hmmmmmmm. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:04:15 PM | Bad doggie Ya f***ed up big time...I have little faith this can be resurrected...move on, get  and pray you aren't a pariah...NOTHING good comes out of cheating...cue to song us hippyish "elders" know..."When Will They Ever Learn..." Sorry, dude-just telling it like it is... | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:08:03 PM |
Cheating doesn't mean that the relationship has to be over. Yes we all make mistakes.
cheating is not a 'mistake' in the sense of turning onto the wrong road, etc. on your way somewhere.
it is a DELIBERATE, though-out act, with malice aforethought..and conspiracy to cover-up after the fact..
spare me the BS 'rationalization' of 'it was amistake', "it jsut happened', "we lal make mistakes', etc.
yea, yea: "it just happened" ..like you had no idea of what was going to happen in the steps leading up to the act..
yea I know, someone jsut waxed the floor, you slipped and your d1ck ended up inside of her..and once there, you just thought: "well might as well finish it now".
and this happened 2 ,3 , 4 or more times? LOL ..give me a break!
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:15:41 PM | | Cheaters suck in my book....I hope you get racked over the coals.......never mind.....you'd probably like that | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:18:03 PM | | Use reverse psychology, cause the break-up, take some time off, then go back to her, have break-up sex but learn some new sensual moves, get back together, get bored, she cheats on you with some old fat married guy who has 3 kids, you get pissed, you go out get drunk, get into some fight, get a black eye, you leave the area and move to Boston for 10 years, come back, find someone new, get married, have 3 kids, lose your hair, get fat, and the circle of life repeats... | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:22:52 PM | Post # 34 what makes you think that cheaters can't change and never do it again?
What about those people who still from Walmart and make mistake and learn from it and never do it again and turn out being good citizens? | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:30:13 PM | | Before or after she cuts your stuff off ? | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:30:52 PM | Nothing we can do....all about if she decides you're worth another shot.
But the best place to start is begggggggging and doing alot of kissing up and buy her expensive stufff....that's a START!  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 2:35:11 PM | You deserve to lose her...You deserve to miss her.....badly.
Learn from your mistakes and move on, dude. She deserves to be with somebody she can trust. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 3:01:45 PM |
doing alot of kissing up and buy her expensive stufff
Save your money.
Guilt gifts never work.
The relationship is dead.
You killed it.
There'll be no resurrection.
Do her a favour ... allow her to move on. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 3:04:27 PM | Well pretty much everyone else covered everything I would have said so....
In the words of the late great Richard Pryor have a coke and a smile... | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 3:31:26 PM | | Why did u cheat, if ur so sorry now ? Well u cheated and given the chance will again. When u really, really, really love someone u wouldn't even chance distroying something good. If u really rsorry, u will wait for her to come around, if she feels it's worth taking that chance again. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 3:32:38 PM | Cheating is not something that deserves forgiveness in my book. - mary freakin poppins
This, I totally agree with. I have read articles & books on it, I do know that it can be fixed. But the requires a great deal of work & committment,
& 2 willing partners. I personally, would not be willing. Totally aside from feeling betrayed & hurt; any time you cheat, you are risking both your &
your partner's life! Condoms are not 100% & even if you "thought" the other person was clean, you can't really know that. Someone who would
bed a guy who already has a girlfriend, is capable of almost anything! And that certainly included lying about /or even forging, tests results! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:02:55 PM | You groveling twit, so you had your two seconds of "happy" with another girl and are selfish enough to expect your girlfriend to forgive you for failing to keep it in your pants.
You're a childish, self involved brat and I hope she punches you in the throat solely to silence whatever dimwitted ramblings you offer her.
You blew it, ultimate fail. I hope she finds a real man she can actually count on in the future and believe me, she will.
They'll both laugh together at how pathetic and weak you were.
Heres my advice, leave her immediately and dont bother entering another relationship until you grow up.
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Posted: 12/2/2008 4:04:55 PM |
Cheating doesn't mean that the relationship has to be over. Yes we all make mistakes. cheating is not a 'mistake' in the sense of turning onto the wrong road, etc. on your way somewhere.
it is a DELIBERATE, though-out act, with malice aforethought..and conspiracy to cover-up after the fact..
spare me the BS 'rationalization' of 'it was amistake', "it jsut happened', "we lal make mistakes', etc.
yea, yea: "it just happened" ..like you had no idea of what was going to happen in the steps leading up to the act..
yea I know, someone jsut waxed the floor, you slipped and your d1ck ended up inside of her..and once there, you just thought: "well might as well finish it now".
and this happened 2 ,3 , 4 or more times? LOL ..give me a break!
Yea Compleat, I have to agree wholly with you on this. In fact, I've said similar in the past. Sex with someone OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER is never a "mistake" nor is it ever an "accident". Only a cheater, and those dumb enough to accept a cheater in their lives believes any of that horse shit.
A mistake = you forgot to carry the 2 in your calculations, and now OWE the Government instead of them owing you. That's a mistake.
An accident = you wore high heels after a fresh snowfall and slipped on black ice, breaking the fall with your stupid head. That's an accident.
Choosing to sleep with someone other than your mate, and following through is neither a "mistake" nor an "accident". Unless you're gonna say:
"I mistakenly wore socks on a freshly polished floor, and slipped and slid all the way over to the whore, and my clothes mysteriously vanished in between, causing me to accidently land on the whore c*ck first at which time, while trying to get back up, I mistakenly kept thrusting into her until she accidently had an orgasm as did I."
Uh huh...
And for Msg#37, once a cheat always a cheat. If caught, they just get much smarter to hide their tracks in the future. Don't be naive enough to think otherwise... | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:04:56 PM | canam miles ... I read what you wrote and that is just WRONG ...
They say what goes around comes around ...
OP ... You cheated on her and you do NOT deserve her ... you should move on out of respect and love for her ... Once a person cheats on the other person they will most likely do it again sooner or later ...
AnglFlyn | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:08:19 PM | | There is no going back. The trust lost will never be regained. If you appreciated your relationship you would never have cheated in the first place. Chalk it up to a major screwup on your part and move on. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:18:05 PM | Sorry bud no advice here. You cheated case closed...NEXT
***NOTE***
Sage advice from Dr.Marina is 100% accurate, however
satisfaction in not guaranteed *** | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:25:14 PM |
canam miles ... I read what you wrote and that is just WRONG ...
Yeah, but it would work!
Every once in a while i have the need to do a bad deed!
You know give some help to the jerks in life too! | |
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