| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:28:15 PM | I gotta say that OP is almost comical! I mean, did he REALLY expect to not be ripped a new *sshole after posting something like that!??
I'm with most everyone else here - cheating is a selfish, uncaring, completely disrespectful, and cowardly thing to do. I have ZERO respect for cheaters. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:41:21 PM | | Dude, I don't think so. She probably does not trust you anymore and when you don't have trust, you don't have anything. She will constantly wonder when the other shoe will drop again. My experience is once a cheat always a cheat. Leopards don't change their spots! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 4:51:30 PM | | As the woman, I would never ever take you back, no matter how much crying, or begging, or whatever you did. Once trust is gone, it can't be re-planted. I'm going to go ahead and assume you don't have a child with this woman, and further I assume you really aren't in love with her, so what's the point? I'm also going to assume you are not selfish, and will do everyone a favor, and move on out of her life. | |
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| Are you serious?
Posted: 12/2/2008 5:05:09 PM | | Sorry, there is no way to save this relationship. As pretty much everyone has said on here... you obviously should have thought this all through BEFORE deciding to cheat on her. Face up to the fact you probably don't deserve her. Why? Because you're a scumbucket who cheats. Truth hurts. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 5:15:43 PM | | Here's the deal Mr. Hyde; Actions always speak louder than words, therefore if you have already cheated then you have already proved what this relationship means to you, so stop lying to yourself, reckognize that this relationship ended the moment you decided cheating was worth it, and move the eff on man! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 5:23:59 PM |
please give me adivce on what I can do to save my relationship.
Tell her you slept with or had sex with another woman, if you haven't.
Then focus on and figure out why you cheated. Every time you find an answer, question it until nothing more comes forth.
Determine if you want to be with her, are just idealizing being in relationship, or simply don't want change or to 'lose' something.
Ask her to continue in the relationship, respect her decision if she does not. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 6:33:43 PM | | You can start by accepting the fact that you've lost her...those are the inevitable natural consequences...it's a no brainer. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 6:38:51 PM | | If you really wanted to save it, you wouldn't have cheated, it's really that simple. If it were me, I would not want you back, I do not know your girlfriend and so have zero idea if she would want you to win her back. The one thing you can do is not cheat again, it may not save this relationship but if you want to be worthy of another relationship in the future, don't cheat, or have a relationship with someone who doesn't care if you cheat. Your girlfriend didn't make you cheat and she's not required to forgive you or trust you again or want to be with you anymore. Being sorry because you got caught doesn't really have much meaning. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 6:59:24 PM | | Live and learn......Live and Learn! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 7:26:37 PM | | Shame on you! NO, hit the road Jack! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 7:28:44 PM | | meh u fukked it up .... now you gotta pay for it ,, if u cared about her from the beginning you woulda thought twice before doin what you did . now the damage is done just apologise and she might take you back . but she would be stupid if she did | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 7:28:54 PM |
Mr. Hyde: Ok so I need some advice on how to save my relationship with my gf. I cheated on her by sleeping with another women so can anyone on here please give me adivce on what I can do to save my relationship.
alwaysinthought: hmmm...should of thought of that before you did it. Do cheaters ever have a game plan? | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 8:08:49 PM | Although i will agree that cheating and turning on the wrong road somewhere will both usually have a guy looking for a new woman  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 9:26:34 PM | OP you cheated on your g/f and want her to forgive you and take you back . . . right?
Well . . . [*deep in thought*] . . . let's see . . . how does one go about to retain trust?
You want her to believe you when you just could not call for a REAL VALID reason?
You want her to take your word that you are really working late?
You want her to trust you when you are hanging with ya buddies?
You want her to faith that it will not happen again?
You want her to respect and trust your space when you need it?
You really want her to believe your loyalty you have for her?
You want her to take your word for it . . . . to rely on you?
You want her to just hand you her to hand you her heart without concerns?
You want her to believe that YOU CARE FOR HER?
OP . . .[*popping 2 Advils for headache*] . . . ya are going to have to figure this one out on ya own this is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay toooo much work.
~Myth~ | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 9:36:29 PM | Well..first mistake you betrayed her that trust she had on you its gone as soon as you tell her.
Sec. no one likes to be cheated so you have a lot to answer.Reason for doing it .the why why why won't end and the crying too....some women won't forgive you for this
good luck | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 9:41:24 PM | I was going to rip you a new one on cheating - then I read your profile - I decided you would probably enjoy the negative feed back - so I am going to pray for your black soul
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However I shall pray harder thast your g/f walks | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 10:15:40 PM |
Ok so I need some advice on how to save my relationship with my gf. I cheated on her by sleeping with another women so can anyone on here please give me adivce on what I can do to save my relationship.
The advice you should be looking for is how to better yourself. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 10:17:12 PM | I sent an e-mail with the link to this thread. Good luck mate  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 10:24:33 PM | | Buddy, I hate to say this but if you cheated on your girlfriend, the only kind of advice you're gonna get on here is just move on and pray that the next girl you enter a relationship with doesn't find out about the last girl you cheated on. And hey, while you're at it, maybe you should just consider removing yourself from this site and look for other options in the dating world. I know this all sounds harsh, especially since almost everyone else is rippin you a new one here, but I think I can speak for everyone else here when I just say that we're all giving you super tough love. Also, if you think we're being rough on you now for what you just did, you're probably gonna get it even worse from a lot of your friends and the only person who you'll be able to turn to is your mother, but I'd doubt even she'd respect you after this one. I know you came on here seeking advice from us, but do you really think that when you cheat, everyone is gonna be sympathetic towards you? No, it doesn't work that way. It never has and it never will. You cheated, now learn to deal with it, and just do your very best to move on. I know its not easy, but its the best thing you can do for both you and her right now. Because if theres one thing people on POF will not tolerate, its cheating and cheating is wrong. Really really wrong. Again, I know I"m coming off as a d!ck to you but its for your own good. Just my two cents worth on this topic. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 10:27:17 PM | | Gee! Canam Miles has some really good advice! I can only imagine why? | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/3/2008 4:23:22 AM | | So just don't tell her. You'll be fine. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/3/2008 5:35:09 AM | | well, i guess you could have a sex change op. and see if she'll have you as a female acquaintance instead... i doubt she'll want much to do with you as you are, anymore | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/3/2008 6:10:20 AM | | dont worry she will forgive you and take you back ...they always do ...and then as soon as you have yor life back you will do it again ..because your a jerk ...play the game all your life and hurt all the women you can ...get your pleasure now and then join the ranks of old players with a life time of regrets ...who are not worth anyone's love .....actually you will be better off if she dumps you because if she dont you will do it again as soon as your off the hook ...hell you probably will either way...once a jerk ...................... | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/3/2008 7:01:43 AM | | Why did you cheat on her? Why did you think it was necessary to lie to her, to manipulate her into thinking you two were exclusive, why did you think sex with someone else was the thing to do, why did you disrespect your woman in the worst way possible? What was missing in your relationship that you needed another woman? Now that you cheated do you actually think the reason you strayed will be fixed? Nope, it just added to the problem. Time to move on. | |
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