| I cheated
Posted: 12/4/2008 11:13:00 AM | | Speaking from my perspective of having a wife of 15 years and 2 kids who cheated on me, you deserve every night of crying, every day of worrying, every second of misery, every moment of doubt in yourself.....you deserve it all dude. I have absolutely NO sympathy for a cheater or for you. Grow up. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/4/2008 1:30:08 PM | If you really want to work things with your girlfriend,you got to be real man.She isnt giving you what you need .You are honest no moral crap mambo jumbo monogamy will fill the need you have .
Why did you sleep with the other woman ?answer that then try to have that with your girlfriend.
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Dont seat there hoping for a change ,have a plan .If i didnt work out brake up and have the fun you want . | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/4/2008 1:52:55 PM | | You should probably stop thinking about yourself and how to save the relationship you ruined and start thinking about how much better of a man she's going to find when she's through with you. | |
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Aziaah
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Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 104 | |
| I cheated
Posted: 12/4/2008 5:05:32 PM | damn your screewwd | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/4/2008 5:36:15 PM | I will absolutely not tolerate someone cheating on me. Usually if they do it once they will do it again. Often the best indicator of past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior.
If I can't fulfill someones desires, I don't belong with them.
As for the OP, you may have screwed yourself out of a good thing, literally. Betraying trust often ruins things, and even if she takes you back, things will never be the same. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/23/2008 5:38:28 PM | | I agree with others. It's NOT up to you to decide if there's a relationship to save or not. Not everyone can forgive a cheater. Alot of people believe in the " once a cheater always a cheater " | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/23/2008 5:53:22 PM | OP:
Hey...If she's got a spot here on POF...you're already toast! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 5:10:08 AM | | Can I ask, why the f$%* you on here if you have a gf. Maybe, just maybe, that's why you ended up cheating on her. My only advice is to learn from the mistake, realize that she is done with you and don't do it again!!!! ... next time you are at all lucky enough to find someone else stay off the dating sites and be happy my man. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 5:18:52 AM | | not good mate.all i can say is dont cheat in the first place.and look at why you cheated.something is not write in your relasionship.work that out and you mite stand a chance of sorting it out.good luck. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 5:44:35 AM | Lmao, the OP's profile is obviously fake. You people are too easy...
He's having fun with you all, probably with his GF looking on.  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 5:56:39 AM | | Firstly if she doesn't know don't tell her She probably knows intuitively no point to rub it in make things good between you. If she knows though well wow time to beg. If she velieves you are truly sorry and wont do it again and she loves you she might forgive you, but you need to be convincing | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 6:18:30 AM | You always can improve your training on manipulation.
You may start changing your profile from 'single' to 'not single' and stop looking for more dates.
Better yet, you can erase your profile so your reputation -as cheater and liar- doesn't precede you.
However, be aware that upgrading from being dumb can be more difficult. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 6:38:50 AM | | YOU CHEATED!!!!!!!! You disrespected her in the worst way possible, you lied to her, manipulated her, your actions told her she isn't the one & you want sex with someone else . You don't do this to someone you love, so why do you want to continue a relationship with her? Karma's gonna git you! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 6:45:12 AM | You cheat on your girlfriend and now you want help getting her back?
I have absolutely no mercy none whatsoever for a man that cheats on his girlfriend, wife or lover. Same goes for women that find cheating appealing! They are called cowards! Do her a favour...walk and keep on walking! She would be a fool to take you back. No matter how much you beg. Get the drift?
Once a cheat, always a cheat! One lie to her was the beginning of your deceitful days ending in exactly where you stand today! Alone!
I don’t feel the least bit sorry for you !
Wild | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 6:56:39 AM | | Op you are that some kind of operator and definitely not smart. This is a dating site you have a picture posted in your profile and state that you are a cheater, good luck trying to get a date in the future with anything but the palm sisters. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 2/6/2009 7:07:13 AM | Dr Jekyll:
you cannot, i repeat, cannot, 'save" your relationship.\
you might be able to 'save" some integrity, and honor, and rebuild trust in yourself.
then, if she so sees fit, she may forgive, and choose to trust you again.
It will take time, and the itinerary on that journey is not linear.
Nor is the destination promised...
However if you focus on only "saving" the relationship....that will end less well.
let her know, now, you will give her an honorable 'out" without guilt or demand....
allow her to choose. You already voted....
good luck.... | |
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