| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/20/2009 3:51:17 PM | Get up and walk out.
Did you expect him to pay the whole bill?
Did you discuss this prior to meeting up at Pizza Hut?
Obviously the date was not going well - or he was EXPECTING you to let him cover the tab out of some unknown hell-past experience.
It is not your fault - but NEVER go anywhere you are not able or willing to cover YOUR part of the tab.
Eliz | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:14:46 PM | wow~ just wow....
Maybe he thought he was being funny? or perhaps he was counting on the shock value to get a free meal....either way....wow.
I would have laughed right in his face, said dayum, you found me out...left the bill and his sad sorry azz sittin at the pizza hut and had some great laughs with my girlfriends over margaritas.
At any rate, don't let one douchebag make you jaded. There are still some really great guys out there. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:18:29 PM | Pizza hut? Seriously? You should have paid half, made him pay half. Hope it was the buffet at least. If not, make sure you kept the left over pizza.
messages this short are really frustrating me. | |
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XO_Man
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Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 179 | |
| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/20/2009 6:41:22 PM | | I feel for you, I know what you went through. I've met more than my share from here . We met for dinner and some would excuse themselfs to power thier nose and never come back. I mean come on now. If you don't like me just say so. But to pick up and leave me hanging there and paying for a food bill that they ate and not say thank you. I now just meet over coffee and that has some what stopped. But at least I am not hung for a bill that would feed all of Minnesota homeless. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2009 7:18:37 AM | | He obviously has some issues!!!There is a cute guy on here and the chemistry is high, but he has so many negative comments about women that I steer clear of him!! I guess Forrest Gump had it right when he said "life is like a box of chocolates". In other words you will have good dates and bad ones. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/21/2009 12:47:02 PM | He's crazy, but sounds like he got a free pizza out of the date. Sounds like a con man to me personally. Your too good for a douche like that and will find someone that will treat you right. I know this really good Japanese place.. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2009 6:32:49 PM | Yes that guy is a jerk....but this is not the majority....this is why I prefer an iced/coffee 1st date. You can get those at much nicer places than Pizza Hut.
Like above poster said....you are way too good for a Jerk like that and for Pizza Hut too.
Consider him a bad April's fool joke.
I wish you luck and please forget about that jerk!!! | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/21/2009 6:36:19 PM | Hi!
Sorry about your experience-- sounds to me like you've run into a man whose been burned too many times to see any good in a woman ... so he just decided to cave in, and decide you were like everyone else -- because that is the only thing he can comprehend which is his loss and HE SHOULDNT BE DATING. I can understand how you feel... STILL, gotta admit theres alot of liars out there and users---people are getting more jaded by the day -- WHY cant the opposite sexes learn to be nicer to each other and stop the vicious cycle... | |
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Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 185 | |
| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/22/2009 6:44:02 AM | | The guys sounds like a kunt by what im reading. Maybe he was startled by the bill but if someone did that to me I would go dam nutz. Who was it that offered to pay the bill before getting food anyway? | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 4:43:22 PM | | omg! i was on a date like that one time, a guy offered me out to a restaurant and i said sure. he paid for the bill took me home. got a message from him a few days later sayin i used him for his money when his dumbass offered! he said ur just like the other women blah blah blah i told him thats why his ass is still single by accusing other ppl of using u when ur the one who offered! i blocked him told him not to contact me again | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 3/23/2009 4:52:27 PM |
omg! i was on a date like that one time, a guy offered me out to a restaurant and i said sure. he paid for the bill took me home. got a message from him a few days later sayin i used him for his money when his dumbass offered! he said ur just like the other women blah blah blah i told him thats why his ass is still single by accusing other ppl of using u when ur the one who offered! i blocked him told him not to contact me again
Wow - you actually got into his car? Sounds like you dodged a bullet. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/11/2009 7:05:26 PM | | if god made anything more beautiful than women he should keep it to himself. what a way to treat a beautiful creation like you.dont cave in Marc | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:51:28 AM |
I am laughing at the thought that someone could actually think they are being used for pizza!
Exactly!! 
But, no. Don't give up because of a loser here and there. Just have a  about it (hilarious dating story to tell your friends!!), dust yourself off and continue on.... | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/12/2009 12:43:44 PM | | While I agree the guy probably manipulated the OP to pay, how did she and her "date" manage to get served and eat/drink their pizza and drinks before they were paid for? Pizza Hut is like all other fast food franchises and expects payment before food and drink is served/delivered/picked up. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/12/2009 1:34:22 PM | Well this guy is a jerk but who chose to go out with him? I'm sure this didnt' just come out of the blue; women see what they want for the most part.
Choose a better guy, and you will have a better outcome; good luck. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/13/2009 8:41:50 AM | LOL!!! Ah...what a cheapskate!
I would have yelled at him so everybody could hear..." Don't invite people to places you can't afford, Good Lord ...WAITRESS....WHERE'S MY HALF OF THE BILL!!!! CHARGE THIS CHEAPSKATE FOR HIS HALF! 
Good God...that would've felt good! | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/13/2009 6:16:53 PM | OP, This thread has been talked to death... but wow!
I need to say that in defense of man-kind, his behavior was unusual and no reflection on the rest of us. He's a freak. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:15:30 PM | | Sounds like the dude is reacting to what he thinks is (seemingly) becoming prevelant in society. Whether or not he is right, his action was excessive. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/22/2009 5:32:26 PM | Hey Jelica
This was obviously a dude with a whole lot of unresolved issues in his past and the best thing to do is walk away. At our kind of age we all have a past and if we dont we have been wrapped in saran wrap and locked in a closet for far too long but it's not the past that counts but how you deal with it, keep looking there are a few normal nice guys out here. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/22/2009 5:42:42 PM | | K.. so I get the whole thing, the guy was rude and should have approached the whole situation with a little more tact and respect. Here is my question for all you ladies out there then. At what point in time, (ie date#2, date#3... emails, telephone conversations) do you actually say the guy... "you know what, I'll get this one.." I know there are ladies out there like that but when does it become a two way street? Is there a certain $$$ amount, after a certain date, please enlighten me on this. Im not in any way trying to be rude here, it just really confuses me as I have had some experiences with this. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/22/2009 6:29:41 PM | what.. you expect there to actually be a specified date # when that happens? I'll treat the guy out when I say.. Hey want to go to lunch with me? (or dinner/drinks/a show/whatever) When I ask him. I'll pay.
side note: It's funny how all this is discussed online, but never in life. I've never had a guy get upset because I didn't pay for a 3rd (or insert number here) date. I've never had this discusison brought up prior to dating someone or going out. Just struck me as funny. | |
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| You call this Dating?
Posted: 4/22/2009 6:33:10 PM | Op that guy had no filters for his discontent.. lmao.. actually it would frighten me...
and I dont' know if a guy is taking me to pizza parlors and going out for appetizers in the beginning I'm not going to be compelled to pick up the next tab...
I guess coffee is out of the question too.... | |
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