| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 7:47:31 AM |
Quite the opposite, most women are capable of multiple orgasms. If a woman is unable to achieve an orgasm, it's most likely due to other issues, NOT the placement of the clitoris. Or could be the man has absolutely no technique at all, lol.
And we are waaayyy envious of your gender's capacity, BUT, the male counterpart of the clit, right under the head of a c-ck, is directly involved and stimulated by every kind of penetration and most manipulations, all by the touch of some part of a woman. The clit is not so directly stimulated by many of these same activities. Sure, it's an easy reach, as are other spots if you know where to look, but give the guy a break. Lol. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 10:18:40 AM |
If you have a very strong sex drive you need to find someone else who has the same.
Absolutely true! If you are someone with a high sex drive you need to find someone who matches you or your relationship won't be satisfying. This also applies if you are one who likes to experiment! For example if you like to get your freak on occasionally and try some different things (bondage, threesomes, toys,etc) then you might scare some partners off if they weren't into that. Not that I am into anything like that...... | |
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Posted: 12/8/2008 11:56:43 AM |
On the other hand if a guy does that to his S.O. some women would push him away and say they had a headache or not in the mood.
I would say a woman is only not in the mood for this kind of loving if the man doesn't know how to please her this way. No woman I know that enjoys oral would refuse this if she knows she will be satisfied. Truth is, all men think they know what they are doing----and many women would disagree ---you do the math. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2008 11:59:33 AM | also to ironcharger---
OP, how many times have you said to your S.O. that you wanted to have sex with him directly on average?
If I had a significant other at the moment, likely I would be too busy getting naked to be writing on this thread....so alas this is not currently the case ! | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:09:46 PM |
I think one of the biggest reasons is women's inability to have orgasms because of the misplacement of the clitoris. Somehow our creator decided to play a prank on the ladies (or maybe somehow evolution moved it)and put their clit way too high when in reality it should be right in the opening of the vagina where the penis would hit it and orgasm would be easy.
The clitoris wasn't misplaced at all. It's right where it's supposed to be. My theory on why many/most women seem to lose interest in sex after a while is once they become mothers, it's normal for their libido to go down, because Nature designed it that way, so they wouldn't get pregnant with another child before they're done weaning the first. If a woman breastfeeds exclusively, her ovulation-cycle is suppressed, which also affects her libido. Breastfeeding takes a lot out of a woman, leaving her tired and with little energy to do much else besides care for her child. Being in an unnatural monogamous marriage however, puts pressure on her to resume sexual relations with her husband as soon as physically possible. Only a very mature, understanding man will be able to deal with the reduced frequency of sex and the fact that from now on it's going to be 'quickies' more often than not. The less mature men will complain and nag, sometimes to the point of such exasperation for the woman, that the marriage eventually ends in divorce. I recently read an article about just that in "Parents" magazine at a doctor's office.
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:19:39 PM |
Of these relationships, they had sex like rabbits all the time in the beginning, but once it matured into a relationship (and beyond, like marriage), it's the MEN that are the ones barking about their women no longer lettin' them get a crack at the biscuit.
Since this scenario seems to be all too common, maybe there is an evolutionary reason for this? I'm not sure what it is other than the one I mentioned in my previous post (motherhood), but for women at least, the excitement seems to wear off after some time together as a couple. I wish I knew why, but since this is so common, I doubt that the women are doing just to torture their men. It must be something else at play... 
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:26:31 PM | WTF, who is the dim wit that just made guys out there seem like a bunch of neandrathals that can't give a woman an orgasm with out a clit being involved. I hope he reads this and learns a little something. Try and explore a little bro, trying giving instead of just sitting back and recieving. Read your partner! Facial expressions, body langauge and number 1- listen to WHAT THE FCK SHE SAYS. It's her body and knows what works for her. If she says don't stop, then don't stop! If you haven't completed the entire "Hooked on Phonics" series and can't read then just ask her to teach you what she likes.
As far as 14 orgasms in 1 day.....I clap excitedly for you.......but my ex-gfried definately has you beat(astronomical numbers) but tell him to keep trying. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:30:10 PM | Could have to do with the sexual peak in men vs women:
Men 18
Women 30
I have been in relationships were both of us wanted it more than the other. Sexual compatibility.....maybe a new match section on this site? | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 1:26:51 PM | its not always about sex drive ?
1. Nature designed us to spread our seed around.....so i think its bordom with lots of men who become disinterested
2. And women sometimes just do the same stuff & are not as good as turning their man in as they could be...
we are just supposed to be grateful i think LOL | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 1:56:16 PM | | i will agree with you on this, most women are capable of orgasm and i have seen my ex's have them with me helping most of the time, women are made perfect as they are. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 3:15:07 PM |
I think one of the biggest reasons is women's inability to have orgasms because of the misplacement of the clitoris. Somehow our creator decided to play a prank on the ladies (or maybe somehow evolution moved it)and put their clit way too high when in reality it should be right in the opening of the vagina where the penis would hit it and orgasm would be easy.
Alas, what a bunch of crock.
Maybe it is just me, but I've noticed not one location for orgasm in women, but three very distinct ones. And each of them produce very different types of orgasm. So a woman can have the clit orgasm, then the G-spot orgasm and the cervical orgasm. And I am told that there's another spot called I guess the A spot or something. I have not found that one yet. So, while the average guy bang, can only have his penis orgasm (there are more, but that's a different subject), the woman can have multiple orgasms that are totally different in intensity and pleasure. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 3:52:16 PM |
As far as 14 orgasms in 1 day.....I clap excitedly for you.......but my ex-gfried definately has you beat(astronomical numbers) but tell him to keep trying.
Kudos to you Jim (assuming you were there and involved:)~ Maybe you can give some pointers to some of the men on this thread.....
on that note I just may have to start another thread...... | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/8/2008 5:34:20 PM | women just play holy to the outside world. thats all.
I don't think men love sex more than women. All my relationships I have had sex a very minimum of 4 times a week. most weeks 5 to 6 days a week. And most times the women made the first move in response to something as innocent as a hug. I think men just need to find women a that connect to their minds and not just physical appearance. if you are a very sensual man, then u need a woman with very erotic words to communicate with you physically and spur your imagination. someone naughty enough to dare you and tease you to bring out the lion in you.. Men are physical entities. If you see your woman once. she cant blow your mind a second time. but if she tells you steamy lures and seduces you, you will feel like its the first day again each and every time. most women wear sexy lingerings on the firs night then dress like grannies the weeks and months after. this is a problem too. sex starts from the mind. I also think men are responsible for this. After having sex with a woman the first time and making an effort to give her a good thrill. He will not take her like its the last and only chance again. This is what men need all the time.
from my experience , a satisfied woman never says no. and even when sore, she'll just say take it easy. I can not understand why people will smoke everyday, drink everyday, watch eastenders everyday and shy away from sex unless its because they are not enjoying.
for me. when i am out of a relationship. my sex drive falls. each time i leave a relationship, i feel relaxed. each time i return my drive shoots through the roof. I think indulging in good sex increases the desire for more. Your testosterone levels will naturally rise as you stimulate it more. women love sex more than men anytime any day. Give a woman a good rump and see if you not ride you morning wood while you are still asleep. This is just the fact. Women complain too of needing more and not of tiredness . period. It can never be a man. leave a woman on top and see if she is willing to stop unless if she's exhausted. most men are satisfied within an hour but woman can stand firm for 3 hours if you dare. Women love and hunt for it. just that men are doing all the chasing mostly and the women sit back innocently and cheery pick.That is a true test. doubters should try. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/9/2008 9:19:45 AM | | personally, i have more fun in a committed relationship, and the more you care about your partner the better the sex is,honesty, and communication is most important | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/9/2008 10:39:27 AM | It's my opinion that men and women have about equal sex-drives - in general. Which is to say, neither gender has a more intense sex drive. It just seems to me that women try to repress the urges more than men do, whereas men tend to embrace their urges moreso than women.
I think if the social stigmas of sexuality concerning 'promiscuity' were removed - You'd see a lot more horny women around. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/9/2008 11:11:01 AM | Well, I have to dissagree.
In my experience woman always want sex in or not in a relationship doesnt matter.
If they get nasty and start to argue you can be pretty sure its because they had no sex for a while.
Its all about attention.
I take care that the sexlive is on a good level (just a bit more than enough).
I never had problems since.
Now about the "satisfied" man......
In my opinion I would say most man get turned off by woman who cant stop talking.
The result: No sexdrive. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/9/2008 7:13:08 PM | In my personal dating experience, I've had it both ways. Some want more after we've become more committed, and some actually want more emotional commitment instead, once sex becomes a regular thing.
But testosterone does start to drop in men at a certain age, so I think their sex drives sometimes suffer from that as they get older, anyway. But I've also dated older men who were still as horny as a 20 year old guy. And they wanted sex all the time, no matter how long we'd been dating each other.
You can't really compare all men, to all men, because every guy is different. Especially when it comes to their specific hormones levels. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/9/2008 7:22:01 PM |
I take care that the sexlive is on a good level (just a bit more than enough).
Sooo, how do you know what's enough? When your house gets real quiet? Lol. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/10/2008 5:34:03 AM | I use my senses to find out, that works just fine.
The "house" is never "real quiet" there is enough to talk about without overdoing it | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/10/2008 9:08:05 AM | | I am not a woman and I totally agree. But there is a small percentage of men out there that think like you and women like you. I for one am one, I have to be told "that's enough" and then I use other mean to release, if you know what I mean. This puts me in a horrible perdicament because they do not know about me releasing myself, so now they want it and I still do but not as much. | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/10/2008 11:40:19 AM |
Sooo, how do you know what's enough? When your house gets real quiet? Lol.
it must be really scary if the dog isnt barking or the cat isnt meowing!! | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/10/2008 12:26:02 PM | well, perhaps it all boils down to the man has this key, and when we have this key we have this need to put it in to an ignition, and the vehicle we like to drive is the woman. Now, when all is well maintained (yes, by both haters), the driving is easy and shared. When maintenace starts to slip, the drive is not as fun. Lose the fun, you start looking at other models. Keep up maintenance, why trade in? And thruthfully, once that key is in the ignition, and both are turn on, does it matter who is the better driver? | |
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| My theory on the male vs female sex drive
Posted: 12/13/2008 8:51:15 AM | Tell you what, google "percentage of women who have orgasms" and see what you find. Pretty much every research done shows that about 30% of women usually have orgasms vs around 100% of men. Why do you think this is?
This is straight out of one of these reports: "Most women orgasm through intercourse. I'm not going to harp on about this one because anyone who's ever read any of my other articles practically has it written on their forehead in felt tip marker pen that only 30% of women orgasm from penetration alone. But it is worth repeating. Most women need stimulation of the clitoris by a hand or a vibrator during intercourse in order to climax. It's not anyone's fault that the penis isn't enough; it's a design fault in the female body. The clitoris is outside the vagina, rather than inside it (not terribly helpful of whoever has the female body patent, I agree). True, some women claim to have fabulous orgasms through front vaginal wall stimulation. But the good old-fashioned clitoral orgasm is far more common and reliable."
Clearly, the clitoris needs to be located lower so that the top of the head of the penis can stimulate it correctly. It's not too difficult to see this by the way we're created. | |
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