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| why am i still arguing with my father 4 years after we buried him ?
Posted: 10/28/2009 5:23:56 AM | | The reason you are arguing with your late father and you can not go to his grave is because you can not forgive him for the way he treated you. I learned taht letting go of grudges and forgiving is not for the person who wronged you, its a cleansing of the soul and heart. If we hang on to the person who wronged us then we are exactly like the person who did us wrong. I have forgiven people who wronged me in order for me to find peace and happines sin my self. I have a sister hwo is very jelaous of me and has done some hurtful things to me in the past. I just feel sorry for her and say a prayer for her. Forgivenes is not about forgiivng the other person, rather it is for yourself and letting go of the pain they caused you. It does not mean you have to be friends with that person. | |
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| why am i still arguing with my father 4 years after we buried him ?
Posted: 10/28/2009 8:56:31 AM | | Beatings are abusive, some say spair the rod and spoil the child also abounds. Unfortunetly each parent has thier own way of dealing with disappline. It wouold be a good thing if parents werent physcially abusive or at least understand the delicatcy of a small child, they arent dealing with an adult body here. Naturally there are other ways to disapline but your dad didnt do that. I think for your own sake you need to forgive him so you can go foward with your life and let it RIP. I havent gone to my parents grave either, I just never felt the need to see a grave marker, their memory is always alive and inside of me. | |
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