| Selfish & Proud
Posted: 3/27/2008 4:26:06 PM | in my 20's i was all about her.
in my 30's it was all about me
results : I got laid a lot more (80% more) in my 30's.
conclusion : +40's it will be all about me to ensure future success.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
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| Selfish & Proud
Posted: 10/22/2009 8:12:15 PM | It used to be all about me in my younger days.
Now I want it to be all about her.
I want her to be a selfish lover.
I find now I love to give pleasure, and it is much more enjoyable than receiving it.
I encourage my woman to be selfish and only take.
That's the biggest turn on for me there is. | |
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| Selfish & Proud
Posted: 10/23/2009 12:29:49 PM | yes i have had a couple of women that where selfish lovers, all of them where lazy save one
for the most part north american women are lazy, and not very imaginative on the sack | |
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| Selfish & Proud
Posted: 10/23/2009 12:39:14 PM |
Every man i have ever been with has been selfish in bed, i have yet to experience sumone who will pleasure me first and foremost
Oh you poor woman. Someone's going to have to show you how a real man can make you feel. 
Probably 3/4 of the women I've been with have been selfish. I guess it's the fact that women in their teens and early twenties don't have a lot of experience and are still self-consious. I hope that's what it is anyway. | |
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| Selfish Lovers
Posted: 10/23/2009 12:51:58 PM | The last "selfish" lover I had was really terrible for it. She could take all that I could give...but ask her big ass to get on top and she'd whine...ask for a bj in the morning after 4 hours of seeing to her good and proper (and I mean PROPER) the night before without ONE orgasm for me and she rolls her big ass over and goes right back to sleep...didn't even get out of bed to see me out the door.
THEN...when I mentioned it to her...I was the ***hole. How does that work???
Needless to say she was cut off right then and there. To be honest she was a pretty big girl and I think her weight made her lazy... | |
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| Selfish Lovers
Posted: 10/23/2009 2:27:25 PM | | I am a shellfish lover. Love mussells provincial, or a Zarsuela de Mariscos, or in a paella. Ymmmm. Yeap, I am a shellfish lover. | |
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| Selfish Lovers
Posted: 10/23/2009 2:36:30 PM | | ba dum bum...thank you...try the veal and tip your server!!! | |
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| Selfish Lovers
Posted: 10/23/2009 3:08:20 PM | | Oysters all the way for me! | |
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| Selfish Lovers
Posted: 10/23/2009 4:53:36 PM | A selfish lover, someone who knows no way of pleasing herself or her mate.
Someone who wants you to jump through hoops and uses trickery thinking sex is based on a reward system. | |
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| Selfish Lovers
Posted: 10/23/2009 9:38:54 PM | | Nope. I've had an encounter with a selfish man or two..wish I could say it was when I was young and dumb..I wouldn't let it get to the sex stage though..once I actually allowed myself to believe it was just a case of him being selfish and inconsiderate with a pricky side..I am unfortunately way too far into kaishu 'see the good' for my own good sometimes ( but I guess I eventually get it). I actually think the most recent one would still be a good lover, but only because of his ego and drive in spite of the fact that I'm sure he's as selfish in bed as out. Some people are just that way. | |
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| Selfish & Proud
Posted: 10/23/2009 10:21:54 PM | WANT TO TRAVEL:
I beg to differ with you on THE NORTH AMERICAN WOMEN:
Maybe your experience has been with that but me being one I can assure you that lazy and unimaginative I for one am not.
I love to give pleasure to my man but I do want and expect the same in return.
Sometimes I'd rather just give to my guy as I know he is happy and being pleased and want and expect nothing in return but having a selfish lover is not anything I'm willing to accept. You show me one time your selfishness in bed, kitchen table, floor, LOL,and I will show you the door so fast your head will spin.
I dislike selfishness, PERIOD, especially when it comes to sex. 2 people in the bed for shared pleasure and intimacy not 2 people and one getting all the pleasure. | |
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