| | He Thinks She's Hot.. She Thinks He's Hot - Do you Know You're Hot?Page 6 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | Breakfast Club huh??
Just so long as I don't get stuck with the Anthony Michael Hall character! I'm not scrawny enough.
Actually, I'm more along the lines of Judd Hirsch's character.
But, we can ALL agree that I'm no Judd Hirsch!
*shrugs*
Steve Buscemi is hot? Great actor maybe, but looks kinda creepy to me!
What are the qualifications and do I meet them? Lemme see;
Quirky: check
Masculine: check (definitely not effeminate)
Brawny: check(El Cheapo brand just ain't strong enough)
Shaved head: check
Earring: X (I used to be pierced)
Tattoos: check
Bad boy: ?? (look or attitude? I've BEEN the bad boy, but got the innocent look!)
No toaster needed here...................my buns are warm enough!
Edit: Talk about hot.........that Illinois first lady is hot! Hot headed, that is!
bullie needs to teach them IL politicians some manners! Not to mention, modesty! LOL | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 2:51:25 AM | The part of Brads Pit will be played by Mr. Provocative
Mo - will play curly
bullie with a b will be angelina jollyee
And I, well I will be the Goddess of All Appliances, esp. toasters.
Breakfast Clubs are hot.
Love
Hotlipps
aka babycakes sole food
ok- I gotta drink more coffee before I come in here .. y'all are addictive .. and I gotta work .. sigh .. shouldn't have to work, I mean .. Mo looks like he could fun my leisure .. lol .. right sweetcheeks?
take care of 'em bullie .. and put the toaster back! | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 6:58:01 AM |
((there are no toasters or coffee pots being given away in this thread .. unless you brought your own, in which case just leave it at the door .. thank you!))
op, I don't need a toaster but a stainless steel,french door frig would be a great addition to my remodel kitchen  | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 7:25:32 AM |
Hell yeah, I rock my package regardless.
Yah, thanks, coffee spew all over my keyboard............ WARN a girl next time, would ya?
"rock my package..." 
A.S.is.... I'm thinking Glen Close for you honey... but you're way off with the Pitt/Jolie mix... I'm thinkin' more Bruce and Demi, back in the day....... *snort
OK, ON TOPIC: Illinois government needs a shake up, shake down, new hair cuts and a few lessons in potty mouth etiquette. What, that's not on topic?
Shit.
'Kay......... ILLINOIS POLITICS ARE NOT HOT. But they ARE a HOT TOPIC.
Does that count?
And yah, I'm from Illinois, so I can say shit. *snort
That's HOT. | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 9:13:09 AM | | You know I never really thought about it to be honest lol. I figured I was good looking since the ladies I have met seem attracted to me but never really cared about my looks to much to be honest. I guess I have to ask the question to you all: Am I hot ?? lol | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 2:57:35 PM |
"Hot" is how a girl makes me feel about her when I'm feeling the chemistry with her. It's about not one thing but a bunch of intangibles that make my heart thump thump thump when she gets too close.
Yup, and YUP YCG1.... it's that indescribable something......
I've found honesty about all things in dating and relationships is important. Unfortunately, in too many cases people are delusional, not just about others but themselves.
Mo, ya hit it on the head... again. Most are quite delusional, and usually skewed the wrong way....
It's like that cartoon that most of us have seen.... with the overweight, flabby, fat guy looking in the mirror and seeing a body builder-type guy..... And the thin, toned woman looking in the mirror and seeing an overweight, flabby fat gal.
Eh.
Yer only as hot as you think you are... and as the love of your life thinks you are too. Right now, the love of my life is my cat Pablo, and he thinks I'm just purrrrrfect.
mraow~ | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 4:17:59 PM | No matter how many people will tell you that you are attractive, if you dont believe it, it will not change your mind.
I cannot stand it when a man is obsessed with his allegedlly inferior looks, had an ex like that, who used to throw tantrums over being fat. Gimme a break. That really puts me off. On the other hand I find people obsessed with their good looks equally unatractive. The most attractive is when they dont mention their looks at all and just radiate a quiet confidence, not looking for any reassurance either way. | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 5:23:53 PM |  we all know that it is on the inside that counts RIGHT!!!!! i have been told by many that i am hot, but i have realized that when they start with that line it usually ends up no-where and i feel i am hot on the inside as well as the outside,we should all feel that way about oneself! | |
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Posted: 12/13/2008 6:02:11 PM | no no Mo! .. I didn't mean 'play' curly as in 'act' - I mean "play" curly - (he's got the toasters!!).. sigh men 
I'd Rock your Package so much you'd forget about toasters, that's fer sure
So - it looks like I'll be busy for a few days. Gotta get that whippersnipper trimmin' below the knees!! hahaha
I mean - Doors open Mo!
phew .. Hot just got Steamy!
btw - the fundraiser was a HUGE success!! | |
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Posted: 12/14/2008 2:41:43 AM | I think some men and some women try too hard to be 'hot' and that is a huge turnoff. Look at me and my body, I work out 5 hours a day to get these muscles. Look at my boobs, I paid a lot of money for these. To me that is low self esteem and low self worth to try so hard to look hot. It makes one look like a fool.
I am just me trying to no one and not trying to impress. If some think I'm 'hot' that's spiffy. If some think I am ugly, that is spiffy too. It makes no difference because I like me as a person and vlaue that over how I look anyday.
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Posted: 12/14/2008 4:43:23 AM | Being hot or attractive to the opposite sex is all about confidence, how you feel and see yourself is how they see you. I am 300% convinced.
Hotness is a also a full package not just a thing or two. Self confidence and a healthy self esteem are the keys.
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Posted: 12/14/2008 6:14:50 AM |
Look at my boobs, I paid a lot of money for these. To me that is low self esteem and low self worth to try so hard to look hot. It makes one look like a fool.
Carrie, and what evah you do please don't get one of those tats on your chest cuz
now that, would be a tragedy!
au naturale is divine...  | |
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Posted: 12/14/2008 7:27:04 AM | "Does it really matter if someone else thinks your hot?"
It usually makes a difference in the number of opportunities in life in terms of career and dating and being given the benefit of the doubt. Certainly unattractive people can have lots of opportunity in life too, but I think it's a harder road for them in comparison. Also it's easier to have said "confidence" that people claim is the be all powerful elixir when you are constantly getting positive reinforcement of any kind. Usually attractive people get that reinforcement all the time.
I don't think it has to "matter" to the individual in question, but I do think it will massively change their life in many ways if they were appreciably more or less attractive than they are now.
"What if you don't believe it?"
Then you don't. People will still treat you based on how they see you, not on how you see yourself directly. Now if you see yourself in a more positive light, typically that manifests itself in behavior that increases a positive outward appeal. (Like going to the gym) And then people treat you better as a result. I don't think people treat confident people better because they are confident, I think they do because confident people are taking actions that making themselves more visually impressive to the outside world.
"What if You think You're hot, but no one else seems to?"
I think balance is probably the ideal. People should have healthy self esteem. But people need to also be self aware enough to realize where they stand in the world and how the world in general will value them .... or not value them.
Is it "cool" to know you're "hot" or is that "hot" too??
Generally people want to date other who have more to offer than they do. It's simple human nature. Usually issues like modesty or having a major flaw is a way for someone to feel that you are more accessible. When you get older, you realize how people react to you is rarely about you.
I think a lot of people want to knock anyone who they perceive has more than what they do so it soothes the pain of rejection they feel by society. Or the insecurity they feel. Or to justify why they didn't try in the first place. To me, that's an "ugly trait". Assuming someone who is physically attractive must be something horrible personality wise or defective in that way absolutely. If you want feel better, eat an ice cream cone, don't try to drag someone down so you can fool yourself into thinking you are pulling yourself up.
I think the "cool" thing is to do your best to make the most of what you have to work with in any given time and place and accept that it's enough, even if you don't get what you want. For many though, sadly, it's not enough. People who are successful and happy in life are usually well rounded people. Being good looking isn't enough, you have to work on not relying on that to get by in life. Being intellectual but not showing in concern for your physical appearance is also just as troubling. You have to realize that you can't get by in life and completely ignore the looks issue. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2008 9:07:17 AM |
What if You think You're hot, but no one else seems to?"
I think balance is probably the ideal. People should have healthy self esteem. But people need to also be self aware enough to realize where they stand in the world and how the world in general will value them .... or not value them.
Wow...that's just...wow. This sounds like Hitler's beauty and style opinions brought to you via GQ magazine. I don't think you can ask people to look at their own body and judge their own looks with a "know your role homie" attitude. Frankly, anyone that does this would be extremely unattractive, fairly stupid, and completely shallow.
Also, check out the peole that run/have ran America. Most of them, the most powerful people int he world-- ugly as sin. I don't think Janet Reno said to herself, "I shouldn't try to become Attorney General because I look like a dying horse. And I am sure she ended up pretty happy with her value and place in the world. JMO. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2008 9:49:31 AM |
I am just me trying to no one and not trying to impress.
I really only wanna impress myself. If I look in a mirror and I like what I see, I'm good. Other people liking it also is just like icing on cakes... delish, but not REALLY necessary.
Thanks, read-only. | |
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Judd Hirsch was the guy from the tv show Taxi. 
Which is fine because they were all hot, too. 
