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 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/12/2008 9:11:54 AM
I think the first thing we have to know is... How often does the gag reflex kick in when a woman first sees you....?????
 willyyoc1

Joined: 11/3/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 9:21:28 AM

I'm sorry.........are you trying to figure out how you can do this or the woman you are with? Let's try this...........take a big pickle and cram it down your throat in different positions until you figure it out..........then you will know for your personal sexual growth.JMO

 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 28
Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/12/2008 9:23:15 AM

How often does the gag reflex kick in when a woman first sees you....?????


Zing!

OP, I only give out that kind of info to single people. So you are SOL. Anyone who knows how to give a great bj, knows you don't have to deep throat. Amateurs who feel they need to push the givers head down so that they gag, tend to be control freaks.
 silentsteel

Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 29
Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/12/2008 10:34:06 AM
From the rumors that I have heard...you couldnt gag a house mouse...so why waste our time worring about a grown womans gag reflex...lol...just kiddin
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 10:44:10 AM

AND TO THE PEANUT GALLERY:
I also dont see who I am, or what my profile says has ANYTHING to do with the question. I am far from the only married person here who is looking around, and I am not ashamed to say I am doing so.


OP.......if this is the case and you aren't ashamed then put your picture up? Sorry, can't blast people on how okay you are with this when you are still hiding. I bet your wife is proud you are on here asking how to get your penis down some chicks throat with out getting puked on.

I dont think there is anything wrong with married people being on a dating site, because they might be like myself (no I am not married) and really enjoy the forums, but when they are asking how to do things and hide about it I think it is wrong, because I'm sure this OP is not talking about this to help his wife.
 davidsauvignon

Joined: 2/6/2008
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Easing gag reflex...possible solution?
Posted: 12/12/2008 11:09:13 AM
I just thought it very appropriate that InOverMyHead posted to this thread!





~ds~
 nrml67

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 32
Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/12/2008 11:37:23 AM
OP, I only give out that kind of info to single people. So you are SOL. Anyone who knows how to give a great bj, knows you don't have to deep throat. Amateurs who feel they need to push the givers head down so that they gag, tend to be control freaks.

OneMoreTimeWithFeeling is well educated and knows. Probably 'cause she's one of those women who "take an interest" OP YOU could learn a thing or two just following her comments!
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 12/12/2008 12:05:40 PM

just hold her head n move hips back n forth , she''ll take it all


I'm trying really hard to hold my tongue on this... but.. honestly... does that sh*t work for you? 'Cause if you tried that with me, you'd be heading to ER and praying there was a very talented surgeon on duty.

I enjoy giving.. but I give on MY terms, not his. The minute his hands get near my head, I'm done. And I won't go back.

As for the OP.. there are other techniques to retrain the gag reflex. Common knowledge is when you brush your teeth, you should work the toothbrush towards the back of your throat each time you brush.. each time going a wee bit further. I can stick my finger down my throat without gagging. I can't brush my teeth without gagging on the foam. I've deep throated a couple of times, but was incredibly drunk at the time.
 Lil Brooker

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 12:13:41 PM

whats the trick to taking it all?

Practise! Practise! Practise!
Get a dildo your size and keep shoving it down your throat until you can take it all the way. (Warning, this may take weeks!) Once you can do it, you will know the trick and can pass the secret on to the next chick you cheat with.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 12:48:25 PM

OneMoreTimeWithFeeling is well educated and knows. Probably 'cause she's one of those women who "take an interest" OP YOU could learn a thing or two just following her comments!


Oh go on....

I have followers. It's cause I'm hot, right?
 FriendlyFreeSpirit

Joined: 8/24/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 12:49:30 PM
^^I think this is a great idea, Brookner. Of course, the OP runs the risk of widening his oesophagus to the point where he could probably shove a whole watermelon down with gulping, but hey, it's all in the name of science, right? Not only that, OP, but it would be a great party trick at family dinners. And think of the changes in your physiology. Your neck will become much larger than your head. You could enter freak shows, be a TV star, a porn phenomenon..(sorry, my mind wanders off on strange tangents)..
 QeteshK

Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 12/12/2008 1:21:36 PM
Let me spills some beans then....
Positioning so your throat goes the same direction is important and shaving helps too.
But from my perspective the trick to taking it all seems to be that the guys****is small enough to swallow! So if she's not taking it all in you shouldn't be so disappointed you have a big one! And just live with her using her hands to help out!
 yna6

Joined: 1/21/2007
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Posted: 12/12/2008 1:57:51 PM
Practice with veggies....I knew a couple girls who did that and soon "beat" the gag reflex somewhat. Drinking a lot at one time can do it too...as in the person who suggested shotgunning beers.
Anyhow's, I guess this is a case where size does matter.
 BiInPG

Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 6:16:24 PM
Ice. Yep. Seems to work okay for those with a touch gag reflex. Get her to suck on an ice cube, the whole thing. Then give it a try. It might work, might not, but its worth a shot! It was my friends suggestion that she uses. I dont know if it works, I dont have that problem.

Good luck!
 tarotdream

Joined: 10/12/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 7:33:20 PM
Many of the answers from women seem a little tense and don't address the question. Look at it again, it's a question, not an invitation for moral essays.

Applause also for supporting a forum where anybody can ask anything wo/fear of ridicule or hostility.

As to the OP being married - he's being truthful. Plus I'd be careful about supporting personal investigations into who can and can not participate.
 xMissAlison

Joined: 8/12/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 11:43:48 PM
Haha, I'm not gonna lie, I've done some research on this

And the conclusion that I've come to is that if it doesn't already come naturally, it's just something that takes practice and like many other people have already said, it's all about finding the muscle and how to control it.


That's all
 belgarion

Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 12/13/2008 3:10:23 AM
Gag reflex??
You're kidding right?
If this is something that is paramount in your mind, then you have more serious issues to deal with.
To me it's like, " Should I get the ceiling painted beige, or maybe a nice off white? "
But then again it wouldn't matter to you, as long as there is a ceiling.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 12/13/2008 5:16:27 AM
OP, my gag reflex doesn't seem to be hyper active. I can brush my tongue and go pretty far back. But I refuse to let a guy shove his p.enis back there. The idea of a guy f***ing my mouth/throat is offensive to me. Bet you didn't really want to hear that.

N.
 InOverMyHead616

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 12/13/2008 8:56:53 AM
Some people get their exercise by jumping to conclusions.
There seems to be some objection to the concept of
> Spray this stuff so I can ram me into you! <
I agree - I've never had anybody else use the stuff.
I was just passing along someone else's suggestion.
I tried it and it seemed to help.
 compleat_man

Joined: 10/3/2008
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Posted: 12/13/2008 8:59:29 AM
what's the OBSESSION with "deep throat" about?

comes from watching too much PORN??

don't worry, your HAND will never refuse you..can can take your big 'man-unit" ALL THE WAY! :)
 misscrissee

Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 46
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Posted: 12/13/2008 11:14:57 AM

what's the OBSESSION with "deep throat" about?

comes from watching too much PORN??

don't worry, your HAND will never refuse you..can can take your big 'man-unit" ALL THE WAY! :)



 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 12/13/2008 2:13:49 PM
There are a lot of angry women out here.

"Don't touch my head or you'll be at the ER..."

So, I must be the only person to have found women that LOVE having their head pushed and hair pulled while giving BJs, huh?

Some boring women in this thread...
 misscrissee

Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/13/2008 2:51:55 PM
Get a Grip...Do you really think a woman with any kind of class is going to write down in a PUBLIC forum how she gives head without gagging?
 That_girl*

Joined: 9/29/2008
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Posted: 12/13/2008 5:22:56 PM
to the guy who said that there's some angry women here an assuming that all women should love being forced or having thier head pushed down to do something that they may not want to..


im sure if some guy came up behind him pull down his pants an got him in a head lock while slowing pushing his head onto his d ick he would probably pitch a fit if not break down an start crying..


some men always b itch about what a woman should love to do or what she should just shut up an take it,, but these are the same guys with whom if they was forced to take "it" or what they should love to do the same s hit they wouldn't want to, or they would nag,or they would cry rape..

it's always a double standard.
 64 Classic

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Posted: 12/13/2008 5:45:52 PM
Well smellofpoop, if you've found women who love to be forced then good for you, as long as you know for a fact that they are in to this and aren't just assuming. As for me, I will NOT be forced to do something. As far as I'm concerned any man who forces something on someone has lost the right to call himself a man. Same goes for a woman. If I were to force someone to do something they were not comfortable doing then IMO I've lost my woman card. A little respect goes a LONG way in the bedroom.
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