| | Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?Page 5 of 7 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7) | umm, it's not exactly 'new' in porn, is it??
seeing as how the movie with the TITLE "Deep Throat" , starring Linda Lovelace, and all about this 'subject', was released in 1972..
it was such a part of the popular lexicon that the 'source' who leaked the Watergate break-in information to the Washington Post reporters Woodward & Bernstein was code-named "Deep Throat" (in 1972-3)
Duh. I've seen "Deep Throat", know when it came out, and know this sex act has been around for awhile.
I also know that something called the "internet", in case you haven't heard of it, has made porn ubiquitously accessible to the majority of Americans, particularly American youth. Now "gagging, puking on c*ck, face f*cking", etc... is just a *click* away for millions of Americans. This was not the case when I was growing up, and it surely has changed the sexual landscape.
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/26/2008 11:27:34 PM | Splendere
Pardon, to some men performing cunnilingus on a women is to partake of ambrosia. If it is a favor performed for the promise of your fantasies……undoubtedly, it will not be ambrosia to your mindset; a sensitive woman will know this and not quite appreciate your efforts.
My point was only that if both people did only what they wanted to do, then you might end up with some very bland, boring bedroom activities. Sometimes, one person will go out of their way to do something for the simple fact that they know how much pleasure it causes, and love to see their partner enjoy it. This works for both m-f, and f-m obviously. Obviously, the courteous thing to do when someone goes out of their way to pleasure you is to return the favor. I'm a fan of the golden rule.
I have no idea what you're talking about regarding deep throat deaths. In fact, I would say that is quite impossible, as a woman's survival instinct would undoubtedly kick in. You're simply being ridiculous. | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/27/2008 12:17:57 AM | I can't say I've heard of deaths from it but I do know it causes breathing to be cut of...so you either have to use your nails to grab his attention if he gets carried away - or, since we're all about learning new techniques in this thread, learned to effectively breath through your vagina, being that body parts are interchangeable for sex  | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/27/2008 7:55:32 AM |
Don't go talking to me like I'm stupid, junior. ;)
anger/rage issues? I recommend cutting back on the caffeine..or other drug? | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 12/27/2008 1:24:58 PM | | Chameleon, for what it's worth, I've known a few who could breathe whilst performing. ;) There are videos on the internet if you'd like to confirm. LOL | |
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Posted: 12/27/2008 6:42:21 PM | How the hell should I know??
Wouldn't that require having a woman perform oral on you first????
The last time I was blown................was before I was on pof!! | |
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Posted: 12/27/2008 7:13:44 PM | Jeez, I resisted posting on this 'cuz I don't want it on my profile, but here goes....
To him - You can ease the gag reflex by not f ucking her face and trying to cram your whole c ock down her throat full throttle... let her control the depth and speed at her pace - not yours - now let go of her ears. Never belittle or make your partner feel bad if they try and can't please you. Its not for everyone.
To her - Breathe through the nose. Relax your throat and if all else fails, head off the bed, tipped back to relax the throat. Don't spray shit down your throat to numb it - that's dumb. Like the good doc/racer said, the gag mechanism is there for a reason.
I saw a porno the other night that cracked me up. They had this German chick giving head and gagging the hold time... thought she was going to toss her cookies... sounded like a cat in the night on the carpet.... If every guy thought that particular bit of porn was the norm, no one would ask for head.
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 1/4/2009 8:38:01 PM |
A gay male friend of mine said what helped him was when he paid attention to how his throat works when he's swallowing a pill.
I have a strong gag reflex...but it is something I work on when doing certain things 
As for your comment, what happens when the person can't swallow pills or shots of alcohol for example [like me]?
Luckily I have never thrown up or anything and have never had any complaints so I must be doing something right (I might not be able to do it all but there are so many things that can be done to make up for any "short comings")  | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 1/13/2009 11:14:10 PM | | why r so many woman complaining about deep throating a**** i use to gag too but learned to really enjoy pleasing a man that way and forget about gagging and just worry about pleasing the man i am with, the look on a mans face is priceless. | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 1/14/2009 3:58:36 AM | I think it's a legit question...some women do seem to have a knack for it, some don't. Why is that?
Um I really would like to see what it can be like when the guy gets a little eafer and pushes a rather large thing into the back of their throats LMAO | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 10:23:04 AM |
Jeez, I resisted posting on this 'cuz I don't want it on my profile, but here goes....
Awwww, those moral dilemmas are a bytch. Lol. I get this alot, and have actually refrained from posting in the past. Like, twice, maybe. In those anal threads. So I'm a slut! So!! Any ex-lover can, and sometimes does, spread the word, in your community. And it's not like you can get them to sign off on a confidentiality agreement before they leave. Lol. My posts seem to be most noticed by those in Canada, Europe, Australia and the left coast. Yeah, the acoustics here are best for those in the top tiers of the stadium.
To him - You can ease the gag reflex by not f ucking her face and trying to cram your whole c ock down her throat full throttle... let her control the depth and speed at her pace - not yours - now let go of her ears. Never belittle or make your partner feel bad if they try and can't please you. Its not for everyone.
This is, of course, great advice. Hey, if anyone attempts to slur you because of this post, you can say you figured it out from practicing with tubers in the school cafeteria, but never went beyond that. Personally, whenever a lady attempts to do me this way, I get like a calf looking at a new gate. Yep, astonished paralysis. My gag reflex kicks in about an inch behind the tip of my tongue (ever curious, and more than a little competitive, I snagged a carrot at that jr-hi cafeteria and slipped around the corner to get a better grip on this issue- just to teach, if the occasion ever arose, mind you) . My hat is off the those women who can any more than that.
To her - Breathe through the nose. Relax your throat and if all else fails, head off the bed, tipped back to relax the throat. Don't spray shit down your throat to numb it - that's dumb. Like the good doc/racer said, the gag mechanism is there for a reason.
Ok, this the advanced stuff (way beyond the inch). (Pulling out throw rug, kneeling, salaams to the north).
I saw a porno the other night that cracked me up.
Now we're talking!! This, I can do. On another thread, MsMicki disclosed that her New Year's resolution was to watch a porn flick in it's entirety. Lol. I've never done that, either, so I asked her to let me know whether they really do have plots, character development, tragic/comedic themes, catharsis or catarrh. And, oh yeah, a moral.
Sounds like you watched a comedy. Did ya happen to see the end?
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 1/16/2009 6:52:51 AM | I know I give good head (former participants confirm this), but new friend just doesn't seem to enjoy it when I try to give him bj. He is a bit bigger than former participants which is a challenge (that I am up for!) but he gets impatient and won't let me finish. I don't know, maybe he just prefers to finish elsewhere. Should I just tell him that I want to finish him in my mouth?
Laying back on the bed is something I'll try next I guess. This is really frustrating me because I have always enjoyed giving head and been told I was good. Never been with a guy who doesn't like em. But then again, he has only gone down on me once. Maybe he has an oral aversion? | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 1/16/2009 8:05:42 AM | Much like thinking that you're technique for going down on a woman will work for all ladies, it's called a little communicating. I'm all for a little instruction.
But to insist that all women will want to learn to do this is crazy. But if you have a willing subject it is a matter of calmness not force. Besides I would rather save the thrusting for where it will count the most.
If you are that into face f*cking , join a fetish site or buy yourself a plastic doll. | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 1/26/2009 7:53:28 PM | honey it anit always about the women...i have gay an bi male friends as well as gay & bi female friends too..
the men know whats up..who can take a d ick better then,,, mmm hmm another man as well as who can eat p ussy better then mmm hmmm another woman..
however to each thier own.. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2009 9:32:40 AM | timing and rhythm
she needs to be able to inhale/exhale properly while taking you in further while maintaining a rhythm. you can't teach her, maybe coach her by giving her suggestions if she's willing to learn. but she will learn at her own pace. | |
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| Easing a womans gag reflex...possible?
Posted: 2/14/2009 9:39:14 AM | Personally I think most of the females responding to this are idiots.
I make effort to give a girl oral sex and I definitely do pretty good at it. If I can practice and keep my skills up, whats wrong with a girl practicing with me? Deep throat is a great feeling. That and anal sex. Both things I have been told are enjoyable once you get used to it. In no way are they degrading or bad. That is just some facade that woman just make up to be lazy. | |
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