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 Thaddal

Joined: 10/23/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/11/2009 12:24:31 PM
Well..any man who would use the word rape ..concerning any women...is...not someone i would have anything to do with again... Just a note...when a man reveals his true self to you....believe him...and..he's not much of a boyfriend if he has that on his mind...and has the urge to let you to know it....if it were me...i would have got up, and left the restaurant...and..he wouldnt have had any further contact with me...
 acuddler

Joined: 10/30/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/11/2009 3:12:09 PM
Guys often 'joke' about things they fully mean but don't dare admit to publicly. If a guy joked like that around me, I'd get his DNA sample-from a cup he was drinking out of, or a discarded napkin, or such-and send it to my cop relatives to match against unsolved sex abuse crimes. If I were a chick I would: get up, go to the little girl's room to powder my nose, and never come back, and never talk to the guy again.
 acuddler

Joined: 10/30/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/11/2009 3:30:39 PM
Guitarguy10...you think some of the women here are overly sensitive, and can't take an obvious joke? How would you feel if Big Bubba,and his Boys at the Biker Bar got horny, gang raped you, and then asked: "what's wrong...can't ya take a little joke?" Would you not let it ruin your whole day? Would you let it roll off? I doubt it. Once you've been raped a time, or two, you won't think such jokes are so funny. You may even come to dislike them yourself. Many women have been raped, or have a close friend/relative who has been raped. Even as a joke, it is not the sort of thing to tell women. Save it for the guys in the locker room. Then, too, there is the fact that you have no way of knowing the guy WAS joking. He could have been totally serious, and setting up stage one of the rape he is planning...by telling the woman he plans to rape that he is a rapist, so she can worry about the possibility of being his next victim. It is a control thing...instill discomfort, which slowly builds to terror...before striking. Not only am I for burning the guy at the cross, I am willing to light the fire. Any decent person would be...which tells us all we need to know about you, too, I guess. Birds of a feather flock together.
 Kindredspirit07

Joined: 9/25/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:46:41 PM
I would of said "Honey, the only action that you will be getting in that department tonight is my drink". Tossed it in his crotch and left. Obviously, his privates needed to be cooled off.
 HappyHeart777

Joined: 8/2/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:52:49 PM
What kind of man associates with a male friends that joke about rape?? Not the kind I would want my man to associate with.
 musicshari

Joined: 4/11/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/12/2009 3:05:18 AM
Never want to be in that psoition, not to mention the other position much worse
 footsiegirl

Joined: 11/15/2009
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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do?
Posted: 11/18/2009 4:47:00 PM
[now, that being said, there are women out there with that fantasy, believe it or not, and maybe, lord willing he can find one before he does some actual damage]

Sorry poster but that comment is a contradition in terms. Rape is an assualt, a sexual assualt - that means forcing someone to have sex without their consent. For a woman to state that she would like to be raped (whether in realtime or a fantasy) actually means she would like someone to perform a sexual act with her or upon her WITH CONSENT, which means she does NOT want to actually be raped.

I had a boyfriend who fantasised during an intimate moment with me, about wanting to rape another lady. He just didnt get why I was upset!!!!
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