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 fishmunger1

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 12/30/2008 6:50:07 PM
Should I say it?...............................................Or not?
BAC sure could use an adjustment.....................................................WTF
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 mka1968

Joined: 1/8/2005
Msg: 79
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Posted: 12/30/2008 8:50:46 PM
Thank you Edsa... I meant no discrimination, just simply posting my opinion to stay on the tread topic. I love everyone for who they are, I was simply trying to say we all have our preferences and should not be judged because of those preferences.
 lildeb52

Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 12/30/2008 9:27:13 PM
Good for You !!! It amazes me how people see themselves & each other ! I have been on several dating sites for a number of years. ( I had a 3 yr. boyfriend in between -- so don't anybody get discouraged. )

There are many men who call themselves average -- but are 40-50 extra pounds. Some women do the same..Being definitely heterosexual, I haven't looked at the women as much -- but have "checked out the competition" from time to time. It seems both groups exagerrate in their favor -- not sure who is worse. Nearly everyone moves their body weight down a notch or 2 on ALL the sites...."Average" generally turns out to be "a few extra lbs" but then isn't everything relative? It is normal for mid. aged people especially to carry a few extra lbs due to slowed metabolism. " A person who calls themselves "a few extra lbs" is often a "few dozen extra lbs !" ...and so on.

After dating a fellow who was living in a time warp -- looking for Twiggy, it was great to meet a guy who likes a few curves -- a woman who looks like a WOMAN !!!

It was great to hear from a fellow on here who enjoys "snuggly". I don't like to cuddle a coat hanger, or a manequin either ! Good for you !

Just wondering -- do guys measure their "waiste" below the gut ? Are we really supposed to go by the size of the belt instead of what is hanging OVER it ?? If they measured their actual middle -- it would really make for a different size.
 StarrEyez

Joined: 10/7/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 12/31/2008 9:27:33 AM

" A person who calls themselves "a few extra lbs" is often a "few dozen extra lbs !" ...and so on.



Up until 2 yrs ago, I was wearing a size 14 kids and a size 3 women. That is the way I had been most of my life. Then my thyroid went crazy and I have bounced up and down on the scale ever since. My profile says ''a few extra lbs'' because that is the way "I" see myself. My friends, family, and 99% of the men I have met say that I am and not overweight and that I do NOT look like my pics at all (yes, the ones showing were all been taken during the last 6 mths).

I believe that women are more judgemental on their sizes then the men. I think women will put average, if they feel very good and are told that they look very good at the size they are. I also think they will put ''a few extra lbs'' if they are not the ''usual'' size they are use to or 'feel' overweight. Men on the other hand, seem to put average unless they are a ''little more'' than just a little overweight. In my opinion, men look at their weight differently than women. We are more self conscious about even 5 lbs, where men seem to be more comfortable with their weight even when they gain 20 lbs. The way we view our bodies is due to the way we are brought up, society's influence, and the individuals own mental and emotional outlook.


If they measured their actual middle -- it would really make for a different size.


I totally agree with this!!! I think if the men had to wear a belt 'around' their belly button area itself instead of 'under' it, then the sizes would most definitely go waayy up Sorry guys, just being honest.
 Unclass4

Joined: 3/31/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 12/31/2008 9:25:39 PM
I have no idea what to judge as average anymore. I have my own opinion of myself but most people I tell at work or my family look at me like I'm crazy. Put my profile as a 'few extra pounds' as thats what I feel I am.

5'5 170lbs. or so varies of course but has been pretty much around that area for a couple of months. Worst part about it is I have 29 inch legs and a waist that varies from 32-34 depending on what kind of pants(dress,cargo,straight leg, & et cetera) I want to wear. It's terribly hard to find pants that fit and feel right.

Yeah I'm rambling I just like reading all the threads about the term "average" on threads and figured I'd finally comment on one.

 kimpens

Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 1/2/2009 2:57:27 PM
hip001 ~ liked your comments....guys of average size are in your category in my book!!! Skinny men and short are....ugh! Not for me!
 SamsBeachBar

Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 84
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Posted: 1/2/2009 3:27:21 PM
Your Right, your not average....your WOW!
 SamsBeachBar

Joined: 11/10/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2009 3:38:53 PM
A man .. or woman, who limits themselves by what a persons size is has a very shallow look on life. Yes, as a man, it's nice to be with a woman who takes care of herself and likes the way she looks. But, yess, there is a BUT, when looking for a person who is going to spend a part of your life with, hopefully a great deal of that time, I have a habit of looking to see if we stimulate each other intelligently. Looks can be changed in seconds, but if there is no basis on which to be compatible, I don't give a damn how good looking you are. I want someone who I can communicate with, exchange ideas with, grow with..if she happens to take care of herself, that's a great bonus. I don't judge a persons looks on what dress size or pants size she wears, we all could use some improvement if we look in a mirror, even if the one person we cherish the most tells us we look awesome, great, fantastic, super sexy, etc. We will always dislike what we look like because we are taught to look at ourselves in a negative way physically by various means. I say, give me a woman that makes me happy inside, as well as outside, and I'm all for it. There's nothing so sexy as a woman who smiles at you with true affection and shows it.
 mka1968

Joined: 1/8/2005
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:21:39 AM
I enjoyed what Samsbeachbar has to say and agree with his comments as well despite my earlier post.
 diane1222

Joined: 12/24/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:51:32 PM
Personally, I do wear a size 4, and was just told by a guy that I am fat.

Nice, eh? Yet, his profile says he is average, and he has a beer belly. I don't care whether he is working off some holiday pounds, but just because something doesn't work out, the name calling of fat is ridiculous!

Incidentally - smokers- if you smoke "only when you drink" and have two packs of cigarettes in your car, you are a smoker!!
 ccdarlin

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 88
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Posted: 1/8/2009 6:34:47 AM
well most of the men I have met on here have been short. men lie about their height all the time. if he says he's 5'8 he is really 5'4. it really blows when I to go meet someone and when I jump out of my truck I can see over their heads...what's up with that. so now I dont meet anyone who is 5'9. I am 5'5. nothing against you short guys...its just not my thing.
 ApprenticeSoulMate

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 1/8/2009 7:03:53 AM

smokers- if you smoke "only when you drink" and have two packs of cigarettes in your car, you are a smoker!!

or a VERY heavy drinker.
 Grailking

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 90
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Posted: 1/10/2009 2:58:04 AM


AMEN! lol.. I'm a size 14 and damn proud of it.


You are also 5'8" (I looked at your profile. LOL), and I personally would say the average woman in the USA is probably closer to 5'3" or so it seems to me, so even though a size 14, you can carry it better than a 5'2" woman could carry being a 12.


I have generally dated women who were in the 5'10"-6' range and around a size 14-20.

At 6'2" and 250lbs with 22" wide shoulders, I'm definitely larger than the average man.




Tim
 Grailking

Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 1/10/2009 3:06:51 AM
I've known some of the wealthiest people in North Florida through friends, and I'll tell you right now - most of them did not live extravagantly - I think that is probably why they were wealthy to begin with.


Tim
 OrangeBlssm

Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 92
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Posted: 1/10/2009 11:50:37 AM

DISSAPOINTED that not one female fish has made the ‘connection’ of what size is the AVERAGE man’s ………..(to keep in clean)……...Fishing Pole!!!


I knew that the 1st time I saw the title of this thread... which is today, what you had on your mind. It just so happens that I have a sturdy measuring tape sitting erect here on the desk. I have no shame in admitting that MY opinion is any that is aprox 6 inches is average, anything under that is extremely dissapointing. My BOB is 8" and does little tricks, god bless technology
 JadeOrchid

Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 93
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Posted: 1/10/2009 8:17:13 PM
Men lie all the time about their height and their weight....Lets face it
every time most guys open their mouths they are lieing about something, so lieing about their H & W and the size of their penis is the least of it...
I lie about my height I say I am taller cause I dont like going out with men who say they are 5'8 and who are actually 5'4....
 fishmunger1

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 94
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Posted: 1/10/2009 8:23:02 PM

Men lie all the time about their height and their weight....Lets face it
every time most guys open their mouths they are lieing about something, so lieing about their H & W and the size of their penis is the least of it...
I lie about my height I say I am taller cause I dont like going out with men who say they are 5'8 and who are actually 5'4....


I must say, you're quite the piece of work.......Lying (correct spelling) makes you no better than the men you're ragging on........WTF.....
 FortyFine44122

Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 1/11/2009 1:20:49 PM

every time most guys open their mouths they are lieing about something, so lieing about their H & W and the size of their penis is the least of it...
as far as my experience tells me, they don't lie until they asked,,,then they have to
Don't want to be lied, don't ask question
just go figure yourself
 Cajun3149

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 96
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Posted: 1/11/2009 1:48:42 PM
Ok ladies. 6'2", 250lbs, 42in waist, 48in chest, 17 1/2 neck, size 12 shoe, and it's average. Now, tell me I'm lying?
 warmwolf7

Joined: 1/6/2009
Msg: 97
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Posted: 1/11/2009 2:01:09 PM
Perhaps you fit each of those 10 steps. You dont speak for all of us, slick.
 JadeOrchid

Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 98
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Posted: 1/12/2009 6:07:57 AM
lie? plural form is lies. lying or lieing or whatever is that is an action, so it's a verb.or most likely, a gerund or what i think a verbial. and verb does not from it's plural form, unless you use it in a sentence, you can call it as a verb in plural form.but lie, its plural form is lies.and gerund of lies or lie is lying. no other spelling. lieing is not looking good, and there's no such spelling as that...so, question is answered.
THIS IS WHAT YAHOO SAID ABOUT LIE- LYING -LIEING
I guess I am not the only one who has been spelling it wrong all these years..
so I stand corrected..and thanks for the kind words, yes I am a piece of work..
By the way wheres your picture?? fraid wifey will get pissed if she see's you on here?? Or are you one of those guys with the super security jobs, who cant post a picture I have been hearing about on here!
 SRQleslie

Joined: 8/20/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 1/12/2009 6:16:10 AM

By the way wheres your picture?? fraid wifey will get pissed if she see's you on here?? Or are you one of those guys with the super security jobs, who cant post a picture I have been hearing about on here


Yeah - I agree with you about the 'no-photo' thing.............but there are ALWAYS extenuating circumstances. In Mr. Munger's case, he is just TOO GOOD LOOKING! He started out with a photo (I think?) but found out that we women were just SO shallow.........that he removed it..............'wants to be LOVED just for himself'!

SO now he just attracts the female fish with his 'wit' , 'diplomacy', 'intellect' and 'charm'!!!!
 fishmunger1

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 1/12/2009 8:03:21 AM
^^^^^^^^What she said......lol




fraid wifey will get pissed if she see's you on here?? Or are you one of those guys with the super security jobs, who cant post a picture I have been hearing about on here


..LOL....Wifey, that's a good one. I still believe in honesty, integrity and overall believing mankind is overall a good race. There are exceptions such as the a-hole you compared me with, of which if you can read and comprehend the previous posts on this thread you would realize what an asinine statement that was. But then people who lie for their own selfish reasons usually have trouble comprehending reality.........WTF.....



SO now he just attracts the female fish with his 'wit' , 'diplomacy', 'intellect' and 'charm'!!!!


And it works just fine. I'll be out this afternoon bicycling with a Phishette because of my wit, diplomacy, intellect and charm....
 bachelorsheaven

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 101
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:51:15 PM
Holy Batshit, Robin.... I found a thread I can say what I want about men and their "AVERAGE" pole.. Oh Gosh I love it.... The freedom.... Let me tell you what I have found to be "TRUE" what men seem to think of as average...
4"... thats right... I'm talking inches.... That's what they have hangin'......
But..... for some reason they have this urge to think it's double the size in their mind..
WTH is up with that? If you got 4, say you got 4.... If by some chance we end up screwing you, do you not think we know what 4" looks like.
NO YOU DON'T.... YOU STILL KEEP THINKING WE DON'T KNOW...
And then when we happen to mention the little mistake in your calculation, we hear "It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it" What have you been smokin'? Let me tell you guys the facts.....
IT DOES MATTER!!
How are you gonna use a pee-wee wee-wee to pleasure a woman? Again the facts.. YOU ARE NOT.. If by some chance you have a bigger than usual fishin' pole.... hmm, you can just lie there, and any woman will be able to use it the correct way herself.... but trust me if it's gonna fall out the watering hole everytime a woman moves or breaths... Not worth it...
SO MEN.. AVERAGE ISN'T A WOMANS CHOICE... JUST LIKE IT ISN'T YOURS..
BUT FOR OUR SIDE... AT LEAST YOU KNOW AS SOON AS YOU MEET US IF WE'RE "AVERAGE" OR NOT... WE HAVE TO WAIT TILL' WE HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU TO FIND OUT "YOU SIR, ARE JUST NOT AVERAGE"
 bachelorsheaven

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 102
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:53:11 PM
Just a note.. I'm not sure many people are getting what the OP meant for this forum... but if you read on to her later posts... She does "refer" to it... THANK YOU OP!!
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