| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/28/2009 1:03:26 PM | I don't think it has to do with the partner. He obvioulsy wasn't forced into having sex and he wasn't forced into having an errection when HE was on top or in any other position. The guy just doesn't like a woman on top, or it doesn't feel as good or like the other person said - He's afraid she's gonna break it - LOL .
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| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/28/2009 1:53:20 PM | hellgremlin wrote:
I think I was around 18 when this happened. I was engaging in some particularly vigorous bouncy-bouncy, when my lady friend over-extended her lunge, and slid off my ****-bat. Said ****-bat then came to rest in the little concave pit between her crotch and thigh, and she brought her full weight back down on it before I could react.
I jackknifed. If you don't know what jackknifing is, pray you never find out. There was a sound, almost like bone breaking, and my world became a searing, screaming onslaught of never before matched agony. I'd rather endure vivisection at the hands of cruel Unit 731 doctors than go through that again. I'd rather let Josef Mengele go wild on my insides, sans anaesthesis. Even years later, I still have a very slight curve to the side, and a thickening in the middle of my shaft as a result.
Penile-fracture, I think it's officially called - I also think that it generally requires a trip to the emergency room, but don't hold me to that.
Effectively, the bend causes a tear in the corpora cavernosa - and let me tell you that while I've never experienced it, just reading your post made me cringe.
As to the topic at hand, I like that position - obviously care must be taken, though.
Also, I tend to have a sharp upward incline to my penis, so a woman would generally HAVE to lean forward for me - I can let the erection soften slightly in order to allow my penis to "unbend" so that it's perpendicular to me, but with a full, 100% erection, I can't do that without serious pain.
Finally, Isuspect that blood flow has something to do with it, along with breathing as mentioned. With a full erection, I find I have to part my legs a little bit, otherwise I'm squeezing/putting pressure on things somewhat at the grundle (I never knew what that was called before!) | |
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| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/29/2009 5:23:37 AM | Hey Kaylie
The men you mentioned above can be gettin limp for a couple of reasons. It can be their diet, maybe they smoke and its catching up to em--lack of exercise. Maybe they feel a lil intimidated and want to be in control verse u being on top. They coulda came in earlier position--or maybe being oversexxed | |
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| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/29/2009 12:48:29 PM | Sometimes girl on top actually hurts if the girl is too boney. Pain is a distraction for me. Also, with girl on top I'm pretty much pinned down; so it's not easy to do any thrusting of my own. Therefore my own stimulation is more limited. I won't go soft by a long shot (pun intended) but I sometimes don't cum either.
OP, so my guess would be pain and/or lack of stimulation. Try some additional stimulation like the previously mentioned nipple pinching (not too hard), or if you're flexible enough-reach around and play with his sac-that's one does it for me. | |
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| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/29/2009 2:22:56 PM | I've found a lot of girls ( at least ones my age ) don't seem to know how to do this. They move far too rough. I think a lot of girls think our**** can take any punishment or something.
The idea sounds great, but I've yet to find a girl who does it well. | |
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| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/29/2009 3:26:50 PM | TRUST me... if a guy don't like it or can't keep it "hard" when a woman on top...these are the 2 main reasons:
1) He's GAY (don't like coochie)
OR
2) YOUR cooch wasn't good enough to him perhaps ( maybe sexual incompatibility... yes Ladies it true.. not all coochie is GOOD coochie!!)
Hey it happens.... | |
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| Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft
Posted: 10/29/2009 8:54:37 PM | | I've found that woman on top usually provides the least stimulation for the guy, so maybe that's why. If you like you can try it on me cause I promise I won't go soft. Or just slip them a viagara. It works. | |
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