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 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 51
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 6:23:16 AM
No, but I have "dumped" people via email. I think it has a lot to do with my absolute terror of confrontation.
 memorys

Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 52
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 8:55:08 AM
Not until now,,,kinda sucks!!!
 Lotsolaughter

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 53
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 9:03:49 AM

it always starts with those dreaded 3 little words
"It's not you!"
those three words suck...I heard them not so long ago...I did not have to read the rest of his email to know what was happening...but you know what...it is NOT you!
 Madpecs

Joined: 8/15/2004
Msg: 54
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 9:10:46 AM
hey, i've done it. i diddn't want to be in the relationship in the first place, and it had been a week.
i was in new york, she in toronto at that point..i didn't want waste a long distance call...needless to say, she went nuts and was engaged a few years later to another crazy...i keep turnnig them bad...this was in high school btw, but i might be tempted to do it again- if i ever take on a g/f
 kelly20

Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 55
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Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 9:21:02 AM
#i got dumped by my ex not so long ago...well let me first explain the situation, we were seeing each other for 5months, i guess that doesnt sound too long, but that fact was, we were getting on like a house on fire...and he never gave me any reason to think otherwise...
we hadnt seen each other for 4 days, that was fairly normal as we liked to do things apart so when we did get together...we enjoyed and valued each others company. like most other couples, we'd regularly send each other cheeky kinky texts,emails, or voicemails etc, (keep the passion alive and all that!) so this particular evening we were planning on getting together and having a very fun and 'eventful' evening...so i sent him a text around 2hours before he was due to arrive,i'd spent ages planning dinner, what to wear, etc etc.
i basically wrote something quite naughty, about what i had planned for dessert...(use your imagination) and 5 mins later my fone beeped. thinking it was an equally naughty text i felt my heart do that weird thing it does wen you are in love, i grabbed my mobile only to read...

'kel, i have to be honest with you, im still in love with my ex,although i havent told her yet.im a mess and no good to man or beast.sorry :-( xxxx '

so being as brave as possible, and wanting so bad to be the stronger person, i wrote back...'oh well, never mind, good luck and hope she takes you back...cuz i wont!'
 welsh_babe

Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 56
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 10:21:57 AM
yes i have been dumped by an e-mail...he was such a creep...i just burst into tears. I mean why couldn't he say it to my face?..
 greeneyedgirl323

Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 57
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 5:56:42 PM
i was about to say..has no one gotten one over a text message? this is my all time favorite break up line "well..i know you're looking for something serious and i just want a freak"...wtf?!?! you just want a f buddy...sweet. OH OH! and from a guy here over AIM..."you're not my type..too sexually aggresive"...*blinks* what 20 something guy doesn't like a sexually aggressive girl...hmmmmm...*shakes head*
 hac3011

Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 58
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 6:27:51 PM
I was rejected over an instant message on another service, does that count? LOL
 snowbird1111

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 59
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 7:36:47 PM
sorta but not really, I left him and moved away and 4 weeks later he wrote a "dear john/jane" dump me email and fwd it to my family and friends but not to me, to make it look like he did the dumping...weird eh
 snowbird1111

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 60
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 7:40:09 PM
Hac...that "sorta but not really " was meant about my post ok LOL , and yes I would think it counts t0o
 micky4367

Joined: 2/4/2005
Msg: 61
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/1/2005 11:39:41 PM
"Welcome to Dumpsville..population you" good old Homer Simpson. The list of things you can do online seems almost endless these days...bit impersonal though
 Devka

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 62
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/2/2005 10:23:00 AM
Heh, yes. The grand culmination of a 4 year relationship
 BeachPerson

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 63
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 7/2/2005 10:40:38 AM
Yes and the subject line read: "You may want to hit delete instead of reading this email."
 joel.s

Joined: 8/27/2005
Msg: 64
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/2/2005 12:31:39 PM
after 6 months of dating....4 days after my birthday (which i couldnt believe she got me a present) then dumped me? whats that???....6 months...never a fight..rarely even a disagreement....just 5 days before..she had told me...that she was happy and was all good..went to her house and made her soup 3 days before cuz she was so sick..then whammo

6 months...then an email....
 CeltiX

Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 65
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/2/2005 9:20:37 PM
I once had a relationship break up over MSN Messenger, but it wasn't really her fault. I saw the end coming, and I confronted her online, and she eventually broke and told me it was over. We made sure to meet in person a few days later to let everything out.
 MsTeddie

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 66
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/2/2005 9:39:41 PM
I was dumped by e-mail once.Talk about a loser..The night before, i had invited this guy over for a nice lasagna dinner and he showed up, with his 350 lb 16 year old son, without asking me, if it was ok to bring him.. I overlooked it, cause i liked the guy and just said to the guy, that it was a good thing, that i had made a big pan of lasagna.. After dinner, he said that he had to go to the office and would only be an hour and would be right back after that..I waited and waited, but he never showed up, or answered my page..The next day i got an e-mail from him and by the way, he lived two streets over from me and we had met at another dating site..The e-mail said that he didn't want to see me anymore..My reply to him was, that it was ok, cause i wanted a man, not a coward.. Anyway, that's my little story..
 InkedRed

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 67
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/2/2005 10:01:46 PM
I called him a couple of times, but he never answered. So I emailed him. Note: it was an extrememly Long Distance relationship
 mcbobly

Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 68
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Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/2/2005 10:03:50 PM
I've never been dumped by an email, but that is usually the way I find out there wont be a 2nd date, ok, whatever-coward.
 crazy_ruthy69

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 69
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/5/2005 2:28:48 PM
yeah I was dumped via email....was dating him for a year....he asked me to marry him...came down for the weekend and was very sweet and kind to me and my kids...then sent me an email attaching the way I raise my kids and just being very mean...guess it was his way to not talk as he had found someone else...I think personally he should have had the balls to tell me to my face...cowards are so unattractive guys
 mcbobly

Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 70
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Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 9/5/2005 3:30:22 PM
Dumped by an email? no, but have gotten a few "Dear John" emails telling me that as good as the first date was there wasn't enough 'chemistry' for another. Kinda sucks too. It usaly eays something like I'm a great guy and will find a nice lady one day, but it's her not me that isn't ready or whatever, ahhhh ok?
 kelly20

Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 71
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Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 8/31/2006 10:50:52 AM
ive been dumped via text, that sucks, and if it wasnt for the fact he got 300 free texts a month, i expect he'd have disappeared off into the sunset without even a letter explaining why,(stamps cost money !)...
wow thats a real man for ya !!!! lmao
kel x
 gareth14

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 72
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 8/31/2006 11:02:28 AM
Actually I got a Dear Michael Letter from a girl I was seeing for 6 weeks. Long story about that one. But the letter was totally unexpected. Was not impressed since she insisted I be open and communicative. Which I was.

Michael
 -Scorpio-Girl-

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 73
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 8/31/2006 11:02:36 AM
Oh I still remember the anger when I read this e-mail. I actually didn't even finish reading it and picked up my phone and called the guy. His roommate answers and says he isn't home...I said "yes he is as he just e-mailed me so put him on the ***** phone now"

The roommate just yells "Phone" and so this guy answers and says hi. I said "Hi" and you could just feel the shock he had at that moment. Then I said "Are you actually ***** serious? Do you have no balls? Because I thought I saw some but I must have been wrong." And then went on for another 5 minutes. He said some things but I was so mad. I was in tears crying afterwards and probably the last few seconds of the phone call cause it hurt. But wow.....I even get angry thinking about it right now.
 -Scorpio-Girl-

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 74
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 8/31/2006 11:04:36 AM
Oh an another thing....part of his e-mail commented that one reason was that I wanted sex too much for him. And another part said that he slept with his ex after a week of us being together and having sex already.
 Tango57

Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 75
Has anyone ever been dumped via email?
Posted: 8/31/2006 11:56:21 AM
WORSE! By text messsages... to this day, 5 years later, I'm not sure who dumped who but ultimately I had to do what he didn't have the balls to - but it went via text messages cuz he couldn't even face me... dirty rotten coward! LOL
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