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 candid_1

Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 12/25/2008 8:48:35 PM

Wow!

That WAS deep Baldy!

Call me a cynic, but maybe he just got the bill. $$$$$$ - talk maybe cheap, but text/cell costs!
 itsallinthesoul

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/26/2008 8:40:30 PM
Thanks baldy...you just confirmed what I thought.....

If it really bothered me, I would ask him why....there may be a reason other than the one given by Baldy which totally makes sense to me.
 REDDRAGON.

Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 12/26/2008 9:31:41 PM
I think over the last 1o years online dating has desensitized people. After the thrill of the chase is over and the fish has been landed they are off on their next conquest.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 12/27/2008 2:08:34 AM

Most men don't like to talk on the phone for more than the required time. Mind you I have met 2 on here that can talk more than most women I know.

I think it's very normal (from what I remember) for guys to just phone less as they date more.
 caspers fun home

Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:10:15 PM
i feel if you like a guy in your own town and you get on with him there are lots of ways to talk to him . pof phone pc meets up however how come you girls say like to meet nice guy not seeing anyone or with anyone on you own the guy sends you a email to talk for the first time but you do not get back to him how come you girls always end up with the guy who are seeing women girls and lie to you so what up with you girls on here i sent talk to lots of girls on here but only a small number of women have got back to me , i see a photo i like but you do not talk back to me ?? i am nice talk about what you like but you do not get back why is this
 ~LilBitCountry~

Joined: 10/26/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 12/27/2008 6:55:40 PM
It's all about the hunt, the chase and the kill...Once they think they have won you over they get bored and move onto the next. It's easy to do with online dating there are so many options and so many to conquer, so to speak..
 TheDirtyBen

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 12/27/2008 7:14:05 PM
Listen, If I'm interested in a woman, I can talk her to sleep! I'm just gifted like that!

When in the mood, I have the gift of gab..................when I'm in the mood!

For women, it's a sport that they participate in regularly!

For men, it's like a game of Badminton!

Keep in mind though.

The phone is just a supplement to direct, human interaction!
 Holbrook68

Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 12/27/2008 8:06:42 PM
Though it has been your experience I don't think it's true of all men. When I've been involved with someone I was really into I looked forward to talking on the phone months into the relationship. For me when there hasn't been that type of frequent phone contact/text it has been with women I didn't have that "chemistry" with.
 b42collins

Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/10/2009 2:09:28 PM
My take on any relationship where the connection just fizzles is the old cliche, "He's just not that into you."
 Bluegeenes

Joined: 2/15/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 3/11/2009 11:26:07 AM
On the other side of the coin: I once dated a woman who would make me sandwich every time I visited her home. A year into the relationship, I was lucky to get a glass of water.

But on the plus side, I found a great deli in her neighborhood.

Men and women are simply not the same kinds of creatures. And I'm thankful for that every time I see a woman.
 caspers fun home

Joined: 10/9/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2009 4:48:46 PM
it is not only men who do this so please do not run the guys down women also do the same to the guys so you ladys need to have the truth and respect for the good guys on here it works both ways for the guys and women on here lets get this right i had some bad and i mean bad ladys on here say to me that i am a wan**** all i did was to say hi i am ken made put down a word or two wrong , so please do not run the good guys down women can be so bad to the guys on here and we done nothing wrong ,
 caspers fun home

Joined: 10/9/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2009 4:59:24 PM
cowtrucker you seem to know men and that they do keep things to them self on how they feel . how nice there is a women who can understand this from a guy it is true we all have feelings a good women will know how to back off and when to use her knowage to draw out from the man how he feeling and can take hard work this is why a man just like to show he can handle life around him even if he cant on this a good women will stand by his side nice one
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