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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/23/2008 1:07:44 PM | | In my experience, the corelation is very close. I would have said 1:1 except that the best sex I ever had was not from the best kisser. She was a very good kisser, don't get me wrong; but while I've had better kissers, I've never had a better lover. | |
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kit901
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Joined: 7/9/2008
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/23/2008 3:40:13 PM | | I think that there is a big corelation between the two. First kissing is or should be very passionate and if there is passion then the rest is easy. If a woman is bad or an average kisser then it translates to bad or average sex! Just my opinion but I have noticed this with woman I've been with. | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/23/2008 7:20:40 PM | | Yes this is a very important matter. But, I don't believe you can gauge a good lover by the way he kisses. The great kiss is all about the chemistry. A great lover entails skills and experience, and maybe a little wisdom intellectually. Just an observation. :) | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/23/2008 7:29:57 PM | The numero uno hot spot on a women is her lips. Shocking, huh?
Kissing is so highly undervalued as spine tingling erotica. How sad. In answer to the original question, no~ I don't believe there is any correlation. An amazing lover doesn't depend on his kissing skills, there is much more depth to that equation. I'll leave it at that for the sake of decorum. | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:06:53 AM | If you are kissing someone it depends what the situation is between you both.. I feel if you have feelings and desire for the person.. all can kiss good... If someone kisses badly this is because they are not ready to kiss first place or they don't want to give all at this point in time as it is new or something.. or even it could be that they feel obligated to do so.. I do beleive desire has alot to do with it.. A good kisser is not always good in bed.. sometimes people have to learn about the other person... It depends alot on desire again too... But kissing someone you desire is such a pleasure and if you get the chance to go into a big snog with someone you have desires for.. do it.. as it is great... but it don't have to lead to sex anyways.. sometimes a kiss is just a taste of disire.. not always an opening to the sexual act...But kissing a person during the sexual acts helps relaxation and gives thoughts of exciting acts and feelings.. so I would say kissing plays a big part in bed anyways.. I know that thoughts going through my head can lead to a great time with a partener... as long as the disire is there in the first place in the kiss... I have gone off on one...lol so a kiss can lead to being good in bed... as it shows how loving and passionate you can be towards your partener..  | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:58:03 AM | Nope...I don't find the ability equal.
I had a GF that was a simply AMAZING kisser.......& an absolute dud in bed.
Everything was hot, heavy & passionate for those make out hours on the couch, but as soon as the clothes came off it was cold fish city. I was flabbergasted by the sudden, complete change in demeanor.
Turns out she had an unfortunate history of abuse which kept her from enjoying sex very much (tho we did work thru most of that, eventually).
So, some people can be such that kissing is the ONLY area where passion is given free reign. | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:00:50 AM | I've found that being a bad kisser (you know the kind, the one that shoves his tongue down your throat and swirls--those kisses you like the ones you had in middle school, KWIM?) usually equates being a bad lover.
My thinking is that if no one has ever told him by now that women don't like that, then he probably either doesn't listen or hasn't learned how to do it right and he usually humps like a teenager getting his first piece....meaning not much forplay, just go in, pump, cum & get out. That's not fun.
A good kisser, however doesn't necessarily make a good lover. Which sux, b/c when someone can make your toes curl with a kiss, you hope they'll do the same in the bedroom. | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/25/2008 10:45:07 AM | | In my experience,Absolutely,the way a person kisses is the way they have sex.Whether it's soft,sensual kisses or hard,sloppy kisses and everything in between tells how attentive a person is to you or themselves.A persons ability to be good in bed reflects on how attentive they are to their partner. | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/25/2008 3:06:10 PM | ABSOLUTELY!
I pretty much have a 1:1 correlation here. So for me now if he does not kiss well, we are going no further. Luckily I have one who curls my toes!
I dont know that I would say the best kisser is the best lover but, if he does not know how to kiss there are a bunch of other things he is lacking in as well.
I also agree with the person who drew the correlation with dancing. Dancing is a physical expression of passion. I love to lose myself in the music (being a little dead head you can imaging). I have noticed that men who are able to lose their inhibitions and dance and do it well are also good lovers. Just my experience.  | |
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| Do you find that the ability to kiss is equal to the ability in bed?
Posted: 7/25/2008 7:38:06 PM | To me, kissing is the most sensual thing two people can do. More sensual than a massage, or even sex itself, and it's important to me.
If she isn't a good kisser, there won't be another date. I don't even want to find out if ther is a correlation. | |
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