| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:20:56 PM | Could just be me, but, maybe it was the need to have the last hooray all the time that made him leave!!!
I can't believe you are 38. Don't you have any self respect? The guy obviously wasn't in love with you and he has moved on... something you should do as well.
It is women like you who damage women's reputations by being ignorant... self serving, self promoting and vindictive. Didn't your Momma ever tell you that you catch more with Honey?
Leave the man alone. He deserves a much needed breath of fresh air. And before you bash me for my comments... I don't like it when any gender plays stupid childish games and then complain about how their life is because of it. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 6:21:29 PM | hi blueeyeddreamer.
well, how do you get him back?
you know the answer to that question don't you? If he had no interest in you, then it's impossible. if he did, then it'll be easy.
Try to fit what he's looking for in a woman, in that case. but why would you want him? it seems like it'll only end in heartache in the long-run. I say, don't waste your limited time. Just gather as many pointer from this experience and move on.
Good things coulda came out of this. You know what not to do and what you should do, next time, with the next guy.  vs.  or    | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 6:22:06 PM |
OP
It is hard to get him to come over as he don't talk and he has a girlfriend
Ardently Michael
^^^^ OMG did I just read that ???? ^^^^ What a world we have now
Yup, you sure did read it........... which was my reaction as well.
OP, do you live your lies often? | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 6:32:40 PM | Good God, a 38-year old asking these questions?
Wait a minute, I think we have all been tricked because she has only posted once and never is here again. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 6:46:16 PM | | So OP, he dumped you, you want to get him to cheat so you can rub it in his new woman's face? You'd be happier in the long run, if you have a heart at least, to go for a looong ride on your horse and do something with the kids to get your head screwed back on straight... the best revenge is to go find yourself a new guy , be happy and forget him... | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 7:04:53 PM | No wonder men get bad impressions of women.
Go to your best friend.....and tell her to slap some sense into u. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 7:07:19 PM | here's what you do, so pay attention blueeyeddreamer ........ First thing is wait for the first moon of the new year, when the sky meets the sea, and pink elephant dances on the eyes of the moon
Take a snozzberry and your left hand and a candle in your right place in the middle of your forehead and chant " i am stupid i am stupid" say that 3 times
What kind of sick ass question is this? get a life or get your head candled, I cannot believe this thread wasnt deleted
No wonder the ex boyfriend dumped you , yikes..... | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 7:13:25 PM | I was SURPRISED to see thay you're 38 years old.
wow! what a immature thing you're planning on doing. put yourself in his girlfriends place, and GET LOST. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 7:13:57 PM | If your post is any reflection of your character, it is not hard to see why he dumped you and moved on to greener pastures.
Get over yourself, it is clear he has. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 7:16:59 PM | | try GROWING UP for one thing an actually GO GET A REAL LIFE for another.Sounds like the ex is smarter,being long gone. Where is your self respect OP???????????????????????????????????????? | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 7:33:27 PM | Are you serious ? If you are then this is another huge problem with dating. If you like the guy and he don't like you then suck it up and move on.....I can't believe you wanna screw everything up because you have history ???? Christ ! Get some therapy ! | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 8:43:12 PM | This isn't even funny.
You are really grieving over this
Guy.
I went back and read everything
You have written.
Stop making bets with your friends. Stop posting about him.
Stop telling and making up stories about her. Just stop this.
You don't and you won't have his attention anymore.
You sound like a jealous obsessed
Crazy woman. He is probaby all you talk about and sooner or later your friends are going to get sick of it.
The best revenge is to live your
Life. To heal and to find your
Happiness. You have some major personality issues to work on for the next guy.
I suggest you get started.
You actually want his drunk as*
No money can't hold a job back?
You just want to hurt her- she
Has nothing to do with this.
He is not your issue and I suggest
You let her deal with it. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 11:21:11 PM | OP
Never thought i'd come across a vindictive person on here
I hope you're not teaching these strategies to your children....
What i find bewildering is:
YOU REEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAALLLY BELIEVE people will support your madness.
You can't be that *&%^$#@!()_*&^%$#@!&*) ........ OR can you?
Now having said that - i pity you for who you are and what you've turned out to be. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 11:55:38 PM | | If you'd REALLY like to put the screws to the screw, go over his house after he gets off work (does he work?) and (pseudo) get his rocks off. As he bangs you and all that, tell him he's the best you've ever had, etc., and as you cuddle over the pillow talk, tell him you were only kidding and that he was the lousiest lay you've ever had the displeasure of enduring. Tell him you've had better sex with your dildo (or your step-parent, cuz at least they got you off). And he knows it. Tell him that after tonight, you wouldn't fvck him with anybody else's funky unwashed pvssy, and now that you've gotten all worked up (for nothing), you're going to really get fvcked with your date who plans on meeting you at 2 this morning (closing time). When you're done with this said guy, you'll come by and wipe his drunken dog face with someone else's cum in your drenched pvssy. The chances are good that you'll have had your last lix. Good luck! Love, Titus | |
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Posted: 12/29/2008 12:35:08 AM | I cannot understand your obssession with your alcoholic ex. You should be happy that he is out of your life as he is a bad influence on your kids. When you have this craving to get him back, just think why you broke up and how he has no focus in life; how he is unstable and cannot even afford his own car. His main interest will be booze and his new gf is meeting his needs. Maybe he needs a sugar mommy. It does not matter to him that she is older, obviously. Why should it to you? You were betting that their relationship would last only a month and it is now two months. So, leave them alone and move on!
You say he is ignoring you. Are you stalking him? Why in heaven's name are you obssessing over this man and wasting all your time starting threads after threads about him? He is not worth it!  You are well rid of him. It is best to concentrate on looking for someone worthy of your attention.
What is all this about getting him back for last hurrah? It is just too childish! | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/29/2008 1:17:04 AM | You come onto a dating site and ask people for advice on how to get someone to cheat.
We are all (well, most of us) here looking for people that DON'T cheat.
Did you seriously think anyone was going to help you? | |
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Posted: 12/29/2008 5:36:11 AM | What are you, 12? What do you want with a guy who ignores you in the first place? It sounds like you are just trying to play a silly middle school game, and create drama where there is none. Has his new girlfriend done anything to deserve what you are trying to do? (other than just existing, that is?)
Do him and yourself a favor and lose his number. Oh, and get out of the dating pool, men have a hard enough time WITHOUT women like you out there on the loose. | |
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Posted: 12/29/2008 6:06:57 AM | I saw the subject line, and thought: Huh? How to what ??
*** not even bothering to read Msg.1, let alone the thread...  *** | |
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Posted: 12/29/2008 6:47:05 AM | I thought the same as some of the other replies, I looked at your profile and saw you are 38!! You went from being a silly/naive young game-playing 20-something (the age I might expect such a question) to a immature grown adult.
Hint: learn to respect other people - he's not your 'playtoy' to drag into your mentally twisted little game. I'm betting he's probably *glad* to have nothing to do with you, given what you just posted, but you of course I'm sure don't care about that - you're just out for your own selfish desires w/o any thought for him. You are the type that will leave nothing but a wake of destruction behind you, without caring because its all about *you* isn't it? | |
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Posted: 12/29/2008 9:41:31 AM | Okay,
You are a 38 yr old woman with kids who are looking to you to be the adult and to be an example in every situation. They will eventually most likely pattern their behaviors after yours.
That alone should be enough to bring you to your senses and sober you up.....Would you want any one of them to go after a man this way?
Not bloody likely
Grow up!
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Posted: 12/29/2008 11:54:22 AM | | Hmmm this is a good question. I guess you would have to hit the gym, get your body tight, buy some stunning clothes, and then reholla at him later to have your last hooray. Unless you do that, you are definitely going to be shut down unless he is flakey and changes his mind often. | |
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