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 countrybaby10-4

Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 76
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Posted: 12/30/2008 10:32:08 AM
Where's the foph__fish on patrole headquarters. To put a end to the ops bs .
 cheryls place

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 77
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Posted: 12/30/2008 10:39:13 AM
You just basically want to play headgames with him. That is mean. It sounds like you don't want him, but you don't want anyone else to have him either. Leave the poor guy alone and get a life!
 FUN_GUY1982

Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 12/30/2008 12:50:51 PM
Go visit him with your clothes "off" this time, instead of with them on
 drumsafrican

Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 79
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Posted: 12/30/2008 1:53:23 PM
I think that you need to look at yourself! You sound like you're not listening to what is happening in the present and/or respecting someone' s right not to see you. He has a new girlfriend. You need to let go and look elsewhere for new dates. None of us on this forum wants to teach you how to manipulate people and not listen to their wishes.

Judith
 zekestone

Joined: 6/6/2008
Msg: 80
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Posted: 12/30/2008 2:23:18 PM
I think OP has gotten the message and has now left the building...
 whatsallthis

Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 1/3/2009 7:45:22 PM
Is this one of those "always want what you can't have" things? Why would you want a guy who ignores you? If you want to be used for sex, I'm sure you could get him for a night or two.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:25:11 PM
Don't. Get over him and move on. You can always "entice" him with sex, but sex doesn't "land" him (win over his heart). He'll just be into you for sex and cheating on his girlfriend in the process.
 HockeyFan75

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:32:06 PM
I'm still thinking this is a joke topic....
FWIW, if the guy is ignoring you, do not waste any time on this.
 sweet_n_heart

Joined: 1/31/2007
Msg: 84
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Posted: 1/3/2009 10:24:32 PM
Hunny you had your chance. He moved on, why can't you? No one said a break up would be easy.. It will take time to heal. I doubt you would want him to cheat on you, so why want that for her? what she do to you, other then have your ex now... Regardless how you feel about some (hate, dislike, don't get along, etc), shouldn't wish someone to cheat on them. No one deserves that. If he wanted you, then he would be with you. So move on already. Grow up!

I been cheated on before by someone i was with for alittle over 2 years and loved very much. Unless you been cheated on before, you have no idea how much it hurts. It's been couple years since this happened and it still hurts thinking about how that actually happened to me.

But regardless of bad luck with men, i'm not giving up. Still believe there's a Mr. Right and in Love.

Forget him and go find a man who returns the feelings. But like others have mentioned before, since any man can see the forums you created or participate in, good luck finding a guy. Going to need it. Even men don't want to be cheated on.
 sunshine0626

Joined: 12/22/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 12:42:02 AM
I'm confused about WHY you want the "last hooray"? Do you mean sex?

First of all, if he's ignoring you, take that to mean he doesn't want anything to do with you.

Second, if he has a girlfriend, why do you want to do that to her? Not that you have to care about her at all, but I don't understand women who KNOW a man is involved (ex or otherwise) and still think they have the right to "steal" him or mess with him. What would you have felt like if he'd only been with you for 2 months and went to an ex to get a last hooray??

I'm not a male, but that's my perspective. There have got to be other men you can be with who won't ignore you and who aren't already involved. GEEZ! People are freakin' selfish!!
 ~tag~

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 1/14/2009 7:58:04 AM
Well, the OP did leave the building. Maybe temporarily... Do ya think maybe her next moniker might be 'Wildeyed Pyschotic'? Yikes!
 stpauligirl635

Joined: 11/22/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/14/2009 9:11:46 AM
Get over it. Besides he's got a girlfriend!! How would you feel if he/someone was trying to do that to you when you obviously weren't interested.
 submissanji

Joined: 12/31/2008
Msg: 88
how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 1/15/2009 6:50:31 AM
Get the book "All the Rules". It is quite helpful!
 submissanji

Joined: 12/31/2008
Msg: 89
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Posted: 1/15/2009 6:52:58 AM
This is not going to tell you how to play headgames. That just isn't nice. But it does help in getting other guys to notice you. BTW - sometimes it is better not to get "the last word in".

Guys - you will hate this book. Don't even think about looking at it.
 OhioCountryCharmer

Joined: 10/6/2008
Msg: 90
how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 1/15/2009 6:52:59 AM
Why go after someone that is already spoken for? If you persuade him and it does not come from his heart, won't he resent you for it over time?

my 2-cents
 arcticdude

Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 1/15/2009 7:35:00 AM
Wow, op, ...If this was actually a serious post it is just so sad and pathetic it's actually scary.
Good that this post was left up as a warning...very maniupulative and wrong...
 bdrmeyes4u

Joined: 11/3/2007
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Posted: 1/15/2009 7:51:53 AM
The last ???....... ......you mentioned you don't talk ( I'm assuming this is in the verbal sense?)....so..... your bodies do more talking? You're thinking you are too good to lose in a sexual way ???.......Care to elaborate more?
 Cogie36

Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 1/15/2009 7:57:05 AM
Hey guys. Question from a male perspective..I have this guy I like. We had a history once. F or reason I rather not say, we don't chat, but just once I have to have the last hooray! No what I mean.How do I do this? How can I persuade him...Come on you are men and women of many talents let me in on some of your secrets..
It is hard to get him to come over as he don't talk and he has a girlfriend but not serious they have only been dating 2 months. I know it sounds bad, but we just split 2 months ago, so again trying to get the last hooray...What can I do..This one should be interesting.

Thanks





Frankly I have no idea how old you are and it dosent matter to me....but sounds to me like you need to grow up......these kind of games are played in grade school ...the guy has moved on and obviously you are pissed because he didnt want you anymore....the way you are acting.....I can understand why....... always remember......what goes around comes around......
 Gwendolyn2009

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 94
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Posted: 1/15/2009 8:12:10 AM
I notice that the OP has exited the building, but this is why women get labeled as manipulative, jealous ****es.
 vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 95
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Posted: 1/15/2009 8:19:47 AM
She left? Really??

I wanted to give her my sage advice oh well



Maybe she had to devise a plot to take over the world next
 CookieLady66

Joined: 11/7/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 1/15/2009 11:17:41 AM
I'd say leave the poor ba$tard and his new girlfriend alone....why can't you just accept that it's over and LET IT GO. Obsessions and stalkers are NOT ATTRACTIVE.
 ~tag~

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 97
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Posted: 1/15/2009 3:23:46 PM
^^^^Not true! I wear Obsession all the time, and my stalkers help me keep an eye on my house while I'm sleeping.........
 lil red corvette

Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 98
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Posted: 1/15/2009 3:28:14 PM
Here's a rarely used secret for you , assuming you are adult enough to do it........

Try growing up and moving on .
 preciousss

Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 1/15/2009 4:49:07 PM
mail him a thong in an envelope
 HockeyFan75

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 1/15/2009 4:57:48 PM
This is foolish. Why must people do this? If you want to play games, go get yourself an Xbox. Leave the guy be and find yourself someone instead!
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