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Posted: 3/15/2009 3:59:47 PM | ....I can't say I've ever had a one night stand that I would call "sexy". Not a one night stand anyway...
My last GF and I had the most AMAZING and sexy first date...the sexual tension was just unreal...and the sex was so good that afterward we were both like "whoa...it ain't supposed to be that good the first time"...and the next day when we decided to get back together for coffee (yes, the date...even outside the sex...was just that good...we couldn't even wait 12 hours to see each other again) we sat in Starbucks for all of 5 minutes before we finally decided to stop faking it and quickly walk back to my place...
We dated for 18 months. Hardly a one night stand.
The last one night stand I had...I actually messaged someone on POF....spoke with them....met them...and took them back to my place...all the same day. And this was a weekday, so I managed to get some time in at the office as well.
Anyway...went to my favorite bar...and after a few drinks I gave her what was supposed to be my set up line for a kiss....except she took it as a set up line to go back to my place...and blurted out "ok, we can go to your place, but I am not staying the night". To this day I don't know if my total surprise actually showed on my face or not.
One thing leads to another, we end up in bed, and we had that sort of lousy sex you typically have when you are sleeping with someone for the first time and all nervous and crap and don't know what they like and you are totally self conscious. Post the game time activities, I drove her back to her car and we said our goodbyes...but when I thanked her for nice time the next day, she told me she didn't see us getting back together.
I guess I really was lousy in bed.
On another occasion I met someone on POF...we had a first date that ended back at my place, and back in my bed...and then I didn't see that person for another three weeks. When we finally did go out again, she was all...recalcitrant...as though she was trying to un-ring the bell and wanted to show me she wasn't an easy lay. I'd expect something like that from a teen...not a woman in her forties....don't have time...there was no third date. does that count as a one night stand (wait...was it even sexy? Not really...see remarks above about lame first date sex) | |
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Posted: 3/15/2009 6:30:28 PM | | I met mine from an online dating site, no not this one has initials L.L. you can likely guess which one now. I had some one night stands when I first got divorced, lots of fun. | |
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Posted: 3/15/2009 6:48:32 PM | well the place i meet my sexyiest one night stand was on the corner of martinluther king drive and seventh street. i was driving by in my pimped out yugo. it has some nice spinners on its 13 inch rims.its chrome bondo paint job.well i was jsut a cruising down that street when i looked to the side and i seen this angel.she was wearing some fish net stockings and a lether mini skirt and a haulter top.i swear it was love at fist site.well i pulled over to the curb and yelled HEY BABY.she looked at me in my fly car and said where have u been all my life lover.i said iv been looking for you.she said are u looking for a date.and i said i sure is are you looking for a man,she said i am always lookign for a man.i said well darlin hope into this fly pimped out mobil and we will light this town on firer.she got in and said you are so sexy in this car rolling on 13 teens honey.i said its all cherry .she said i cant take it anymore i have to have you.i said oh baby i have to have you to.so we pulled into this parking lot that was just right down the street from where i picked her up.we get parked and she says so honey how much u want to spend i said spend ill give u what ever u want.words were exchanged and then things got heated up.i was taking my shirt off when i noticed these lights.they were blue.i said oh hell naw its the po po.i then hear a load voice say get out the car with your hands up.well i knew right away.that this was a sting.i was arrst and booked ito the clark county jail.and thats where i meet big bubba joe.he was a nice man he didnt hurt me much.but thats how i meet my one night stand.
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Posted: 3/15/2009 7:44:15 PM | I've met most of them at AA meetings actually. The two *sexiest* (looking) women I've ever slept with were also in recovery. 
I found more women in recovery than I ever found in the bars and clubs before I got clean and sober. Of course I was also pretty messed-up back then too. I usually just got thrown out of most places I went to, until I just stayed at home and got drunk.
I value my sobriety, my motives for going to meetings might not always be so altruistic though 
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