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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 6:43:09 AM |
Women only claim tha they were used for sex when their partner finds someone elses genitals they want to use instead
That is so true. I keep looking for threads from men whining about the same thing, can't seem to find any, I wonder why? | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 7:26:28 AM | You ACTUALY looked to find a thread of a man/men whining about being used sexualy ? ...  ...
I know why ... A man would look like less of a man if he whined about being used ... I dont think you can find any man that would whine about sex ... Too many others would laugh at him ...
I dont even know if a man/men would admit it at all ...
Maybe men laugh it off or whatever when they know they were used ...
Now that I think about it that is kinda sad cause I am sure men do get used and it angers and hurts them ...
AnglFlyn
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 9:42:22 AM | Re: Post #130
I wish that there were a definition of "being used". It does seem to me, in the forums, that the expression is most commonly used by women, who are complaining when a relationship ends, and it wasn't the woman's idea to end things.
In reality, men and women "use" each other for sex in a good relationship. It's like saying that someone "used" a teacher "just to learn". It's the function of men to be used by women for sexual pleasure, and vice versa. If no one was lied to, deceived, or coerced, there's nothing wrong with that.
Yet, in the spirit of the OP, women who thoroughly enjoyed sex with a man, will bitterly complain about "being used" to garner sympathy, if things end before she wanted them to. Which can give the impression that the OP stated, that women must "hate" sex, and only do it to please men, thinking that they are "putting up" with sex to have a relationship, or something.
In reality, that hasn't been my experience, the the truth is, sex is a fair exchange between a man and woman, with each giving and taking in equal and full measure, "using" each other in the way nature intended. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/8/2009 6:22:37 PM | I love sex, I'm 48 and I want more of it.
I don't think most women hate sex, that's stupid.
Maybe some do. I'm not one of them.
Women want sex with love.
I think more women are also having casual sex these days. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/8/2009 8:08:19 PM | | I think it's important to remember that there are a lot more negative connotations associated with women having multiple sex partners than there are for men. I think it also depends on the age and maturity level of the women you're talking about. Women who are very secure in who they are are much less concerned with what other people might think about their sexual history than a less secure girl, who might fear being viewed in a negative light for being too "easy". I certainly can't speak for all women, but I know for myself, that emotional connection is a huge part of what constitutes amazing sex. The last few years of my marriage, when that emotional connection was disintegrating, sex was strictly an obligation, and I thought that aspect of my life was dead forever. Fast forward three years ~ I feel utterly loved and cherished in my current relationship, and have an absolutely ravenous desire. Sometimes I have to rein it in a little bit, because I don't want HIM to feel like "a piece of meat" lol. I think people just have to be authentically on the same page as far as what they want from the relationship, and if they're not, then it's pretty likely that someone will feel used. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/8/2009 8:47:31 PM | I hated sex with my husband...it was all about him. I became a chore. I've never had sex with anyone else so I'm looking forward to that. I don't think I've even had a "prime" because I hated so much. The new guy will be very lucky.  | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/16/2009 2:56:06 PM |
Wildman. Allow me to introduce myself. Ms PREDATOR.
I use men for sex. Squeeze 'em til they're dry. Until they're begging for mercy. Until they want to turn gay.
But then there's my evil twin sister. Hey, you think I'M the predator? She literally eats them up after she's finished using them, then uses their urethras as dental floss....
Wildman, good topic for heated debate. Let the denials flow.................and the gender bashing begin... FriendlyFreeSpirit I read your profile so all I can say is liar, liar pants on fire. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/26/2009 8:54:21 PM | | listen up guys don,t feel used by a women unless they are used for the sex because it flyies both ways if a guy uses a girl for sex she crys foul and does things to get even but from a guy stand on the issie is that both guys and girls use eachother for sex as much as girls want to have sex with guys | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 12:41:40 AM |
FriendlyFreeSpirit I read your profile so all I can say is liar, liar pants on fire
Aww, Brutus, are you telling me you didn't even believe the bit about my evil twin sister? Sheesh.
What does a girl have to do to convince men that evil urethra-flossing women truly exist?
Don't say you weren't warned... | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 1:06:23 AM | Nope. Women LOVE sex. After all, last time I looked, they were originally created to be the other half of "sexual reproduction". Otherwise, we all would be sea cucumbers, and do our ownselves constantly and have kids. Now, since none of us here seem to fall under the "Living Pickle" category, read on for Wisdom:
In other words, it is natural, and they like it. They tend to pile societal BS on top of it, by wanting a relationship with a side order of sex, while males tend to sex with a side order of relationship. (Just a natural order type of thing) I find people (especially women and young men) love to complicate a very simple process by thinking way too damned much about it, and letting others tell them how to get this process done, as if wisdom ever comes from others who don't know anything about the subject in question.
What you have to learn, is this Young Jedi, they like sex when THEY want it, NOT when YOU want it. Though there is that natural law that says if you practice basic interaction skills, you can make it happen faster, and when YOU want it.
So hang around, all day long, every day, everywhere in the world, somewhere, there is a gal wanting to have sex, sometimes...........even with me.
Just like Vegas, baby. Odds are on my side too you know. You can't roll snake eyes forever........ | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 5:44:13 AM | havnt met a woman yet that when they were treated right....hated sex....I mean with the foreplay,kissing,massaging and everything that follows....oh Ive heard of them not liking it but afterward...they were sold...lol  | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 5:48:36 AM | Kayliecat I really like your story here and totaly agree with you. I had something very simalar happen to me years ago only in reverse because I am a guy. She did not need space she just stayed home, but I prepared all day and was on the phone with her a few times, even the weather was right it was raining out it would have been a spectacular time and at the last minute she said she could not make it over. What a let down. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 8:15:36 AM | | women want and like sex almost just as much as us guys, they just hide it alot better, and about the question, if women hate sex, then their "man" doesn't really know what he's doing.or he's a selfish lover. sex is not a game of battleship. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 8:49:40 AM | Really there are women like you out there? Then how do you explain this constant barrage of whiney" I was used and kicked to the curb after he got what he wanted" threads I see in the forums 100 times a day?
basic economics.. supply and demand theory..
it's a good strategy to make men think that sex offered by a woman is something rare and extremely valuable, almost priceless..therefore they (men) will chase it more .
offer more, pay a higher price in terms of paying for stuff, taking her out, kissing her butt, putting up with a lot of whining & BS, etc..
it's actually a pretty smart 'negotiating ploy' on the part of women.
I sort of have to admire them for this wiliness
and really for the most part it's worked out very well for them over time. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 10:36:07 AM | | You're kidding? right? I LOVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!! However, before I get hounded too much from the hungry dogs, I can only orgasm with a man I love. Casual sex absoluely does not work for me at all. I have before by just thinking about it! That's how mental sex is for me. My most important sex organ is located between my ears. Stimulate me there, win my heart then WATCH OUT!!! | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 10:59:02 AM | | I have never been used for sex. Imagine that. It is impossible to use me for sex because I have sex because I want to. I don't have sex because I think it should lead to something more or to please a man. I have sex because I am turned on and he is turned on and it's mutually enjoyable for both of us. I think some women cry that they were "used" because they don't want to take responsability for their wn choices. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 11:05:13 AM | | I haven't known this to be true with one woman that I've been involved with in my life. The question is completely foreign to my experience. As a matter of fact, on balance I'd say women wanted to have sex at least as much as I did. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 11:19:46 AM | | I love sex and only do it to please me! But if I'm going to have it, and he's worth having it with, then certainly, I will want to please him as well by way of driving him crazy with lust. But that's only after he's driven me crazy with lust out of bed and of course can kiss. A man needs to understand the power of kissing! | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 1/27/2009 11:41:17 AM |
Most women, in my experience, do like sex, and most women, when into a guy, want to act on it. When one or the other doesn't, it's a good indicator that he/she "just isn't that into you"
Exactly!
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