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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/11/2009 5:08:59 PM | How could you even ask this question, do women hate sex ,, well Hell no they don't.
Why do you think there all Divorced ? Because the guy was an ass hole ?? yes he was, he got tired of paying for those nights out on the town for her and the B/F
Why is it every woman will say she give the best B/J in the world ? She knows, cause thats what she has been told in her past, yet she will never prove it ..  | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/11/2009 8:19:35 PM | | Haha you're kidding right? I love sex, I usually use guys for sex and I'm the non emotional commiting type, but they know this upfront, because I don't like to string people along. We don't do everything just to please a man. some of us actually have independence and dare I say our own opinions:P | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/12/2009 6:58:04 AM | I'm a square. What I mean by that is that I don't play the games or live up to anyone's expectations of my sexuality as a woman and as a human being.
I have sex when I feel safe and comfortable to do so and that is usually with someone I trust and like very much.
I generally don't have sex with people I don't have a fondness for and who also have a fondness for me.
That isn't to say I haven't had some casual experiences...but they suck.
I like an emotional component with my sex. I make no apologies for it and I don't pretend I can do it "like men can" which is a fallacy anyway, plenty of men are just like me.
I think I've grown up.
But OP, to answer your question...I think sex is a lot of fun and I miss it. However, I don't "use" people for sex. I can wait for a more appropriate venue for my sexual expression.
And I think OP, that you are being somewhat slanted in your generalization of women. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:15:49 AM | | hahaha! i think thats the funniest question so far. Lol. but you know, truth is, when a man wants to have sex with us women, we are disgusted. we would never have sex just for sex. no, never. we just tell our p***y to produce some more liquid and we just moan because we know you want to hear it...lol...oh, and some of us would never ever use men just for sex...hahaha | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/12/2009 2:25:40 PM | i hate it. really hate it. i only do it to trick guys into loving me and then i find excuses to with hold it. by then it's too late and they do everything i want in the hopes that i'll sleep with them again. i never do. most my relationships end in my other half jumping off something quite high up and screaming my name the whole way down...
i think its the same for most women. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/14/2009 11:49:27 AM | Sex is great...what better way than sharing oneself with someone...However yes we women feel used if it is a one time, do not call ever again thing, I am sure men would feel the same...if someone did that to them...use them. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/14/2009 11:51:58 AM | do women hate sex?
some hate it, some like it, some love it
i would lean more to them loving it, however since women go from cold to hot or hot to cold in an instant, trying to figure out what/when she is actually thinking about sex is like picking where the next tornado will touch down -(you can guess an area, but never hit the exact spot) -just gear up and wait til you see blowing wind and flying houses...
i see lots of very cranky women around, and sneaky ones with big smiles on their faces, what sets them off -plenty of catalysts to get them thinking hmmmmm: looks, scent, alcohol, moves, charisma or confidence.
when a woman complains that men only want sex -she's actually saying all the wrong men are hitting on her for sex, she wants the right guy to give it to her -(in multiples...)
guessing the only way to find out is if we ever encountered a shortage of batteries.
-see what happans | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/14/2009 11:52:55 AM | | You may find this shocking, but I have heard men complain women were just using them for sex. The fact is, no one likes to be used...for anything. If a friend manipulates me to do something I really don't want to do, even if the activity is something I enjoy, I tend to not enjoy it. Do women just complain more than men? Maybe. The problem with complaining about being used is you are admitting you were stupid. Me, I don't really like to air my stupidness. I just quietly learn from my mistakes and move on. Generalizations about the sexes amuse me. I work in a primarily male environment and it has been quite the education...really men are just like us but are wired a little differently. I know guys who think between their legs and others who can't have sex without emotional involvement, in all age brackets. Women are similar but don't admit it because of social pressure. So maybe some of the complaining you hear is smoke. However, keep this one thing in mind: A fellow once said to me, "You women are vulnerable in a way that we men are not." Many women HAVE been used and abused, from childhood, (as have many men.) Not suprisingly, these women are single because they have trust issues, rightfully so. (I worked with teens as a professional house parent. Some of the things I heard!) | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/14/2009 12:07:42 PM | If we're talking anatomy here, women are biolgically built to get more pleasure out of sex and for longer than men.
On average.
The fact some women fail to realize their potential is something else.
But not hate. | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/14/2009 2:18:33 PM | | Men and women are wired differently in the sense that several posts refered to..the .emotional aspect of sex. Heres a wild idea !!.. Take some time to understand what thats all about, and maybe explain why your different to your partner! meet half way! | |
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| Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?
Posted: 5/14/2009 4:23:48 PM | NO! I don't have sex only to please a man...it just happens to be a very pleasant side effect!
Is there ANY woman out there that actually love sex?
Yes! What's not to love about sex? It feels really good!
It has to be with someone that I care deeply about though.
Are there Any woman out there who don't feel used and abused when a relationship ends in regards to sex?
Yes! Why would I feel used when I am the gatekeeper? I only have sex when I want to.
If anyone would feel used it should be my man as I have trouble sleeping and sex helps with that but I have yet to hear any man complain about being used as a natural sleep aid and I doubt I ever will.
From my own personal experience, I always thought women loved sex just as much as men.
From my experience I think we do but it just takes longer for some of us to get there in more ways than one.
It seems most woman need to be protected from most men, everytime they are left alone with men something bad happens, something that they have no control over.
That's BS!
I think it's easy enough to tell what a man wants from you and if he wants JUST that.
I also think the only men that women need to be protected from are the ones that take what is not theirs...meaning rapists.
Really there are women like you out there? Then how do you explain this constant barrage of whiney" I was used and kicked to the curb after he got what he wanted" threads I see in the forums 100 times a day?.
Putting out too soon before you get to know what the guy is all about and NOT being able to handle it.
Some women can do casual sex and some cannot.
You should know who you are and act accordingly and you wont be disappointed.
You have no one but yourself to blame if you have sex either before you are ready to or if you expect that having sex will magically change what you have into a relationship.
In fact, I think most women don't like sex. The essence of sex is a particular act (intercourse), not a particular act in a relationship. When when women say they only like "sex in a relationship" they're basically saying they don't really like sex -- the act itself. They like 'relationship sex,' not just 'sex'.
You're insane!
I LOVE the act itself! I just won't do it with a stranger.
Nothing better then looking into your partners eyes as he penetrates you!
Love me sex - she just needs to feel close to someone and convinces herself there is more feeling in the relationship then there really is. Find me one sexually active single person who hasn't done this and I'll have phone sex with Gilbert Gottfried.
Call Gilbert but call me first for a 3-way! I definitely want to listen in!
I ONLY have sex when I want to!
If I don't feel close to them then why would I want to have sex with them?
It's mostly wiring and personality, but for those who have the correct wiring, we just enjoy the act for the act. It's a skill of separation. I enjoy sex because I like the pleasure it gives ME.
I wouldn't say "correct" wiring. Just correct for you. But I do agree that we are all wired differently.
You sound like a sexually liberated woman. Wish there were many more women like you. But I think it's more socialization and social expectation than anything.
I disagree. It has nothing to do with socialization for me. I'm very sensitive as to who I have around me (and in me) and I have to know and like them well enough to be comfortable and relax and enjoy. I'd LOVE to be able to have casual sex...it would be so easy to get...but I know it doesn't work for me. I can't even have break-up sex...once the feeling is gone, it's gone. People ARE wired differently and I can tell you from experience that some men do get emotionally attached as well so I wouldn't try to use one that I was not truly into just for sport. Men have feelings too.
Women that complain about being used are usually those not intelligent enough to discriminate between what feels right and what doesn't. So.....they regret and fault the man.
^^^^^^Exactly!!!
You forget that sex is often about manipulation. Women get lots of sympathy when playing the part of a victim in a consensual act. The claim of being used is also good for abdicating responsibility for her actions and telling future partners she used by all those other guys.
You can really only play that sympathy card once before it's "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" time.
guessing the only way to find out is if we ever encountered a shortage of batteries.
Everyone just needs to be honest about their intentions and then no one would have unrealistic expectations.
And also a lot less time would be wasted and fewer feelings hurt.
But I do realize that the chances of that ever happening are slim to none. | |
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