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 MY OH MY

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 25
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 6:19:54 PM
I am glad to say that Blue Ball is close to Intercourse, PA. We don't have a Cumming in PA. We do have a Bird in Hand though. Yeah, let them take care of their birds themselves. I have been to Hellem, but like Bethlehem a bit better and they are also neighbors. Town names can be such fun.

You are new on here, it will calm down.

Get a profile review if you haven't already.

Use the block function if they are out of line.

Have fun
 voodooguru

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 1/4/2009 6:22:10 PM
Nothing wrong with mentioning you're a passionate woman. I tend to pass on profiles that don't hint that sexuality is an important part of a LTR.

But I don't try to negotiate that part on a first date. I don't even try for a kiss on the first date (but am thrilled if she does).

Please don't take this as an affront on you personally, but what kind of men are you going out with? Don't most guys who ARE looking for more than sex behave like gentlemen? And I thought southern guys were supposed to be well-mannered.

Screen a bit more closely before agreeing to meet - OR make a clear start and end to that first meet.

"I have a dinner meeting w/Merck Medco people at 8:00, but I'd love to meet. Can you be at Caribou Coffee at 7:15?"

Then leave at 7:45. Don't let him walk you to your car.

Then figure out if the guy is a decent fellow you'd like to meet for a proper date.

I don't know what your expectations are either, but by third date, expect to be kissed, or don't go on it.
 wild heart

Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2009 6:26:42 PM
Get rid of the fact that you are a nurse, this might be egging on the "fantasy boys". Also get rid of the sentence telling people not to write you messages about their sexual fantasy.

Be more assertive in your profile by saying what you WANT. I've also found that sarcasm gets rid of them easily. Since not everyone has the same sense of humour, the sarcasm I offer up might offend some people and that was just fine by me!

The more assertive and no BS my profile was, the less BS emails I received.

That's about all I can offer up.
 repair-guy

Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 1/4/2009 6:28:43 PM
First off, your pics.
It's obvious that you aren't wearing panties under the sundress, and no bra.
The second you've changed positions to hide your cootchie and the strap slips off to send the attention upstairs! Hot and bothered is my guess, gets steamy in Georgia, don't it?
Nice come-along.
Next pic is of the Egyptian dude pointing at what exactly?! Even the ancients did it.
In the other pics it's only too obvious what's on your mind... follow the path 1, 2, 3...
Your profession, the only thing better would be if you were the 'head nurse'. Nuff said.
You state that you went hiking and you'd like to 'do it' more.
While hiking? or just more in general.
Most of us would like to 'do it' more, but we don't state it so blatantly.
I've heard about the happy trails, you're not fooling anyone here sweetie.
Being accomplished, educated, etc. has only exacerbated your sexual appetite.
 Spence56

Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2009 7:23:02 PM
Well, I just checked your profile and didn't notice anything like that! But on the other hand, you are dating guys so I'm afraid you may be experiencing a male tendency to "hoping" that you are looking for sex! As always, perceptions can really be off! But no matter how old we get, I'm afraid a lot of us are really just little boys trying to get back to the womb whenever possible! Well, that's what I suspect anyway. You seem like a delightful and interesting woman! I'm not so sure that you are going to be happy with what us guys tend to be like, but since it's just about all there is, I hope you will reconsider! :-) Well, that's what I think anyway....
 Ted_16

Joined: 1/1/2009
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Posted: 1/4/2009 8:02:09 PM
[quotq] it's the off the shoulder strap in your pic!! Way too sexy!!

I had looked at her profile and pictures, although she had obviously edited the text since this thread began. I had to go back and look at the picture. I really hadn't noticed the strap. and it still didn't seem sexy, I really had no reaction to it, I take in the whole person. I think all of her pictures are just fine nothing explicit. Im not too sure about the current text, ti leaves me flat, just nothing to catch my interest. But I guess maybe that's what is needed for a while. I'm sorry that some of the men are not able to control themselves and show a lady respect reguardless of what they are thinking. Rest assured ALL men arn't that way.


HAve a hug from me
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/4/2009 8:11:42 PM

ted_16:I had to go back and look at the picture. I really hadn't noticed the strap. and it still didn't seem sexy, I really had no reaction to it, I take in the whole person.


Ted.....I would like to introduce you to someone named Sarcasm!
Might want to get used to her.....she hangs out in the forums alot!
 bookmarkthis

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/4/2009 8:25:06 PM
Yes, men can turn anything into anything.

Your shoulders are bare. That's just the beginning for a man to think lustful thoughts about a woman. LOL

Your profile and pictures are fine. Don't let the jerks scare you off.

You know where the block user is don't you? Make sure to use it.
 Tessie101

Joined: 6/21/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/4/2009 9:20:53 PM
Oh Good Grief! Get a grip! This is a dating website and men can say whatever they want in emails and YES most of them want SEX. Surprised? You shouldn't be. Be selective and screen out the bad apples. There are some good ones out there. Patience.
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 34
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Posted: 1/4/2009 9:59:25 PM
Lol I am becoming one of those dog ladies already! It is just that most people on this site are looking for just sex. Your profile is fine. Guys just assume we are like the majority.
 scapegoat78

Joined: 12/27/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 10:24:22 PM
Sadly it looks like a case of the Y chromosome stimulating the brain located between a man's legs.

Sadly for all to many Men:

Picture in a V top= Sex
Picture in a Bathing Suit= Sex
Picture as a Nun= Sex
Picture sick in bed with tissues= Nyquil then Sex

You have a lot of strong going for you I'm sure you Tuna, Salmon, or Catfish will be out there.
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2009 10:47:00 PM

You have a vagina.
With a little imagination, men can turn anything into anything.



This is totally untrue and, i believe, very unfair!
There is no proof, of any kind, that ANY imagination is required.

OP, as a few have pointed out, you are female and THAT is all that
it takes to attract the guys who“know” that if they send out emails to
1,000 women containing sexual come-ons, one of those women
will answer them and then take their virginity.

Don't go for the cats. They will eat your corpse when you die alone.
 thenextcorner

Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 1/5/2009 2:48:30 AM

OP, as a few have pointed out, you are female and THAT is all that
it takes to attract the guys who“know” that if they send out emails to
1,000 women containing sexual come-ons, one of those women
will answer them and then take their virginity.

So true!
Men are pigs......well okay so most are pigs......well okay again, some are pigs with a few exceptions....okay men are pigs....LOL.
Esad has the right of it though.
Dont' let those with a gutter for mind, hurt the chances of those who don't, but still have a gutter for a mind(but will never admit it) deter you.

Don't go for the cats. They will eat your corpse when you die alone.

Where as 'Dogs': mans best friend, will lay down beside you and die. Just a thought..lol
 123carrie

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:04:33 AM
I think your profile is perfect; and don't take any lines out (as someone said). If a man picks out any specific word in your profile to wedge his way towards "inappropriate" communication with you, then he's not worth your time to comment on.
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 1/5/2009 3:47:01 AM
Hey Ted are you kidding me!??! My comment was a JOKE - I was indeed being sarcastic!!! If anyone were to think that lovely lady was being overtly sexual - they should have their head examined!!
 good guy75

Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:24:26 AM
i think your pictures are fine.but i think some of the stuff you said is kind of boring.men like me are not scared of smart women but boring ones is something different.you do not need alot of cats hun just look for the good guy.
 vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:34:22 AM
I don't know .. the come hither look on the swing , the one strap that dropped off your shoulder .
The fact that you hail from Cummings, GA.? That's got to be good for at least a couple nasty snickers

Who knows what these horn dogs are thinking ? Use the block options on here and the other site if they have them.

Sit up straight and cover up a the twins . Your pretty face and smile is all they really need to see anyway. Your positive outlook will carry you the rest of the way .
 Flaccid P. Nuss

Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:36:52 AM
Yes : you're a female.

Doesn't matter how you modify your profile , the guys on here looking for sex will try no matter what.
 wild heart

Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:41:02 AM

Don't go for the cats. They will eat your corpse when you die alone.


bahaha! Less work for the incinerator........
 Ted_16

Joined: 1/1/2009
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Posted: 1/8/2009 10:12:28 PM
Msmicki
Ted.....I would like to introduce you to someone named Sarcasm!
Might want to get used to her.....she hangs out in the forums alot!



Yes I have met her (ms Sarcasim) I gues I just missed it, it's hard to detect in the written word.

Thanks for setting me straight.

Ted
 anjelic

Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 45
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Posted: 1/9/2009 3:21:33 AM
pharmacogirl
Your profile is not "hoochie"...You are not alone,often wondered if I had a neon light over my head a la beetlejuice "wants you now!!"
 Palomar

Joined: 8/31/2008
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Posted: 1/9/2009 3:58:55 AM
OP, nothing wrong with your profile, but several contributors have noticed that you live in "Cumming, Georgia".

In my province, we have a small town called "Climax, Saskatchewan", so I'm familiar with most of the jokes. (The sign as you're leaving town says: "Thanks for Coming")

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 BuryCaesar

Joined: 1/10/2009
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Posted: 1/16/2009 2:39:34 PM
Well I don't know what you look like but assuming you won't scare away Frankinstien's Monster. Your female and your dating guys.
Well their are some guys who can fake being nice. From a woman's point of view. Don't know how you would find them though. A lot of them use the old, I am a good christian man trick. Quite effective I hear.
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