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 wings on my butt

Joined: 2/9/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 7:39:56 AM
Do you know what a woman who is a size 18 looks like wearing spanx? She looks like a size 18 woman wearing spanx. There is no real difference. The only difference can be compared to what your hair looks like before you brush it and after you brush it. You just look a little neater. So no real difference.
 R3dh3adang3l

Joined: 7/16/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 8:15:48 AM
Reading this thread and ran across someone saying they didn't have to wear a bra at all. **sigh** I wish I could do that!! They make such cute clothes that you can get away with not wearing one IF you aren't packing a "D" cup into it. **sigh**
 anotoneher

Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 202
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 9/21/2009 9:37:53 AM
Here's a question, how would you feel is I stuffed a sock in my underwear? Same thing.

Women should be proud of their bodies, not hide it behind body enhancing fabrics. I find pushup bras to be acceptable for dressed or something where a little bust on the top is nice... but wearing one daily is false advertising. I'd be incredibly insulted and feel tricked if I found someone was wearing a body shaper and a push up bra.

Certain situations : YES

All the time: NO!!!!!!!
 Michaelann

Joined: 9/11/2004
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Posted: 9/21/2009 10:35:58 PM
I wear a bra, which in not natural and was something that was not even invented until maybe the 20's I think. I wonder how many men would want their wives and girlfriends to go au natural? I think the "I want my woman to be completely natural" men would quickly throw their stance right out the window the minute her boobies would be swinging free, jiggling and jumping in front of his guy friends and boss. I have a feeling that when they would not be able to take their eyes of her chest he would be singing a very different tune. - Rachelle~C

Most women didn't wear them in the 60s & 70s, p& personally I have never understood how they made a comeback. Fortunately, there are still plenty of
smart women who don't (me included). Even if I lost my mind & wanted to wear one, I have shoulder problems that make them an absolute no-no!

(first time I have ever been thankful for a health problem!) LOL
 browneyesboo

Joined: 5/19/2005
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Posted: 9/22/2009 7:14:32 AM
I was around in the 60's and 70's and I don't think it's true that "most" women didn't
wear a bra back then. True plenty didn't when it wasn't necessary. But if you were in
the work force ...you wore one if you needed one.
I'm all for the human body being a beautiful thing, but to be honest, I still have
nightmares about the woman I saw in the grocery store that was so huge she had
her boobs tossed in the child seat of the shopping cart. I'm sorry, there is nothing
(in my opinion) attractive about huge boobs swinging low and free.
There is a time and a place for everything.
But that's just my opinion.
 GTSS

Joined: 7/7/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 9:52:44 AM
Couldn't read all of these posts, but let's put it another way.

Short guy puts boosters in his shoes to give him 2 or 3 inches. You go to get busy, he takes off his platforms and all of a sudden he's shorter than you. How would you feel?
 Annie I Oakley

Joined: 1/15/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 11:59:36 AM
Short guy puts boosters in his shoes to give him 2 or 3 inches. You go to get busy, he takes off his platforms and all of a sudden he's shorter than you. How would you feel?



There is a huge difference between spanx and lifts in shoes. lifts can give you up to three inches while spanx doesn't make any noticeable difference . A body shaper is spanx or something similar, and they do nothing at all. There is no body shaper that will make someone go down a few dress sizes or even one dress size. They are pretty much a scam.
 Tom6112

Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 207
Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good?
Posted: 9/22/2009 3:08:59 PM
It's a form of lying, in my book.. She me the real you, if you want me to love the real you.
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 9/22/2009 3:29:35 PM

Short guy puts boosters in his shoes to give him 2 or 3 inches. You go to get busy, he takes off his platforms and all of a sudden he's shorter than you. How would you feel?

If I don't know how tall he truly is before we get naked ~ that would be on me. Never get naked with a man in platform heals unless John Travolta shows up in his Saturday Night Fever garb. (If he's shorter than me? I'm taking pictures and sending them to Guiness. There must be some sort of award for that.)

It's a form of lying, in my book

I would assume you feel that firming night cream, mascara, teeth bleaching, salon hair-cuts, stiletto heals, anything aside from gunny sacks or su naturale and a whole slew of other "norms" for most of us are lies as well ?????
 whatever3321

Joined: 12/13/2008
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Posted: 9/23/2009 9:03:25 AM
lol its lying in my book

After a woman is done putting on her heals, push up bra, tummy tucker she goes out on the town looking for a real man.
 amethyst10616

Joined: 7/23/2009
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Posted: 9/23/2009 3:01:37 PM
All of the things we do for grooming I would hope we do for ourselves first, and if we are so inclined, then to attract the opposite sex. It is goofy so say that grooming and putting your best foot forward is lying. Should a man not shave? Should he not choose clothes that look good on him?

Shapers smooth, they do not reduce your size and if anyone believes that, they are watching too many very late night inf0mercials. A bra is for support and I cannot imagine not wearing one. I would not want my nipples to show through my clothes. I am big breasted so a bra is not an option.

If you want au natural with the bare basics, then I do hope that you do not respond to women who wear makeup in their pictures, it is simply not honest.
 PiggyT

Joined: 9/14/2009
Msg: 211
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Posted: 9/23/2009 3:05:02 PM
I bought a penis extension about 6 years ago.

It's called a Harley.
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