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Joined: 4/21/2009
Msg: 601 | |
| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/1/2009 2:25:02 AM | exchanging bodily fluids with 83 people...
I don't know if that's not disgusting, what is...
Though when you think about it, there are billions of losers out here sleeping with prostitutes... that's even worse...
so many bugs out there, many give false negative on tests, people don't know about them...keep spreading. Candoms don't prevent in most cases. You have skin contact, saliva exchange, and you're done.
YIKES!
That's why I am soOOO picky when it comes to sex... If I sense even just a bit slutty behavior in her past, she's back to the pond...
I ask these questions, and I expect honesty. I am not asking for moral reasons ( I don't give a flying fk who/how manyyou been with) , I am asking for my own health reasons. If I am going to get involved with you, then it's becomes my BUSINESS.
83 people... makes you a big kahuna SluT... God damn, some people have no stomach or standards... Yikes!  | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/1/2009 3:14:14 AM | | That is an awful amount of people..even for a lifetime or even 10 girls combined! I would end it..she obviously likes variety too much and could never be truly trusted! | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/1/2009 5:49:42 AM | Sounds like he's gotta get his numbers up a bit.
so they have more to work with , more words on the same page. He's got work to do.
Kimbo************************** | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:32:44 AM | œOo™
I ask these questions, and I expect honesty. I am not asking for moral reasons ( I don't give a flying fk who/how manyyou been with) , I am asking for my own health reasons. If I am going to get involved with you, then it becomes my BUSINESS.
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The above statement made by œOo™ wraps it up pretty well.
A wise person once said, "When you sleep with someone, share their bodily juices, touch them in the same places others have touched them (Kiss them in those same places), that is exactly the same as sleeping with each and every person your new partner has ever slept with."
I used to hear guys say things like, "If she had as many 'd*cks' sticking out of her as she had stuck in her, she'd look like a porcupine." I wonder what the equivelent of that would be for a man who'd been with a great many ladies!
That being true, I guess we should all look back at our adventures and ask ourselves, "Is there someone in our past we'd not want others to know we've slept with?" There are those times when you wake up next to someone who isn't as beautiful, as handsome or as pretty (Or as clean) as they appeared to be the night before. 'Wolf Ugly' comes to mind. I don't drink, so it never happened to me, but it did happen to some of my friends, male and female.
All this is particularly (Is radically) true in this day and time.
Years ago, it wasn't this bad. The only thing people from the average American town had to worry about was pregnacy or getting a bad reputation. Not true in the big cities, of course. But that was back when people's (Men's or women's) reputations actually meant something. Reputations don't mean anything today, because people are under the false impression that they are somehow anonomous. They're not!
Years ago, even a guy could be affected by getting a bad reputation. If he was a young guy and parents heard that he had a reputation for the "Wham Bam Thanky Ma'am, Next" and he actually made it in the door to meet the parents, he would be shown back out the door in very quick order.
Mostly, these guys never made it into the house to meet the parents. If the parents heard that their daughter wanted to date the local 'Player', the girls were told to cease or else. Or if the 'Player' made it to the girl's house and if she had brothers, her brothers would kick his butt and escort him off the property. If the family found out that their girl was being chatted up by a guy with loose morals and was hiding it, some family member would catch the 'Player' out somewhere and very strongly inform him to stay away from the girl or else. But that was back when a family took care of its own business and didn't call the Law for every little thing.
Conclusion for today: Get tested often if you are having sex with anyone, period. Remember, even famous celebrities catch diseases they can't get rid of! Paris Hilton, anyone? And before you launch a new relationship, ask about the person's past. If you are very serious about starting a relationship for real, both of you get tested often, before you stick it in. This gives you a chance to actually get to know someone before you bang them. Also, if they've lied to you about their past, you'll have a chance to catch them out. The days of sex on the first date (Or even within the first month) is for losers and fools.
In Vietnam, I was in the medical core. Ever heard of sexual diseases soldiers could catch that meant they could never ever go home? They went somewhere, for sure. But it was never home to America. | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:34:33 AM | | So what? Maybe she enjoyed them or maybe she kept on looking for you. Did you find her a quick and easy lay? You got to find out what has motivated her and take it from there. Has she been engaged before? Don't know how long it took you going together before you decided to get engaged but don't rush things, take it a couple of years (700 odd days) before you tie the knot, that will give you both a chance to see if it is going to stick or not. If you can't stop thinking about those 83 guys that were there before you, if you can't think of the future together regardless of what went before, then you better just walk away now. | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/5/2009 12:02:49 PM |
ENGLISH-LADY === RUN very quickly
Thanks that made me smile | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/5/2009 1:26:56 PM | What he should do is
1)stop telling his guy friends something she confided in him about.
2)since she was honest with him, he should be honest with her about his feelings. he should be kind but admit that he has mixed feelings about this information. then they should talk it through. If he's not willing or able to do this, he's not ready to marry anybody.
3) consider how many people he's slept with
4) realize that he is not just a number. women don't think like that (even so called "sluts") If he was just a number, she wouldn't be engaged to him. there are lots of reasons why she might have slept w/ a large number of people. I think it would be much more of a concern if she'd been *engaged* to 83 people.
5)consider that she is making an effort to be honest and open with him. Considering how easy it is to judge a woman for having sex with 83 partners, he should feel quite honored.
6)since they are engaged, they should go to premarital counciling. If this is a large obstacle, they should definatly discuss this with the counciler. BUT, he really needs to not discuss this with anyone else. One close friend I can understand, but he shouldn't telling all his friends his fiance's personal business. It is a serious breech of intimacy and trust.
From the information you gave, it sounds to me like she is a lot more ready for marriage than he is.
He loved her enough to ask her to marry her- has he suddenly stopped because he found out something about her that he doesn't like? At the very least he needs to continue to show her respect and decency.
ps- I agree w/ the statement about the double standard. A man sleeps w/ 83 partners and he's a stud. A woman does it and she's a slut. It's not a good idea to hold your loved ones to a higher standard than you are willing to follow yourself.
pps- about numbers- you should never ask and you should never tell (unless you are are a virgin or possibly if you've only had sex w/ one other person.) | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/5/2009 8:50:03 PM | 83? what kind of weirdo keeps a count?
at your age... don't worry about being first, hell at my age i just wanna be first for the day!!!
Frank | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/5/2009 11:12:31 PM | | ghee, think of the diseases, you never know where that mouth has been, he must be desperate. | |
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Joined: 10/15/2008
Msg: 611 | |
| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/6/2009 4:24:10 PM | 26 yr. old girl and 83 men?
That is INSANITY...let's say she started sleeping with men at the age of 16 (it was probably earlier, but I will used 16 for the heck of it)...that would mean that she has slept with at least 5 men every single year for the last 10 years 
Holy Crap! That's crazy...that also means she has not had ONE long-term relationship at all, Ever.....that is more than insane, Wow! and now she wants to get married??? How is she going to handle being with ONE man? For the rest of her life???! LMAO!  | |
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Posted: 5/6/2009 7:45:31 PM | | it's just a number, the girl was stupid to tell him that in the first place, ever hear the expression kiss and tell? There is never a good reason to kiss and tell. Only creates hurt feelings and misgivings. The number of people anyone sleeps with is their own business and best left in the past, ask anyone in their 30', 40's, 50's, 60's how many people they slept with. Does it really matter that she slept with that many men? Maybe she felt like bragging or felt bad about it? Either one is stupid, we all make mistakes in our lives and they are best left in the past. I wouldn't want to have a man telling me how many women he slept with, who was the best, or any intimate details about those encounters, I just don't care about it. They are in the past for a reason, ever hear the term put the past behind you? That's what you need to do to go forward and start a new life with someone. And I hate the double standard how it's manly for a man to sleep with as many women as he can while a woman should save herself for what? We all have needs, grow up and move forward, forget the past mistakes and learn from them. | |
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Posted: 5/6/2009 8:02:27 PM | If he wanted to marry her before, this should change nothing. Assuming she hasn't caught anything, then it's not really a big deal. It's not like they still have some power over her, or one of these people might swoop in and take her back. Frankly, this guy sounds very teenager-y to me.
Of course, now that he's made a big deal about it, she's going to wonder if she can trust him with the truth next time she has something to tell him. | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/6/2009 8:49:07 PM | Well, besides the possbility of diseases that cannot be cured 'THING', there is one more reason why women can't act like men and get away with it.
For the man, it doesn't make the slightest difference how many women he sleeps with. His penis is neither going to shrink nor get any bigger. What he is born with is what he has, period.
That is not true for a woman. The more men she sleeps with, the larger her vagina becomes, unless every man she goes to bed with is small in size. And those one night stands soon add up and come with various sizes. But that's not how sex works amongst friends. Those friendly booty calls add up over time, too. These days with young women thinking it is a 'prowess' thing to be able to sleep with men with large penises, somehow I don't think small is in their vocabulary.
What man wants to feel like he has to tie a long board crossways to his butt to keep from falling into grand canyon?!? | |
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Posted: 5/6/2009 11:51:52 PM | Why in the name of Sam Hill would he want to marry a tramp, the only thing she can offer to him is a physical relationship.
It's like wanting to marry a current or former partying college whore, they have nothing to offer to any guy except their body.
'Oh, look at me, I'm drunk and I'll mount any guy who shows me any kind of attention.'
No thanks sweetie, I'll pass on that used up ride..... | |
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Posted: 5/7/2009 2:40:27 PM | | Your friend should have asked her how many partners she had BEFORE being intimate with her himself. I think both your friend and his girl have questionable morals. Myabe I'm old-fashioned, but I always ask how many partners a guy has had BEFORE being intimate...and I know they can lie, but still it's always good to ask. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2009 3:15:59 PM |
that would mean that she has slept with at least 5 men every single year for the last 10 years
Holy Crap! That's crazy...that also means she has not had ONE long-term relationship at all, Ever.....that is more than insane, Wow! and now she wants to get married??? How is she going to handle being with ONE man? For the rest of her life???! LMAO!
Actually, it is more like 8.3 different and new men each year for 10 years. And what this means is that she has never had a FAITHFULL long-term relationship at all, Ever... At least, since she was 16.
But one never knows. I knew a lady once who did 20 men in one night. On another occasion, she did 17. I have no idea if there was any overlap. But I heard she had pulled a train on a number of occasions. I know one of those was true, because I was there for the '20 mule train'. No, I was not part of the 'train'. There were about 30 guys there altogether, but several of us were just joking around. One guy was drunk and drove his Jeep up and down the dirt road next to where the girl was 'pulling the train'. He'd fly by and holler the Rebel Yell. His Jeep was plum full of drunk guys, just hanging on and laughing. Was the girl ugly or stupid. No! Actually she was one of the prettiest girls in town. Stupid? Not in the least. She just loved to f*ck and didn't care who knew it.
So, maybe this girl, with her 83 different 'pricks' stuck in by age 26, scored them quickly by pulling trains. Is anyone thinking of porcupines?
Whatever! The guy still probably needs that plank across his butt to keep from falling in.
But if he were to fall into that pitch blackness, he might find a lost buddy inside. His buddy might tell him, "Hey, help me find my keys and we'll crank my truck, turn on the headlights and drive out of here." | |
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Posted: 5/7/2009 4:20:01 PM | Personally i wouldn't even come near her.... 83 is a big number... she could be saying this as a test to see if you really loved her or not and see what ur answer is or she is a very very open girl... if its true then i would stay away from her because to her ur nothing but another man that she can just leave and start hunting for number 85... my advice is before you make any rash decisions make sure if its true or not.  | |
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:05:09 PM | "a guy would be a stud if he slept with 83 women "? The majority of men (including me) would disagree to anyone who made that comparison. The only men that would be impressed by their buddy sleeping with 83 women are the men that spend all day looking at themselves in the mirror while sculpting their guns. haha Regardless of what anyone thinks, if a girl (or a guy) has slept with 83 people by age 26, they have some deep psychological issues going on. And I agree with one of the older posts, who the hell would keep track?!? It takes me ten minutes to remember the people I've slept with and I can count all of them on two hands, don't even have to use my toes! hahah Like i said, deep psychological issues... This is why us Dad's need to love and care deeply for our daughters, spend all the time you can with them showing them how a moral, responsible man treats all women with respect.
Also, her past isn't "just her past". Her past includes 83 other peoples past as well, and you can bet money that it would have come up sooner or later. Yes, she made mistakes as we all do, and she will be paying for it, like we all do for every stupid thing we've done. Karma is such a dirty b*st*rd!! Like it or not, it's our past we're judged on, not our future and goals and aspirations. Otherwise we'd all get a raise at our job for being a total F'up as long as we promised not to screw up again. Oh wait, that would make us corporate CEO's!!! hahaha
Peace ya'll! javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 3:41:42 PM | | I think it's very OK that some things go unsaid. I might choose not tell a man about how many sexual partners I'd had, exactly because some men have the same reaction as your friend. On the other hand, maybe it would be a good way to screen out narrow-minded men. I'm also surprised at the number of judgemental comments from, not just men, but also from women. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 3:43:31 PM | | I think it's very OK that some things go unsaid. I might choose not tell a man about how many sexual partners I'd had, exactly because some men have the same reaction as your friend. On the other hand, maybe it would be a good way to screen out narrow-minded men. I'm also surprised at the number of judgemental comments from, not just men, but also from women. If your friend can't get over it, maybe he should go see a counsellor to work on HIS issues. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 3:57:00 PM | | You have no idea what a riduculous claim you just made. Take it on advice from someone who has "inside" knowledge. For example , a woman of 52 who actually possesses a vagina. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 3:58:17 PM | | What a relief that someone actually has something intelligent to say.... | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 7:28:45 PM |
In his mind, he doesn't really want to marry a slut and he is thinking maybe after a while, she will get sick of him just like those other 83 guys.
Sounds like he is using her but hoping she will get sick of him and leave him....I think your friend is a nut case thinking she's a slut but still with her.
It shows he's not a man or he would have enough decency to be truthful with her and tell her he doesn't want to marry her.
Why does he want her around if he thinks she's a slut? | |
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