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Posted: 5/12/2009 9:42:20 PM | GOOOD LAAAWWDD!! Is her cooch any good!! DID she go to school? Develop hobbies or interests other than sport ****ING!!?? He is STILL with her??? I know the economy is bad and finding someone DECENT is getting harder but geeezzz... I know he can do BETTER than that? How did he find out? By her or by the people she screwed??? It's not that much LOVE in the world for me to be with a chick like that!! 83 people?? HA HA HA!! Like I said.. is the cooch any good??? Hell... is SHE any good??  | |
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Posted: 5/13/2009 5:42:52 AM | You're right man; 2EachHisOwn ,ugggg I mean , 2eachherown, and I'm sure she's getting it on......
Is her cooch any good!! Ask the first guy not # 83....... | |
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Posted: 5/13/2009 9:38:45 PM | Ugh God. She can't be a virgin and she can't have more than 50 lovers.
Make up your minds guys LOL!
It is what it is. If he loves her, it shouldn't matter.
If he's viewing her as some "used car", then he's not the right guy for her anyway.
It's not like he was around when she did it.
To each his own I say. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2009 11:05:33 PM | | If she hasn't cheated on him he should get over it. It is a huge number, but the fact that she cared enough to be honest with him should prove something. Maybe she had sef-esteem or "daddy" issues she was working out but she's obviously found the guy that she wants to be with; if he really loves her he'll forgive her for her past and look forward to the future. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2009 11:11:43 PM | Dam......83 people??? I'm not even sure I'm up to 83 times let alone 83 people!!  | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 12:11:47 AM | 83...I guess it depends on how mny people he has been with.
83 How old is this girl? | |
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Nyda
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Joined: 2/3/2009
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 5/31/2009 11:01:26 AM | Yeah, but wouldn't that make a guy a stud. Double standards. No one needs to know everything you have ever done in your life. There are no studs or sluts. It is a religous philosophy. Sex is bad and only to be shared in marriage and none of us have EVER had sex out of wedlock, right?
Judge not lest ye be judged. Sound familiar to anyone? | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 5:54:33 PM | | Wow....I bet you wish you didn't find that out. Those things tend to be used as ammo in fights. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 7:33:48 PM | @OP:
Is this 'guy' really you? And who told you that this girl slept with 83 guys? You, a friend, or did she confess?
When a woman has slept with quite a few men, it is her business. A woman will have several exes behind her when she meets up with you. But 83? That was a big deal AND a if she did, like it was okay for hz\ different strokes for different people. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 8:09:23 PM | | The wedding would be off! More than 10 would make me feel queasy. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 8:24:54 PM | My most recent relationship was with a woman who had slept with 34 prior gentlemen, the majority of them because she suffered from horrendous self-esteem problems and had been sexually molested as a child. Promiscuity was the only way she knew of to get attention during that part of her life.
There is always more to the story, and I think the number is really the least important part of the whole thing. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 9:15:45 PM |
A man sleeps with 83 women and he is a stud. A woman sleeps with 83 men and she is a slut. Jeeze what a double standard. I am sure your friends was no innocent little virgin and had quite a number of kinky meaningless encounters.
Actually, I consider a man a "slut" (I hate this word) if he's had a huge amount of past partners in a relatively short time span. So there isn't a double standard with me.
But 83 is a lot. Especially at 26. Huge liability and wondering why so many?
Not sure I'd trust that. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2009 3:51:40 AM | @miss contemplative:
A man that slept with 83 women is a man whore.  Makes you wonder if he knows what he is really doing that he has to go on to the next woman to try something that he didn't with the previous women. A woman as well.
You were right on the money with the huge liability statement. Why the hell would he be up here asking for opinions when he should be getting tested for every possible sexually transmitted disease known to man?
@OP:
Get tested and be in the 'know'. Worry about the other stuff later. Your life is more valuable than our opinions, even if we do make sense.  | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 11:36:04 PM | | Only 83? I know a gal in Canada who made a point of doing it with 100 guys before she turned 18 and no, I never did her either. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 2:19:18 AM | | So what. I read the average prostitute has sex with over 600 people a year, A YEAR. So she's only about 1/100 th of a prostitute. I'd like to marry a slut myself, they know what they are doing, they tested the field, and they decided to settle down with me because I'm the best. That's how I would view it. Just make sure she is tested. I'm sure she's had at least 2 STD's. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 7:18:50 PM | | You got to be kidding, 83 people? If she was sexually active since lets say 16 thats like 8 different guys a year. Talk about sowing your wild oats, either that or she is a man eater. One thing he can look forward to is experience....lol. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:42:51 PM |
Yeah, but wouldn't that make a guy a stud.
No. A 26 year old male with 83 partners would be considered a dirty**** Most likely a walking bio-hazard, just like this girl!! | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:58:40 PM | For me there is a simple answer. Attraction and love is not a choice... If he loves and is attracted to her and she him, the past really doesn't matter. She is who she is based on the sum of all of her experience and yes, that includes 83 other people.
Now, I do agree with what someone on here that said that she needs to be sure to be tested to make sure she is healthy but she should do that for herself and not because of him.
Personally, I really wouldn't care one way or the other. If everything that makes love happen is there, it is rare and hard enough to find. Don't beat her up for something she is probably already uncomfortable about. Besides, I am sure that one of the very things you like the most about her she learned as a result of her past.
Focus on a happy future and be glad that she chose YOU as the one to be in it with her.
Good luck. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 12:13:19 AM | | The fact that the number of conquests came up shows insecurity in your friend. If he truely loved her he wouldn't care what his friends think or who she was with before him... just that she wants to be with only him. The fact that he even question the number of previous lovers is showing his insecurity of his sexual performance. He should have focused on the present and the future that is now ruined by his lack of respect towards his partner. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 12:24:47 AM | | BTW If you have slept with one or one hundred partners you should be tested for STD's before and after each partner. It is common sense... | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 4:40:10 AM | | It's clear that this girl has commitment\sexual issues. I guess those guys didn't see her as girlfriend/wife material except for you. You must be the "Chosen One"!! | |
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Posted: 6/10/2009 5:25:44 PM |
My most recent relationship was with a woman who had slept with 34 prior gentlemen, the majority of them because she suffered from horrendous self-esteem problems and had been sexually molested as a child. Promiscuity was the only way she knew of to get attention during that part of her life.
There is always more to the story, and I think the number is really the least important part of the whole thing.
Indeed. On that basis alone he (or a woman faced with a "stud") should probably walk....
don't you think ? | |
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Cheba
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Joined: 4/10/2009
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| Slept with 83 people
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:03:11 PM | | she's 26. 83 is not that incredibly huge for a 26 year old... the real question to ask is how many times she has been in love with all the 83 she slept with. and then rethink the wedding plans. | |
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