| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 5:17:30 PM | Way back in '94, I went to a Def Leppard concert at Fiddler's Green in Denver. The same was true with the girl's room line stretching forever. I walked right in to the boy's room and bellied up. Then I was taken with surprise when I heard female voices coming from the stalls.
Initially, I was very surprised because it was a first. Then I thought to myself "Now those girls have balls." Never thought anything more about it for 14 plus years until I saw this thread.
I don't think the shoe would ever be on the other foot, and become a problem. Men won't wait in the ladie's line. I went to the California Jam in '74 at Ontario Motor Speedway in California. They had brought in multitudes of porta-potties. All the girls were lined up at the outhouses while all the guys were lined along the chain link fence. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 5:20:28 PM | | Women take sooooooooo long in the restroom and the line is always long. I seem to find myself using the men's room on occasion. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 5:22:41 PM | I went to I believe what was the Monsters of Rock in Sacramento with Megadeath, Creed, Stabbing Westward, etc. It was hot as all get out that day. There was a HUGE line of porta potties next to eachother spread out for about 50 yards or so. HUGE line.
These porta potties were the disgustingest things you've ever even thought about thinking about.
A couple came out of one that I was lucky enough to use next. I remember thinking, at 21, how in the hell someone could be so horney that that would be thought of as a good idea. I still just pray and hope they were using it at the same time, although that is rather gross to think about as well. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 5:35:56 PM | when you gotta go, ya gotta go, ya know?
one reason why the line for the women's room is so long is that usually you have to wipe the pee from the last person off the seat. if everyone sat down, it wouldn't be a problem. the people who pee all over the seat are obviously straddling it. since we don't have a pointer to aim, the pee goes on the seat - and the floor. personally, I'd rather wipe it off the seat then have to step in it.
another reason is that women have periods and use the stall to change their feminine product. this takes time. also, whoever designed those stalls didn't leave enough elbow room! compound this with the problem of no hook to hang your purse, or shelf to rest it on. you don't want to put it on the wet floor. now you're trying to insert something, or change something and you only have two hands. this takes time.
also, women usually take small children in with them. so if the kid has to go, and you do, too, that quadruples the time spent in the stall.
finally, simple anatomy. women sit for everything. that means clothing must be pulled down and out of the way to allow the fanny to rest on the seat. if you're a straddler, I'm not sure what you're doing with the clothing. and please don't tell me.
I'm using the men's room, when and if I need to. I would peek first, however, and always keep the stall door shut!
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 6:01:12 PM | This is a zanny thread. Not due to the Opost. But due to the opinions thrown in many of the posts.
I agree with post 30 that; "...The opinions expressed here, that have a problem with women using the men's room, are not that men want their privacy, or have modesty issues with bodily functions. I think it is the double standard we have in our society. Women are given far greater tolerance in committing behaviors that when a man does it, he would be in deep trouble for doing the same thing.
I think it comes out of women wanting to be treated with equality; Women should have the same restrictions and restraint placed upon them, as the men they want equality with."
And that is the essence of the issue!
PS. What are the sociological or other type of "scientific" reasons for the Ladies' Room having so much traffic to begin with and the Men's not, in this day and age of gender equality? Eg do women drink more than men in bars? Or hold less? Especially when it comes to a place frequented by primarily young people?
PS2. The rational solution would be to merge the two Rooms and make it co-ed (that was the case in my college dorm)!
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 6:02:51 PM |
"the people who pee all over the seat are obviously straddling it. since we don't have a pointer to aim, the pee goes on the seat"
I'm in a quandry now. Why do women get so pissed (pun) off when we leave the seat up? It sounds to me like they should be lifting it also . . .
And here I thought it was lazy men that were pissing all over the seat . . . | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 6:05:51 PM | | ewwwww..........if we lifted the seat......we'd be even more exposed to the dribbles and mishaps because ya'll do lift it...... | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 6:23:27 PM | And people wonder why I stay here after I married my fish!!
I never knew women went to night clubs to get fvcked and show their gash!! Yikes!!
Holy heck men pee in front of other men everyday - who cares if a woman enters - what's the diff?!?! Do your job and get out! Woopie!!! | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 6:56:24 PM | Am I missing something here......because I can't understand what all the fuss is about? When you gotta pee, ya gotta pee....just something ya can't hold back! I'm old enough to say.....I've seen plenty of women pee, puke, fart, burp and sometimes even take a dump (yes guys, women do these things too).....and let me tell ya, there isn't anything sexy, exciting or romantic about watching them do it, so I say, if the lady needs to go......for god sakes, just get out of her way and let her go!
OP, the next time something like that happens, instead of standing there like an idiot....be a gentleman and go stand in front of them (with your back turned of course) and guard them from all the other crazy men in there!  | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 8:14:15 PM | hey thanx for the explanation. i always wondered why the hell you ladies took so long. now i have a better idea. man, i'm glad i'm a man!
OP, the next time something like that happens, instead of standing there like an idiot....be a gentleman and go stand in front of them (with your back turned of course) and guard them from all the other crazy men in there!
i believe i stated that when i was in there observing this phenominon that there were 2 girls and one stood in front of the other to shield her. thanx for calling me a name. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 8:21:58 PM | Honestly? I cannot for a second believe that men would have such a big deal about this. Men pee anywhere and everywhere. Ever been to a ball game or concert? When there isn't a stall or urinal they will pee in the sink or anywhere accessible. Women, however, don't have that luxury. So if all yes fails, yes some of us with use the mens.
Perhaps this wouldn't be a big deal if the men's room was empty. However I have seen women use the men's room when there is a fair amount of men in a line waiting to use it. If I need use the men's room, then I shouldn't be stuck in line behind women that shouldn't even be there. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 8:29:46 PM | Bomb,
As a woman who has stood in a many of long ass lines while peering over at the deserted men's restroom I feel confident in answering this question.
When you've got to go, you've got to go...
a long long line of women coming out of the lady's room. no line for the men's room but just one dude inside waiting his turn at the urinal.
Obviously those girls had to go real bad...
Was it right? probably not
Would this scenario ever be the other way around? probably not
Do those girls even remember invading your territory? probably not
Shit happens...a lot in the men's restroom. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 8:57:44 PM | women peeing in the mens room -nooooooooooooo -say it aint soooooooooo lol... -seen it several times, not a big deal -most country gals dont have a prob with it, will just drop and pee wherever, last time the ladies room flooded at the bar, bouncer was suppose to be watching the mens room door -however he was an idiot, as he was directing women into the crowded mens room. some were doing the pee pee dance, couldn't wait any longer for the only stall -backing up to pee in the urinals. -kind of interesting trying to do your own business with a strange women next to you trying to pee "hello? ummmm do you come here often?" (if you seen one of em, you've seen them all) NO! we dont have a tampon machine in here...
-i'll be outside in the alley with the other guys -peeing behind the dumpster | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 9:00:21 PM | I admit I've gone to a men's room before. Sometimes you just can't help it, as there can be a 10-15 minute wait for the womens' stalls and no wait at all for the mens. I don't know why building designers don't take into account that it just takes women longer to "do their thing", especially when you start having to deal with tampons, etc. Why they don't plan for more womens stalls is beyond me.
I find this particularly a problem at older sports arenas / stadiums, since they were built at at time when the common thought was that "most women folk don't watch sports". So there are only 5 womens stalls for every 8-10 mens. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 9:06:11 PM | | I know more women than not that have used the men's restroom - if you have to go its better than squatting | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 9:33:48 PM | OMG I have just read this entire thread and have to pee so bad !! Where's the mens room ? Thanks for the laugh !! | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 9:55:03 PM | | I have used the men's room before when the ladies was too busy, but I always have a male friend accompany me, and I wait until it's not busy. I wouldn't have just barged in and lifted my skirt in full view. That's like begging to be assaulted. I can see BigDaddyJinx, point...makes perfect sense, but I have never met another guy who would have found it quite so offensive. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/12/2009 11:19:22 PM | | Hey, what's the big deal? I've stood guard at the door for the woman I was with, after I checked inside first for her. There was a line at the womens, nobody was using the mens, and it all goes to the same dang place, so I don't think it will upset the septic monster! | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/13/2009 12:03:42 AM | | That brings to mind, a friend of mine (a guy) and I, had a few beers under our belts at the Washington State Fair in Puyallup. We'd just got off one of the rides in the carnival and the pressure was almost unbearable. We went to the restroom building, didn't notice the little dinky sign said womens, no line, no clue, no care, just had to go. We walked inside, wall to wall women, some at the sinks, some going to the sinks, some on their butts as you might expect, and the chatter, OMG. It became instant quiet, it occured to us at the same time where we were, did an about face in step, in unison(couldn't have been done any better if practiced), and out the door we went, we busted out laughing and couldn't stop, the look on their faces were priceless, as ours must have been too, as they had busted out laughing as well that could be heard clear into the mens room over our own. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/13/2009 1:29:38 AM |
do you find this behavior acceptable? has it happened to you? any random thoughts on the subject of girls invading the boys room or what would happen if it were THE OTHER WAY AROUND?
I've been several places where the ladies used the men's room. Not a big deal to me and I never thought twice about it. Generally it takes women longer to go because of biology, and many places do not account for that when they design the buildings and put in the same number of toilets for men and women.
I just look at it as you gotta go, you gotta go. Why wait in a long line when all the stalls in the men's room are open?
And as far as the other way around... I've never been somewhere that the men were all lined up and the women weren't. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/13/2009 1:41:44 AM | This thread seems to be turning into one where people start telling there most memorable unrination stories.
As far as men using the ladies room... I would think he was a pervert. I have yet to see any event where there was a long line for the mens room and not for the ladies. So I think a guy trying to use on of the stalls in the ladies room is just some pervert hoping to get is kicks or something. | |
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| Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 1/13/2009 7:42:42 AM |
When you gotta pee, ya gotta pee....just something ya can't hold back!
right, just squirt it under the table or at the bar too?
hmm, there are situations (like one-or two-person washrooms) where the men's is occupied/door locked and the women's is not.
thanks, from now on I do my bidness in the ladies in those situations.. | |
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