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 Gwendolyn2009

Joined: 1/22/2006
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/19/2009 1:32:02 PM
If you are not exclusively committed, she has the "right" to have sex with whomever she pleases.

If that bothers you, then don't continue seeing her.

By the way, an offhand comment on "having a future together" can mean everything or nothing.

Ask her.
 ZONEALERT

Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 52
Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/19/2009 3:00:52 PM
Doesn't really matter if you are being played or not, too many questions to start with someone who has secrets and doesn't want to be honest
- do yourself a favor this time..
 southernlady1840

Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 53
Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/20/2009 7:11:31 PM
Hmm well if she was at the bar with her cousin then why did she not invite you to come along on New Years Eve? secondly you are kinda jumpin the gun by assuming that she slept with this guy that nite... she may not be aware of how you feel about her too so maybe that should be first priority ... never assume the other person knows....

If in fact she is playing the field then you will know her intentions were not on the same playing field as yours therefore maybe you need to talk with her and see where this is going and if she feels or wants the same thing... if not then well it won't happen... move on... but whatever you do handle this carefully and without conviction otherwise this could wreck all your future plans so ask questions first and get answers before jumping the gun....
 802MARK

Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 54
Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/20/2009 10:10:58 PM
well first off she is trying to get laid,, 2nd if she didnt want to spend new years with you then hello what does that tell you???? move on.
 barbee1970

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/20/2009 10:39:43 PM
I doubt if I'd keep her. I see those kind on Maury Pauvich all of the time tryng to decide who fathered her baby.

Hey--one man's enough for me to deal with, not only that if I was dating a guy it would not be honest to sneak around. Relationships are built on trust.
 janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/20/2009 10:44:10 PM
See the red flags before it happens. You can almost always witness shady behavior before she whores herself out.
 Canadianstud

Joined: 6/6/2008
Msg: 57
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 1/21/2009 8:42:15 AM
OP this is what you do

you grow a set of balls and you kick her ass to the curb and you find another girl there are millions out there it shouldn't be to hard to find another
 Czech Roma

Joined: 10/7/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/1/2009 10:08:29 PM
Get tested for STDs, condoms are not fool proof. Do you have feelings for her tell her, tell her what you want form her. WOmen can not read men's minds. Tel her what kind of relationship you want with her. Ask her what she wants. I hate it when men do not tell the girl what they want from her or how how they feel about her. It causes so many promblems and hurt feelings.
 1kindMan4U

Joined: 5/23/2007
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/1/2009 10:29:05 PM
Ya know.. it's an old post from last JANUARY.. but that being said I only have ONE question/comment

6 dates and a couple of screws.. and you BOUGHT HER A PAIR OF TIRES?

Dude.. you are messing up the rates here.. big time!
 bobbajobba

Joined: 4/28/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:31:25 PM
watch, look, listen learn
 Bluesman2008

Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 61
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:36:56 PM
Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?

Are you ten years old? Do you seriously have to ask this question? Play doormat much?
 simplywaiting44

Joined: 9/13/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 11:30:25 AM
she isnt serious. nor honest. time to move on.
 acuddler

Joined: 10/30/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 4:51:34 PM
Leave. Do you want her doing this sort of thing to you once you are married, have three kids, and a house, etc? Then she gets everything you own. Move on before that happens.
 swampbuggy1

Joined: 8/29/2009
Msg: 64
Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:16:24 PM
This is why I stay away from my space and facebook and stuff like that all it does is cause trouble. Ive seen so many friendships and relationships ruined over it. A lot of times its a misunderstanding which may be your case, I wouldnt worry about it cause it might be playful banter between friends just keep an eye on her actions they will tell you more than her words.
 bwana217

Joined: 5/3/2008
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:27:22 PM
I'd probably suggest a threesome.
 Thaddal

Joined: 10/23/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:29:58 PM
Alright buddy..go back and read what you wrote.....is that the kind of girl you want to take home to your parents...unless...your desperate.....
 TheReason_

Joined: 5/16/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:40:53 PM
Ah you're young. Just let it go. Shit like that doesn't matter until you are 30+.

Chalk it up to being young and stupid on her part. These things will happen, right or wrong. You might even find yourself doing something just as stupid.


That's life, live and learn.



And don't pull that shit once you hit your 30's


 Serenity Sam

Joined: 4/24/2008
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/4/2009 6:04:44 PM
Im not sure what blowing a rasberry is? but I know what bodascious ta-tas are. lol.
Yes, New Years eve is usually a day for couples, not cousins(I am hearing the theme song from patty duke show, "when cousins are two of a kind)My age is showing.
Anyway, she did state the word cum, not come. Anyone can not overlook that error, unless they were just learning english as a second language. So he made comments on putting his face betweeen her big breasts and "blow a rasberry?" and she wants some cum for her to see, making a little more sense. Yes definetly sexual over tones.
Problem is she is free to do as she wants, you may only be, which seems obvious by her behavior, a FWB. You should ask her if she is seeing anyone else. If she says yes than you know know you are a FWB and you might as well enjoy the casual relationship while looking for someone to replace her if you seek something more substantial.
 lolamac

Joined: 7/4/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:10:46 PM
Why would you assume she is having sex with another person??? It could be innocent play or flirting. Some people flirt with other people, but are strictly hands off with them in reality.
 hairybear1975

Joined: 10/27/2009
Msg: 70
Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:18:05 PM
mate she is a hoe, move on, get your mates together and go party like it was your last day on this plenty. Its a life lesson for you, she is an easy lay you had your fun move on, she is just playing the field and you'll probably catch something from the skank anyway. Think your self lucky you got out now, get a vd check from your local clinic and move on,
 FilmmakerMike

Joined: 7/28/2005
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:22:22 PM
Get her a bottle of Vodka to help her hit bottom.
 Inpune

Joined: 9/12/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:34:46 PM
You go on POF and fined another woman that won't be screwing around! Remember there's many women in this Pond so why not give that a try instead of all that complaining.
 MzVeronica

Joined: 11/2/2009
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:25:10 PM
It is to easy to just hang on to someone, it is to easy to not commit.

If you want her to be yours and yours alone then jump into the commitment full force, Tell her you want to make it exclusive. Tell her you know you care so much that you feel jealous just thinking about the possibility of her being with another guy. Then make sure you mean it. Just hoping is not enough, you need to make it happen, you need to show your powerful love to her.

Unless it is not that powerful, then get out.
 Modela45

Joined: 8/31/2008
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:28:53 PM
Simple....... Dump her and find someone descent and someone you can trust. End of the story and Good luck to you.
 PrimeWoman

Joined: 4/25/2006
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Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:30:30 PM
Run....
Get tested for STD's?
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