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 angel_kisses21

Joined: 1/6/2009
Msg: 26
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Posted: 1/16/2009 6:24:42 PM
yes, i did make a new profile.. and it was because i am going back home in a little less then 3 weeks (i DO listen).. and i wanted to make some friends before i go back there.. and i kept the old account because i talk to friends on there, and only there, and i didnt want to give them the new account yet, because i am not telling them im leaving yet because then they will keep on about seeing me more often, and at the moment, they are just "chatting" buddies i am not willing to meet...

as for this.. i put out what i thought.. gave my opinion.. and got feedback.. i didnt jump into anything as such, and im asking BEFORE i act.. what the he!! do i have to do to satisfy you people? jezzzz-us... lol
 Seeking Muse

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 1/17/2009 5:25:01 AM
Hi
You can tell him how you feel, and I am sure you have.
Ultimately , you can only speak for yourself, he will have to make up his own mind.
In trying to convince him , he may feel overly pressured and that is bad.
So, be careful not to do that.
On top of all of that , he may be right.
It is hard to carry on a long distance romance, for any great length of time.

I wish you both the best and hope you will not only respect each others decisions , but work to being together soon.
While working toward a compromise you both can live with.
best of luck
 Brownlady1953

Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 1/27/2009 6:51:51 AM
In order for most long distance relationships to work you need an abundance of:

1. Trust
2. Time
3. Money
4. Flexibility

Without those four elements, the chances of a successful LDR are not good.
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