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 VVendy

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Posted: 1/19/2009 12:01:02 AM
For every single mother there is a dad. Men who sit by and do nothing to give the child a firm grip of right and wrong are also to blame but stats do not lie. 98% of prisoners do not have a good relationship with thier dad. Women should look at the guy before sleeping with him. Bible says to marry the guy but don't sleep with him until he has a house and field that can support you and your animals so that your kids don't go without.
 Sanguine Cynic

Joined: 6/27/2008
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Ann Coulter attacks single mothers in her new book.
Posted: 1/19/2009 12:38:30 AM

Ann Coulter is a idiotic nut case.




I concur. I still, for the life of me can't find out why in the world anyone would give two hershey squirts about what this lady says or publishes. It's almost like major news organizations heralding and reporting what the K.K.K. says and writes as though it's content is of some intellectual, meaningful, or even remotely useful substance. So many things don't make sense in this world.
 msquared

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Posted: 1/19/2009 10:02:58 AM

Okay... Jerry Seinfeld, Charlie Sheen, Pam Anderson, Madonna and Britney Spears.


Are you seriously trying to argue that these people give the message that sex is consequence free?
 geeleebee

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Posted: 1/19/2009 11:42:44 AM
Are you seriously trying to argue that these people give the message that sex is consequence free?

Thank you.

When someone claims that our children are being 'taught' that sex is consequence-free, I envision a classroom--the same classroom where it is claimed that sex education is NOT being taught.

I was raised in a two-parent home. My oldest sister became pregnant out of wedlock.
My God-daughter became pregnant out of wedlock at age 18--she was raised in a two-parent Christian home.
Another dear friend became pregnant at age 15--also the product of a two-parent home.

Ann Coulter sells books because she is inflammatory.
 faith2565

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Posted: 1/19/2009 3:15:26 PM
She is a big bag of air and became famous because of Hannity!
 jack-d-ripper

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Posted: 1/19/2009 4:51:35 PM
She is a big bag........ but not air..........
 mungojoe

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Posted: 1/20/2009 4:37:56 AM

The Leave it Beaver days NEED NOT be a thing of the past...

Spare us please, the "Leave it to Beaver" days never existed in anything close to the way you appear to imagine them.


I say that the media and society has created a monstrous idea that casual sex which results in single motherhood, is responsible.

That is as much nonsense as:


the Left's psychology impressed upon them which forbids teaching young girls that life is generally easier when sex comes AFTER marriage, and instead tells them that all sex is always ok and consequence free.


whatever.. I think you just proved my case.

Really?

And how, pray tell...
 VVendy

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Posted: 1/20/2009 6:35:30 PM
Her piont was it is not the best thing to be a single mother I agree she says it is selfish to have a kid for selfish reasons I agree. She said BW read her book like she was reading Mien Comf. I deagree. She said that librals make themselves victoms I disagree. Conservitive women are encourage to have the child even if they were raped. Their children are unschooled on birth control one girl told me that she did not know that she was having sex until it was almost over she thought they were just fooling around. I think she picked a soft target to hit hard because she is childless. I think that she is selfish as she does not take care of any one but herself.
 cncgandolf

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Posted: 1/20/2009 7:22:06 PM
"Ann Coulter sells books because she is inflammatory."

Anybody stopped to tell A.C. that Obama was raised by his mom and grandmother?

I'll take his values and morality over her's.
 Larissan04

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Posted: 1/21/2009 12:40:53 AM
msquared~

I didn't make any judgement about anyone being a "better" parent. i just listed some statistics that is all. having been married to an asian person at one time i can attest that there are some strong cultural values that reinforce the above stats.

the real issue is that having children out of wedlock comes with some hefty socio-economic risks - and if one is making a choice (when you have unprotected sex you are conscientiously making that 'choice' by default) to have a child out of wedlock then one should be aware of the possible and probable consequences of the choice that one is making.

also, regarding sex education... there are many factors that are causing the increase in the number of children being born out of wedlock. just look at society around you. the point i was trying to make to gee is that sex education isn't THE solution that he claims it to be. we can already see that it hasn't worked, and how can it when society and our culture sends contradictory images and ideas to young people? we've gone from being a sexually repressed society to being a sexually obsessed one. neither expression is healthy.

i'll say it once i'll say it a hundred times...ann coulter is right about this issue. this is a case of shooting the messenger...a rather shrewish messenger i'll grant you...but a messenger none the less...

lar
 Larissan04

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Posted: 1/21/2009 12:46:35 AM
faith~

ann coulter was given her start by john f kennedy jr. when he had george magazine.

he thought she was fabulous.

lar
 neopol

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Posted: 1/21/2009 6:54:37 AM

If you compare out of wedlock birth statistics from the 50's to the stats of today, the increase has been pretty dramatic. the link between poverty and single motherhood is pretty damning. but i suppose that isn't something that is imparted during today's "sex" education classes.


This is one of the more pronounced repercussions of this crisis, but again, its invisible by sheer will of those who wish not discuss it, for fear of incriminating those in their situation.


Family Structure and Welfare Dependency

Rising divorce rates combined with a huge increase in childbearing outside of marriage have led to a situation in which most children born today will spend some time in a single parent family. And since roughly half of these single parents are poor (Figure 1), large numbers of children are growing up in poverty as well.

Indeed, the growth of single parent families can account for virtually all of the increase in child poverty since 1970 (Figure 2).

The growth of female-headed families has also contributed to the growth of the welfare rolls. According to the Congressional Budget Office, welfare caseloads would have declined considerably throughout most of the 1980s if it had not been for the fact that the growth of single parent families continued to push them upwards. Moreover, this factor was more than twice as important as the economy in accounting for the roughly one million increase in the basic caseload between 1989 and 1993.


It is not just the growth of female-headed families but also shifts in the composition of the group that have contributed to greater poverty and welfare dependency. In the 1960s and 1970s, most of the growth of single parent families was caused by increases in divorce or separation. In the 1980s and 1990s, all of the increase has been driven by out-of-wedlock childbearing. Currently, 32 percent of all children in the United States and more than half in many large cities are born outside of marriage. Unmarried mothers tend to be younger and more disadvantaged than their divorced counterparts. They are overwhelmingly poor (Figure 1) and about three-quarters of them end up on welfare.

http://www.brookings.edu/testimony/1999/0629poverty_sawhill.aspx?p=1

Of course, not all of those represented are part of this dismal statistic, much the same as most gun owners arent responsible for most gun crime, but again, those who represent this minority attempt to dismiss, deflect, & whitewash these stats with their own 1- in- 100 positive experiences in the face of overwhelming statistics that show otherwise .

Yes, several million are fine. The other several million who are NOT fine are suffering from your denial, deflection, & dismissal of this crisis.
 itechman63

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Posted: 1/21/2009 10:01:51 AM
No one's arguing that the decline of family values isn't a major contributor to so many problems.

But what I don't get is that when media acknowledges life in today's society maybe even giving kudos to someone that is fighting through life as a single parent, it's considered a problem due to "Liberals". Media portraying a fantasy world ignoring the facts of society could then be considered a right-wing "state controlled" media then wouldn't it? Orwell anyone?

The thing is that I see in media a very good representation of the consequences and struggles of single parenthood or teen single parenthood even while giving the thumbs up to those doing a good job with it.

So what's the solution? Does Coulter offer any suggestions besides eliminating Liberals? Society won't change overnight and it won't change by Coulter suggesting that media hide from the facts of life instead representing a facade of astroturf lawns and Marcia's struggles with her nose being broken right before the big dance.
 msquared

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Posted: 1/21/2009 11:02:41 AM

i'll say it once i'll say it a hundred times...ann coulter is right about this issue.


Regardless of how many times you say it, she is not right. The problems she places at the doorsteps of single mothers are also present in two-parent families.
 neopol

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Posted: 1/21/2009 12:54:51 PM

The issue is whether there is a correlational statistic or a causal statistic and I do not see that she has ... or anyone on here ... has proven the causal statistic of single motherhood. Only that there is a correlary sometimes.


This comes pretty close to what Coulter, among others, is trying to say & what others are trying to dismiss :


Out-of-Wedlock Childbearing: Cause or Symptom of Poverty?

Some contend that many of the women who have babies as unmarried teens would have ended up poor and on welfare even if they had married and delayed childbearing. The argument is that they come from disadvantaged families and neighborhoods, have gone to poor schools, or faced other adverse influences that make having a baby at a young age as good an option as any other. There are few men with jobs for them to marry, and given their own lack of skills, welfare seems like a relatively good alternative. Moreover, earnings for less skilled men have plummeted over the past 30 years.



Although such arguments cannot be dismissed entirely, they are only a small part of the story. To begin with, the drop in marriage rates, which has been especially pronounced among African Americans, has been much larger than any economic model can explain. Second, early child bearers are much less likely to complete high school, leading directly to poor long-term employment prospects for the young women involved. The children in such families suffer even greater adverse consequences, including poorer health, less success in school, and more behavior problems.

Finally, the argument that declining earnings has made marriage less viable is a curious one. Two adults can live more cheaply than one, and by pooling whatever earnings can be secured from even intermittent or low paid employment, they will be better off than a single adult living alone. These arguments are doubly true once a child enters the picture and one parent either needs to stay home or shoulder the extra expense of paying for child care.



One can grant that the earnings prospects of poorly educated, inner city residents are not good and have deteriorated in recent decades, and that better schools and more support systems for low-income working families would help. Still, early out-of-wedlock childbearing greatly compounds the problem. Even well-educated individuals in their twenties have difficulty living on one income these days, and most middle class families have two earners. Yet, for some reason, it is assumed that if the men in low-income communities can't command a decent wage, they are not marriageable. But fathers are, or should be, more than just a meal ticket. And although two minimum wage jobs will not make anyone rich, they will provide an income (....) well above the poverty level for a family with two children (Figure 3). In short, marriage and delayed childbearing have the potential to solve a lot of problems, including assuring a better future for the next generation.



http://www.brookings.edu/testimony/1999/0629poverty_sawhill.aspx?p=1

It, like a myriad of other ills, cant be proven. It isnt an entity. Its a very real trend. Statistics can surely paint a very clear picture of it. You choose whether or not the picture remains invisible.


 Larissan04

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Posted: 1/24/2009 12:18:33 AM
look, of course there are people that come from single parent homes that turn out OK. duh. However, based on statistics the numbers show that it is more likely that they will have a much tougher time, and many will NOT turn out OK.

why on earth would someone take such a risk with their child's future?

and someone mentioned barack obama...lol! ROFL! he was primarily raised by his grandparents. his grandmother was a very successful career woman. she was the vice president of a bank. she made a lot of money. he was sent to a prestigious private school in hawaii. these are not things that the average single mother OR father is going to be able to provide for her/his kid. the statistics overwhelmingly demonstrate this fact. once he got away from his irresponsible and unstable mother, he was raised in a stable home by people that were able to provide opportunities for him that otherwise he would not have had.

like it or not ann is 100% right.

which leads to another question...why should the rest of society have to pick up the tab, or supplement the decision to have a child out of wedlock? why should society have to take over the responsibilities of some dead beat dad and irresponsible mother who didn't exercise sound judgement before getting knocked up?

lar
 msquared

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Posted: 1/24/2009 7:43:45 AM

like it or not ann is 100% right.


As I stated earlier, the problems Ann blames on single mothers are also present in two-parent families. Ann is not right about this, as is the usual.
 neopol

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Posted: 1/24/2009 2:18:09 PM
Agreed. Ann Coulter is only about 85% right, according to stats. The 15% of 2 parent families that share these problems simply neutralize the other 85% & render them invisible. Correct? Geez.

Anything is present in any grouping of statistics. Arsenic is present in your drinking water. So is lead & nitrites.

Thats not the issue. the issue is cause & effect. All stats point it out. There are so many coats of whitewash over it now that its almost comical.

Deflect, deny & dismiss.

Ill give you a break here with these stats...I will leave ALL teen single mothers out of the stats & show how it is for 20+ year old single mothers:


Non-Teenage Single Mothers Face Financial Hardships

The out-of-wedlock birthrate among teenagers has declined in recent years, but it continues to rise among women 20 and older. By 2003, three out of every four unwed births were to women aged 20 and older (National Center for Health Statistics, 2005). A 1998 paper studied the economic status of this large but sometimes overlooked group of mothers.

Researchers considered 2,613 births to 1,615 women between 1980 and 1990. They examined the economic status-as measured by the income-to-needs ratio, poverty-class status (poor or middle class), and welfare usage-of the mothers in the year before and the year after birth. They found striking similarities in the income measures of the non-teenage (“older”) single mothers and the teenage mothers. However, among the older women, they found significant differences between the married and single mothers. For example, 36 percent of the older single mothers, but only 5 percent of the older married mothers were poor. Older single mothers also were the most likely to be on welfare. In the sample, 59 percent of the older single mothers received welfare in the year after birth, compared to 41 percent of the teenage mothers and just 9 percent of the older married mothers.

These findings suggest that non-martial childbearing at any age, including among 20- and 30-somethings, creates financial hardships for mothers and their families.


http://www.familyfacts.org/featuredfinding/featuredfinding_82006e.cfm
 geeleebee

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Posted: 1/24/2009 4:08:34 PM
Jeffrey Dahmer--raised by two parents. Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold--Columbine murderers--and the Menendez brothers--all raised in two-parent homes.

There are so many, many factors that influence our children. While I agree that having two healthy, loving parents is considered the ideal, facts show that not everyone raised in a two-parent home turns out healthy and loving, themselves.
 jack-d-ripper

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Posted: 1/24/2009 5:09:02 PM
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Jeffrey Dahmer--raised by two parents. Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold--Columbine murderers--and the Menendez brothers


They all Knew someone parented by a SINGLE MOTHER...........

Proof
 jack-d-ripper

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 msquared

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Posted: 1/24/2009 10:11:37 PM

The 15% of 2 parent families that share these problems simply neutralize the other 85% & render them invisible.


Any statistic that states only 15 percent of the problems are from two-parent families, and 85 percent of the problems are the responsibilty of single parent families, is a statistic that is complete BS.
 427cammer

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Posted: 1/25/2009 8:39:47 AM

Any statistic that states only 15 percent of the problems are from two-parent families, and 85 percent of the problems are the responsibilty of single parent families, is a statistic that is complete BS.


Nobody in this thread has shown statistics that would counter Coulter's claims... but I guess if you don't like what you hear you call B.S.

I like giving these short responses; I still get to be argumentative and I don't have to bother myself with making an actual point...
 Super Ryan

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Posted: 1/25/2009 9:27:41 AM
Nobody in this thread has shown statistics that would counter Coulter's claims...

There's an old expression in statistics, "there are lies, there are huge f#$%&ing lies, and then there are statistics". What this means is that people can use a factual statistic to promote a lie. It is such an issue in statistics, that my statisctics textbook actually has a picture of the shell game on the cover.

http://highered.mcgraw-hill.com/sites/0070951640/information_center_view0/

So how is Ann lying to us?
Ann takes a coerlation of crime and single mothers, and declares a cause and effect. But he has zero evidence that one caused the other. In fact there is tons of evidence that poverty causes a rise in both crime and single motherhood.

I'll try to explain Ann's dishonest use of statistics with cars.
Let's say we sample a large group of cars. And we find a strong coerlation between dirty air filters and worn out brake pads. With Ann's logic, we could state that dirty air filters cause brake pads to wear out. Now anybody with a brain and the slightest knowlegde of automachanics knows that a dirty air filter can not cause brakes to wear out. We know that driving causes brakes to wear out and air filters to get dirty. But Ann might go even further and state that not only do dirty air filters cause worn out brake pads, but also cause people to drive.

I am also suspicious why Ann places the blame squarely on single mothers. Last time I checked, it takes two people to make a baby. Where's the blame for the dead beat daddies.

But what bothers me the most about this Coulter rant (and it's the same for most of his rants), is he offers no solution on fixing the problem. Just blame and hate, that's all Ann ever offers.

And for the record. In the past 20 years we have seen a rise in single mothers. Yet in the same time frame we have seen the crime rates across the board go down.

http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/uscrime.htm
 427cammer

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Posted: 1/25/2009 10:25:11 AM

"there are lies, there are huge f#$%&ing lies, and then there are statistics"

As I mentioned before, I have no real interest in these statistics other than that they lend support to what I already believe (that single parent households are less desireable).

In fact there is tons of evidence that poverty causes a rise in both crime and single motherhood.

I agree that in a lot of cases poverty and single motherhood are intertwined. This doesn't explain how in the area where I live poverty is largely self inflicted (people that don't want to work) and single parent households are still much more common than 30 years ago.

Instead of saying poverty causes single motherhood the reverse might be more true. Maybe when we focus all of our efforts on eliminating poverty we are only treating a symptom of the actual disease.

is he offers no solution on fixing the problem. Just blame and hate, that's all Ann ever offers.

I'm not really interested in placing blame (blame is tied in so tightly with victimhood... and I don't like it), I believe the first step in solving a problem is admitting there is a problem. In this thread it seems that peoples' hatred of Coulter causes them to deny that single motherhood is a problem. Blame isn't important, whether it is mostly men's fault or mostly the women's, it is a problem.. and we should look at the changes society has went through in the last 30 years to solve this problem.

Contrary to what some people believe most conservatives are not heartless; it is out of compassion that I don't want future generations to pay for todays mistakes, financial or otherwise...
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