| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/27/2005 7:33:26 AM | Phew.... so little time.
Let me try.
European Man, you say that in North America "girls use their looks and sex to get a good deal, materially. for someone from outside its overwhelming."
and yet, you talk about "girls in europe, those ugly ones have problems with finding boyfriends because those good looking ones are NORMAL and pretty APPROACHABLE.
i guess its only north america where any girl can get laid whenever she wants, lol,
doesnt matter how she looks. in europe man are much more selective and less paranoid about getting laid."
You criticize women for using their appearance to "get" men.
And yet you mock "less selective" men who end up with "ugly ones".
In other words, the women should all look hot, but shouldn't use this to get their men?
So no "ugly" girls can have a relationship/sex?
Because if the men in North America were more selective, as you put it,
they wouldn't waste their time "laying" an ugly girl.
Hmm. Profound thoughts.
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/27/2005 7:36:41 AM | Another thing I don't understand, European.
Right now you live in Canada?
And you are hoping to date women.
So probably, 90% of them will be Canadian...
Are your comments meant to entice them to come running?
Strange reverse psychology?
I don't think many women would appreciate being criticized or generalized in the way you have, regardless of where they are from.
Certainly "european women" wouldn't stand for that. *wry smile*
As for this little bit at the bottom. What do you mean by it? I mean, seriously, in your own words. It sounds like something from a emacipation textbook of the 70's. I don't see myself in it at all. And I don't think I am a female exception here in North America.
Darn it. I must have switched into my "Canadian mode" as you put it. Hmm.
in north america its more like a war of sexes, everybody is so "individual" usually thinks what can get out of relationship, how can use other person (goes both ways) instead of having it balanced | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:10:10 AM | | I feel very insulted anyway we dont want you for your green card we want you for your money lol lol | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:12:48 AM | LOL!!!!!! What's wrong with Canadian Women eh????
Posted By: european_man on 6/24/2005 10:27:32 PM
Subject: what about canadian woman, eh?
Message: personally i would never marry canadian woman.
if it comes to foreign ones, always have to use common sense and be a good psychologist. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 1:20:26 PM | I guess it depends. If you treat your wife as if you have done her the greatest favour in the world by marrying her and bringing her to your country, you can expect her to resent it.
From her side she has given up her friends, family, customs and language to be with you.
One of my friends at work married his interpreter from when he was working in China. She has come to live with him here in Australia. They have been together a number of years and are very happy though she has had a very hard time with the culture here. He is now looking into immigrating back to China.
Another friend at work sponsored his friends Russian wife so she could move here. He was a lottle concerned about doing this when his friend first approached him to help.
I spoke to him recently about it. He tells me that he no longer has any concern, his friends wife appears totally devoted to him and they are very happy.
I think you take the same risk no matter who you might choose to marry. In fact the figures are that over half of all marriages fail within 10 years.
Here the foreign spouse gets permanent status after 3 years, yet 80% of foreign marriages are still together after 5 years, somewhat better odds than marrying a local girl. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 2:38:55 PM | If I ever got into the situation again with foreign woman, I would tell her I want to be married and stay in -----------(her country) for a lifetime. Then if she stays interested, she might be true. If she loses interest, she doesn't really love you.
I wish I had used that method the first time. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 2:41:09 PM | | In my love story, I was too naive about asian girls, I fell and fell hard. Next time I'll resist their sweet and their charms. For they can truly be irrestible when they turn on the charm. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 3:05:21 PM | I think the generalization made is due to some elitist ignorant ASSumptions that "foreign" women will be somehow more loyal than naturalized women BECAUSE they are "foreign". How many Canadian,American,British,Indian,Mexican,ect men and women have been "dumped" by a countryman/woman? Come on now.......using that same logic Canadians should NEVER plan to marry other Canadians because a Canadian dumped another.
I'm tempted to be sensitive,but the OP's post is an insensitive whine with negative generalizations.Therefore I suggest perhaps there is some hormonal treatment that could be useful to develop BALLS! My goodness! do you take cheese with all of that whine? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 8:37:56 PM | You might get lucky. But there are multiple dangers. One of them is that very often they expect you to support not only them but their family as well.
My guidelines--she must be
1) Professional and/or from a developed country like Canada, Euopre, Australia, etc.
2) Agreeable to let me stay in her country if #1 is not true
3) There should be clear understanding of your obligations beforehand
Probably if these rules are followed there will be fewer problems
I personally always take the attitude that in the case of a foreign woman, the country we eventually live in is not a foregone conclusion. | |
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| Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/28/2005 10:26:10 AM | Gee, thanks for the advice, meekrob. I might have sex with a foreign national on vacation, but I don't think I would be dumb enough to equate that with love and propose marriage. It seems to me that just about anyone could see through the fact that many foreign women will feign love just to get a green card and a ticket stateside. Most of us don't need a pathetic fool who was played in this manner to warn us of the danger. Thanks for the concern though.
I am curious how you met this woman. Was it mail-order, an unsolicited e-mail on a dating site, or love at first site on vacation? Could you provide more details as to the specifics of your case? Did you file to have her Conditional Permanent Resident Status revoked within 90 days of the two year anniversary of the granting of such status, or did she stay with you for about three years before leaving you? | |
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Posted: 6/28/2005 10:37:46 PM | | LOL well after reading this thread........single life isn't all that bad LOLOL | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/28/2005 11:04:24 PM | first of all, what is funny you think that all "foreign women" dream of nothing but coming to america. america is an interesting place and its easy to start a new life here but lets no try to heal your complexes by though of living in "a center of the world". lots of people from thirld world do wanna come, they live in unimaginable poverty, but for Gods sake, stop believing in all what you see on tv.
rebecca; somehow u didnt get annoyed about generalization about "foreign women", there are 200 countries besides usa and canada and classyfiyng girls from germany, norway, japan and bolivia into one cathergory of "f w" is pretty aroggant, american way. | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/28/2005 11:08:42 PM | somehow you didnt notice what i wrote about difference in personal ads in europe and north am. less tatoos, boobies, information about pierciengs more about interets, movies, books. so inconvienient.
and one more thing, in going thru anonses in pof hard not to notice that lots of girls have an attitude, "i am ****y and proud of it", " i am difficult to handle can you keep up with me?" and crap like that.
personally i am not interested in "handling" anyone, and meeting girls who think that being ****y is a good quality ("cool" lol.)
if i wanna date canadian wonam? mostly not, there are some great girls out there, thats for sure, met some. but in general, been there, done it, no thanks. good luck to all the man here :).
i prefer "foreign women". | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/28/2005 11:22:10 PM | calling highly educated, exeptionally sophisticated german or swedish girl submissive just leaves me speechless of laughter. lol.
i never said that "ugly ones" dont have right to be in a relationship. they do have right and i wish them the best.
the problem is that less attractive ones in north america have unrealistic expectations, their egos are enormously and unnaturally swallen. their attitude is more hollywood style that 10 x more beautiful girls from other parts of the world. often there is nothing going behind it. unfortunately. | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/28/2005 11:29:39 PM | | calling highly educated, exeptionally sophisticated german or swedish girl submissive just leaves me speechless of laughter. lol. | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/28/2005 11:52:28 PM | | A friend of mine just married a Swedish girl. She's extremely beautiful. To say the least, she is not really the submissive type. I suppose she was corrupted by America's vaginocentric worldview. | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/29/2005 12:06:12 AM | vaginocentric?
most of the people like to "do it".
in sweden they just do it and not talk much about it. it normal part of life.
like going sweating with naked strangers in the sauna.
america sells the image of itself to the world by media and hollywood. ones who hasnt seen america believe in it.
those who has seen, know that "the image" is one thing, the reality is a different story.
more pretending, less real "collness". | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 12:10:55 AM | Perfect,
If that is what they do, and you can't see it coming
Then your better off alone.
If you can take it in stride, enjoy the ride. When the bus stops, get off, another will be by soon.
How many relationships have lasted for you?
None so far , right. Why expect that to change, get used to it , It is the way single life works
Canadian Women - mm mm yummy, I give them an A+, | |
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| what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/29/2005 12:20:34 AM | i am not sure abut the institution of marriage, lol.
after a year you take all my stuff.
dont like that.
lol.
we would have to get to know eachother first for a while. ;).
i couldnt stand you talking about paris hilton, brad pitt or listening to classic rock. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 12:27:53 AM | You missed my point entirely, european-man. The term vaginocentric is a play on words. I don't think it even exists in the english language. Phallocentric pertains to a male dominated society. My word suggests that "the times they are a changing". Pretty soon the notion of a phallocentric society will be extremely foreign to westerners. It may take centuries to undo Wahhabist teachings prevalent in many Middle-Eastern Islamic cultures though. There is talk of a presidential election between Condoleeza Rice and Hillary Clinton. To some, women in America sure have 'gotten upiddy and need to find their place back to the kitchen'. Perhaps this is the type of submissiveness that someone seeking a foreign bride might be looking to net. Nevermind. It requires too much explanation.
Also see the term sheocracy, coined by Michael Savage. | |
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