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 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 101
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 12:41:07 AM
now i get ya. i mentioned that i i "write with an accent" so not always get what you mean.
my problem with north american women is that they became some kind of hybrids, more man than woman.
and yes they are still woman, this cant be changed.
and there are so many great things about being a sophisticated, intelligent, delicate woman that i dont get why beeing "****y" is so appealing to north am girls. lack of sophistication? no history? not much culture? too much tv? submissivness of north american guys?
why do not preserve the attributtes of your sex?
this is what happens in europe.
women are sophisticated, educated, non submissive, BUT STILL MANAGE TO BE FEMININE.
they wear dresses!!! not sweat pants with tastless JUICY printed on their assses. yak.
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 102
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 12:45:12 AM
mostly jazz, acid jazz, corny grooves from 60's and 70's. lol
barry white, beasty boys lots of stuff.
everything that is good. lol ;)
cant take american classic rock.
ac/dc "jack" is great, though.
 CSUGuy

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 103
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 2:44:20 AM
How can you like jazz, but deny the evolution of blues into classic rock?
 geelong_guy05

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 104
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 4:24:07 AM
while i can understand where you are coming from, and in part, i do agree it is not always the case.

there isnt a 'green card' system here in aussie, and while every 'single' guy who looks on line for a partner may be inundated with replies from Asia, and Russia ect, sure some of these are clear hoaxes, like for me, im . 47 and a girl in her early 20s replies to me.... thats gotta be a con.
however, saying all women from other countries are just going to use you for a green card \ visa is not true. im sure some do want a true partner. sure they also want a way out of (XYZ) country but wouldnt you?

if they can find someone who will love them, be honest and true, and appreciate the love and devotion they will return to you, they may well be better that a western bread woman who is one that has lost family values and does not care for the family unit
 CSUGuy

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 105
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 4:43:11 AM
How naive.
 sarahb

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 106
what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/29/2005 10:57:58 AM
what's wrong with canadian women????? i don't need to marry anyone in order to get nationality.....i have a green card, canadian passport and australian passport...
 Rebecca101

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 107
what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:30:52 PM
European guy. I would like to respond to your comment,
but am not sure that I understand it.
I know that it is difficult expressing yourself in a different language.
Truly. I know from experience. So if I misinterpret your comment, I am sure you will "educate" me on what you really meant.

You wrote :
rebecca; somehow u didnt get annoyed about generalization about "foreign women", there are 200 countries besides usa and canada and classyfiyng girls from germany, norway, japan and bolivia into one cathergory of "f w" is pretty aroggant, american way.
 Rebecca101

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 108
what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:43:22 PM
I hope, European Man, you are not implying that somehow I was being an "arrogant american".
That would be offensive to Americans and to me.

Firstly: The Americans that I know are not arrogant people. They are typical people with joys and fears, just like the rest of us. I don't live in the United States, so it would be "arrogant" and presumptuous of me to make any sweeping comments about them.

Secondly: I am not American.

I didn't get annoyed by the generalization because, as several people already said,
we are all foreigners. Yes... even you....
That is an obvious fact, so it's really not something worth getting annoyed about.

I don't think anyone is implying that Canada and the US are the center of the universe.
I certainly don't think they are.
And if you have read my earlier comments, you know that I am from another country,
just like you. Big deal. I'm not very different from most people on here.
(And how's this for excitement.. Though my family is from South American, I am European background too. Just like you. Wow. Imagine that.)

Yes, certainly I have been raised somewhat differently than my friends here in Canada,
but I live in Canada now, and have for most of my life.
I am not in my home country.
I have to accept the good and bad of Canadian society, including the dating/social life. (Which, I can tell you, is very different from Brazil! That's life.
Are the men here different? Yes, sure. Silly question.
Will it make me go running back to Brazil? No, of course not.)

The issue to me is whether a person is able to adapt to their environment,
or if they are always going to blame their environment for having bad luck or a terrible life.

Be pro-active. Use some of this strong energy and see if you can meet an interesting Canadian woman on POF. I dare you to try. *smile*
Rebecca101
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 109
what about canadian woman, eh?
Posted: 6/29/2005 6:08:54 PM
it supposed to mean that putting women from 200 different nations to one sack and calling them "foreign women" is arrogant. arrogant in "american way".
"arrogant in american way" to me is considering that america is in the centre of the universe. the best cars are american, the biggest bulidings are american so on and so on.
its seems a bit absurd but i have met lots of educated people in canada who didnt have any clue about life that goes on in the other parts of the world! i am not talking indonesia
or arctics but europe!!! look at any american news on tv.
first 10 minutes on what happened in states, 5 minutes middle east, israel.. and.. and thats it.
thats arrogance to me.
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 110
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 6:18:11 PM
i dont deny anything, actually i like good blues a lot.
john lee hooker etc... "the blues brothers" is an unforgettable classic.
i just cant take it. its too "american" to me. lol. i can explain that if you want.
 Saritamiami

Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 111
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Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 6:33:02 PM

why do not preserve the attributtes of your sex?
this is what happens in europe.
women are sophisticated, educated, non submissive, BUT STILL MANAGE TO BE FEMININE.
they wear dresses!!! not sweat pants with tastless JUICY printed on their assses. yak.


Interesting! Sounds like the last time you were in Europe must've been circa 1965 or thereabouts and that you haven't been back since. Here's a wake up call! Things have changed in Europe slightly. Women wear pants.



There are so many great things about being a sophisticated, intelligent, delicate woman that i dont get why beeing "****y" is so appealing to north am girls. lack of sophistication? no history? not much culture? too much tv? submissivness of north american guys?


Okay, so a "real" woman is someone that runs the vacuum and dusts the furniture while wearing a big poodle skirt, a frilly white blouse, pearls and a curly "bob" on her hair? Sounds like an episode of Father Knows Best in that early black and white that looked more gray than anything.
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 112
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 6:47:55 PM
saritami, what are you writing about?
 Aurora2308

Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 113
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 7:25:32 PM
European Man...you're amazing. You know what us arrogant Americans call men like you? Male chauvinist pigs! And guess what? We don't want you either so perhaps "you" should quit being so arrogant...lol But I digress.

look at any american news on tv.
first 10 minutes on what happened in states, 5 minutes middle east, israel.. and.. and thats it.
thats arrogance to me.


I had to reply to your comment above. Yes, that is exactly how it happens on American news stations, especially the local ones. Get it? It's LOCAL news!!! I don't always give a damn about what is going on in China, but if someone got murdered down the street, I want to know about it. I don't care what the weather is like in Europe, I only care what it is like here because I live here! lol Does that make me arrogant? lol Do I care about your footy games in Europe? Nooooo!!! I care about my beloved Broncos. Do you? If you don't, by your own definition, you are arrogant. And please don't tell me you don't have "local" news programs where you come from.

Newsflash...if we want to watch world news, there are a multitude of channels that carry nothing but world news.

I know, I know...big mouth American woman. I know how you treat your women in Europe, I worked in a global company for years and know how they are treated in the workplace for sure. Granted it's better than some other countries, but European women don't have near the clout we have here in America. Does that threaten you? It sounds like it. Do I have to flaunt it? No. That's an individual choice. We're not all alike.

 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 114
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 9:01:39 PM
israel, middle east local news? i am talking about world news.
tell your president to focus on local news. lol.
i feel threatened?
not really, i am just dissapointed.
thats so common that you in north america call any man that has his own opinion "showinistic pig". lol.
i still prefer women that are feminine, strong and sophisticated instead of those who think they are strong and assertive but it all ends on being ****y.
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 115
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 11:32:24 PM
you dont want me?
i beg you pardon?
i dont want you, aurora.
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 116
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/29/2005 11:33:33 PM
"your pardon"
 Aurora2308

Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 117
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 7:21:25 AM
Well you must be an awfully lonely guy there European Man. You don't like American women, you don't like Canadian women. Seems to me like you reside on the wrong side of the world.

As for you wanting me, I don't believe that was ever a question.

As for the news...how about pulling your head out of your butt and watching some American news before you make stupid comments like that? lol...we have no news about the middle east huh? I see it everyday and everynight on the local news, you know...that 5 minute part where we actually see what's going on in the rest of the world and then...oh my, there is a whole hour of world news that follows, every night on the major stations. Oh, I guess they do talk about America a lot on those programs huh? How dare us Americans broadcast news about America on American stations. How arrogant is that?!!!! You know there are 50 states here right? Last time I checked, we were part of the world. How about the other world news programs that are broadcast 24/7. Maybe you need to learn how to change the channel?


I'm not ****y...I just have the right to express my feelings. If you happen to bring the ****iness out in me, like you do, yeah, I'm proud of the fact that I can stand up to you and not take your crap. Obviously you want a "yes" woman. So go back to Europe if that's where you find women like that.

P.S. Some of the most beautiful women I've seen on this site are Canadian and I can't help but feeling that you are somehow threatened by American and Canadian women.

Meekrob and others, I am very sorry about what happened to you. When I started reading this thread it was my intent to reply to you, but this Euromale got on my nerves so bad that I got distracted.
 Meekrob

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 118
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 5:21:18 PM
me is meekrob. I never meant to sound condescending by referring to Third-World women as "foreign women." The phrase FW is not meant to be negative, just to refer to Thirld-World women and it is a FACT that Asians want to get into USA, Australia, and Canada. Not prejudice, just a statement of fact. Some of these women will take advantage of a guy to get out of their country. Foreigners have been going abroad for hundreds of years TO MAKE $$$$$. I can't say I really blame them.
 Meekrob

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 119
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 5:38:37 PM
Okay, some posters are a smarty-pant and say I was so dumb and THEY would have been so smart. Sorry I was such a chump. I was living long term in asia and meet a high-ranking women in the society. Don't say it would have not happened to you. She would have wrapped you around her little finger. She was the beautiful, sweetheart, kind, gentle, intelligent girl in the world. Sorry, I didn't see it coming. She would have won the Academy Award in Hollywood for great acting. I still like her and think she's the greatest. But after swindling me, she did get a passport, went abroad and got married within a short time, leaving me still reeling. Come, on, fellows, if that perfect someone walked into the room, you would fall hard just like I did. These girls are charming and irrestible B E W A R E.
 CSUGuy

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 120
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 5:41:24 PM

She would have wrapped you around her little finger.


No woman is capable of wrapping me around her little finger. I think it is the other way around with me.
 Meekrob

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 121
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 5:50:45 PM
CSU, apparently you've got an attitude. Hard to carry on an intelligent conversation with.
 CSUGuy

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 122
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 6:01:20 PM
No it really isn't. You suggested that this woman was so great that she would have any guy wrapped around her little finger. I suggest to you that I would definitely have embibed while overseas, without floating away into Lala land. I would have had a relationship, appreciated her beauty, and when it came down to moving back stateside, I would have said my goodbyes. Some guys are capable of keeping it together, even amongst the most beautiful women. Sounds like she was something allright. You marvelled at her beauty. You were sucked in like she was a singing Siren. But now the joke is on you. Your fate was no better than Ulysses's men. You are still rolling around in your own self pity, like a swine rolls in his own crap.
 euro_dude

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 123
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 6/30/2005 10:27:51 PM
a woman has to know that you can always walk away from her.
then everything is ok.
if she knows that you are too weak to do it, you are in deep s....t.
especially with american girls.
 Rebecca101

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 124
Beware of Foreign Women
Posted: 7/2/2005 9:24:10 AM
Same goes for men...

No one, male or female, wants an "insecure cling-on",
someone who "needs" to be with them.

We all want someone who is confident enough to be on their own,
but who "chooses" to be with us.

Nothing new in that concept.
 Saritamiami

Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 125
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Posted: 7/2/2005 10:28:28 AM

a woman has to know that you can always walk away from her.
then everything is ok.
if she knows that you are too weak to do it, you are in deep s....t.
especially with american girls.


A man who thinks that way ^^^^ is best alone.
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