Any human being knows when they are being a selfish jerk. nothing subtle about meanness. If a guy isnt pulling his weight, how could he not know it? Did he come out from under a rock?

Men typically benefit from marriage more than women, so it's not surprising that women will end an unhappy marriage more quickly.

Men have more to lose? More likely because men cant keep it in their pants, and cant control their temper.

In a place like N. America women think that they would find somebody else in a blink of an eye...which I don't know if its true 100%. They may get sex quicker for sure...at least some of the women, not all of course and....most important..."not forever".

Also women are not for sharing stuff, they are for getting stuff. So if you loose the sight of the relationship and not providing the "whatever its necessary"...she will file for divorce....Haha hurray...I was 6-7 years old in my grandmother's village and I knew...I ****ing knew I would never get married. At that age I had that BS feeling about marriage. And was not coming from my family because nobody was divorced in my close family .... but the whole BS going with it made me "puke inside".

On the other hand the "enthusiastic" american male is patient when is young. Later in many cases would start the teeth kicking of the marriage...or the so called "insuficiency of the marriage"....Men tend to be more conciliating if they went that far and got married....and they don't want to go over it again and they may try and hold in some instances.....for the only and olny left semi-benefit --> Sex. Maybe.

Simple.

1. Most marriages last about 5 years;
2. Most of these short marriages involve partners with 'unequal assets';
3. Men historically, the husband, have more assets than the wife, they are older, and are worth suiing;
4. Legal aid lawyers are the first resort to wifes who have no income;
5. If the husband has any significant assets, the legal aid society funds the purchase of a 'lier/lawyer' to take and dispossess as much of the assets of the husband as possible so that she can put into her pocket at least 70% of the net take (taking into consideration child support, division of family assets and spousal support);
6. When there are young children involved, the take is even greater; and,


The consequence is that women make the final move because they want a significant part of the assets, and of course the man, has no time and funds to find a way to defeat that.

Men who work do not qualify for legal aid, and separating, spouses who, primarily women, do qualify for legal aid. In the end of this analysis there is something very disturbing and sick.

If the husband does not work and pay child support, he goes to jail, and loses his ability to support himself, and if he cannot honestly support himself, the mother of the kids cannot support the children.

The traditional family law in NA is based on rich men supporting wifes with many children, and there is no reflection of the reality, that both parents are needed to support a family. Men, fathers, husbands, are only necessary as 'good providers'

My advise to you is do not get married to a woman or man who is much poorer than you.......

Had to retreive most of my assets in the BC Court of Appeal