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 Author Thread: What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, "I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?"
 CREngineer

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/26/2009 9:59:28 AM
I woul dhave enough class to leave but would have to reminder her of the fact that she had to pay for those dates. It's known as an Escort Service
 mischief3178

Joined: 1/4/2009
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/26/2009 1:14:12 PM
lol thats messed up....but if someone said that to me? i'd say yeah me too lol.
 Baked.Sushi

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/26/2009 4:51:33 PM
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I think I'd be quite shocked at first. What a terribly nasty thing to say to someone! Then I might say something like "What - the pretty girls don't have a sense of smell??"
Just before I got up and walked out without looking back.

 palmer f

Joined: 4/3/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/28/2009 1:19:44 PM
Well My friend knows the waitress that waited on us that day so I asked him did she see or over hear anything worthwhile. She told him that she went to their table. The guy and the woman ordered off the menu. She brought out the food they order and the began eating.

Then she said that in the middle of eating, it looked like the got into a heat arguement and that's when she said the woman through her drink in the guy's face and walked out.
He probably insulted her again or something who knows. The waitress said she asked him was he ok and he tod her that his date just had issues and that he was glad that he found out about them then.
 two gypsy

Joined: 10/6/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/28/2009 4:47:34 PM
how would I reply? "Yeah me too!!"
 brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/28/2009 5:04:05 PM
Id say 'prove it'.

What a wanker.
 carolann0308

Joined: 12/9/2006
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 1/28/2009 5:17:46 PM
If that is not a 'walk out' situation I don't know what would be. Looks are so subjective and a matter of taste. How very rude.
 justmeandmax

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Posted: 1/30/2009 5:06:31 AM

He told her that he was that way because he was use to dating women "prettier" than her.


"Well, that's OK because I usually date people smarter and more confident than you, but I thought I'd throw you a bone."
 ChubbyPants

Joined: 12/4/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/2/2009 5:04:29 PM
I dated someone that said she doesn't care about looks.. I was bummed..
 x-JD-x

Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 85
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/2/2009 6:34:35 PM
I would tell them to f*** off, and find someone better looking.

Seriously, that's horrible, arrogant...just no.

 Ted Michael

Joined: 6/28/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/3/2009 6:25:30 AM
I suppose that was always true in my case. I would not feel bad were someone to say this.
 Sweet J-me Baby

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Posted: 2/3/2009 8:40:05 AM
I can't say anybody I have dated has said this to me, but if it ever did, I think I would borrow this line from justmeandmax:
"Well, that's OK because I usually date people smarter and more confident than you, but I thought I'd throw you a bone."


Or I would suggest that maybe he would like my ass better than my face. Then, I would get up and he could watch my ass as I walked out the door. I would be up and gone before the dinner arrived.

I have been told by a date that he didn't usually date 'my type of woman', which I suppose could be taken in a positive or negative way. And, since I wear my rose-colored glasses on occasion, I chose to take it in a positive way and asked him what 'type' of woman he is used to dating.
 abelian

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Posted: 2/3/2009 1:21:15 PM
Since I know I'm rather average looking, I might very well see her point, even though that is a rather classless way to put it. Just be realistic about yourself. Then, no one will tell you something you don't lnow and your ego won't depend not spoiling a delusion. The guy in your story was definitely not someone the girl should get worked up over.
 raceme

Joined: 12/20/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/3/2009 1:46:48 PM
I think it would make me laugh. I'd try to say something like, "So, I'm like time-out for you, eh?"
This happening would be nothing but for the best! I would be so happy he said it out loud!
 Eleutherius

Joined: 12/2/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/3/2009 8:08:08 PM
Wow, the class of the mass, man swap spots in her position i would probably have stood up and left. No need to waste breath on a nerd like that....
 *Sassy Redhead*

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/3/2009 9:18:47 PM

So people, how would you react if your date said that they were use to dating someone better loking to you?


Well, hopefully I drove separate to the date because I would have to tell him that I hope the next girl who is his date meets his "prettiness" criteria and then walk out....date done. Damn...that is just rude and hurtful.
 WanderingRonin

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/3/2009 10:00:48 PM
I think the answer would be obvious...
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 2/3/2009 11:05:33 PM
Demand a photo of her, along with her name and address and have the problem *taken care of.*
 CynthiaM

Joined: 8/29/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:53:27 PM
I had something very similar happen and my response was like rune suggested - although I was very upset I was also curious to understand more about what kind of person could actually say something like that. Maybe I should have come back with a snappy retort but I didn't. Later I cried a lot.

But karma happens. A few hours later I received the first email from my fishie who has become the love of my life. And that guy ... well, who cares??
 miss_contemplative

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 5/31/2009 9:10:56 PM
Ouch! Could you imagine? That would be brutal.

But hey, I know I'm not the most attractive person on the planet (thank god) so I guess it would be a reality that I'd have to face and take it on the chin.

HOWEVER, I wouldn't continue dating them. What kind of a moron actually says that? It's just meant to tear you down, not build you up.

Pffft...I'd say bubye.
 jadegreen

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 5/31/2009 9:35:36 PM
Maybe he was trying to end the date quickly on purpose....you never know...we don't even know if it was a true statement...

Also interesting that he told the waitress that "she had issues", but he left out the part that he said something incredibly rude....such typical human nature for him not to confess his rudeness...tsk tsk tsk
 EvilLolli

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Posted: 5/31/2009 9:52:37 PM
I would have the same response to that statement as I had to one I heard recently apllied to me, to the curb you go mister. Any person(male or female) that puts up w/ any statement along these lines has serious self esteem issues.

"I am used to dating better looking people" is along the lines of "I had to date several other people to appreciate you". Either way, even if the sentiment is true, keep it to yourself. There are times when total honest is just more brutal than neccessary.

I used to date guys based on their looks, but I wouldn't rub it in any ones face. That's just so immature and class-less. I would hope after a certain age the tact button would become active.
 *Sassy Redhead*

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Posted: 5/31/2009 10:01:28 PM
Here is another thought: I would say thank you for your opinion. Have a nice evening and lose my number and off I would go. I would rather be alone then with someone as shallow as that. If dude was so use to dating "others prettier then me" well then he should have asked one of them out. Stupid little boys!
 Stray__Cat

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 5/31/2009 11:07:36 PM
I'd say:
Heck ya, you should date him!
cus if he's better lookin then me....
he must be pretty damn good looking!
:-P
 letson

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Posted: 6/1/2009 7:58:33 AM
I think I would say : "me too , but I thought I'd broaden my scope alittle " !
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