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 Author Thread: What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, "I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?"
 astalavistababy12

Joined: 4/28/2009
Msg: 126
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:11:37 PM
i would say " you know what i just lowered my standards and that is why iam seeing you". this would totally mess there mind
 Oakland Honey

Joined: 6/4/2009
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:36:19 PM
I would say "and I am used to dating real men with manners, a quality you certainly do not possess!"

That is the edited version of what I would say. Cause you know a sistah would be forced to go smooth OFF on a rude fool like that and tell him about himself!
 lightningwatcher2

Joined: 6/6/2009
Msg: 128
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/13/2009 11:03:20 PM
I would not care. Some people are direct, others just don't call you back. I'd never say anything like that though. I wonder if he was trying to barter some kind of deal, like he has sex with her only if she pays for the meal. Or maybe he read some dumb book that told him to say that.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 129
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/14/2009 10:09:41 AM
I would say "then why didn't it work out then, hmmmm? Maybe you should go back to dating them!" and then say "I don't see the point in continuing here", get a doggy bag and leave.
 Whole 9 Yards

Joined: 6/6/2006
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/14/2009 10:21:51 AM
It sounds as though this tool had more issues than sports illustrated.

He should've never asked for or accepted a date with that woman.
 She_Biscuit

Joined: 6/4/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/14/2009 10:54:09 AM
Be glad he showed his true rude, inconsiderate, shallow, no mannered self colors so soon. Good riddens, I would say.
 LuvjenNJ

Joined: 6/8/2009
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:15:22 PM
I think I'd go Scarlet O'Hara on him and splash my drink in his face and make an extremely dramatic exit.
 Zardoz451

Joined: 3/28/2009
Msg: 133
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/14/2009 4:48:08 PM
Cretin: "I'm used to dating someone better looking than you."
Me: "Oh really? Me too!"

Cretin: "I'm used to dating someone better looking than you."
Me: "Your mother must be VERY attractive then."
 zephyrmoon

Joined: 5/30/2009
Msg: 134
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/14/2009 4:56:04 PM

So people, how would you react if your date said that they were use to dating someone better loking to you?

Unbelievable! I think I’d like to go with one of these two replies:

I guess one could say "Wow, I was just thinking the same thing about you but I didn't want to be a jerk by saying it out loud."

Or

I understand completely. I'm used to dating someone smarter than you." Then I'd kindly ask, "what became of that better looking someone? She decide prostitution was a step UP? "

If only I could be that quick on the uptake!

Regardless of what I’d say, the date would end very quickly. After all, I wouldn’t want to keep the poor guy form his better-looking prospects any longer than I had to.

Guys, honestly. Monitor yourselves!

Edit: Just read Zardoz's quip about "your mother." OMG!!
 Dceeeee

Joined: 8/7/2006
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Posted: 6/14/2009 6:10:51 PM
I would have a hard tme being rude, even if they were rude first. It's just not me. BUT...he would never get another date, so hopefully he wasn't planning on it.

This is a classic sign of a potential abuser. The first step is to lower your self-esteem. BTDT...never again!

~DC~
 RAINECHECK

Joined: 4/27/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 8:53:40 PM
oh yeah , well let me have a drink maybe you'll start to appear better looking to me
 oceanpearl202

Joined: 9/21/2005
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:05:31 PM
damn.. that's just plain heartless... the guy sounds like a real hero.. if i were the girl, i would have just left.. horrible horrible! he sounds all personality.. god. haha
 drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:32:32 PM
I would probably start laughing, after the initial shock. Then tell him, gosh that is so funny. I was thinking the same thing about you.
 Ted Michael

Joined: 6/28/2008
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/19/2009 4:15:23 AM
"Would"? I am not ugly but I know that I am not attractive and never was. Just the way life is. But, yes, I have been put down on dates.
 anjelic

Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 140
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/19/2009 4:38:12 AM
Gee...so am I?
Get the check will ya? Be right back.....................
 ny_lady_13601

Joined: 10/25/2006
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/21/2009 4:03:08 PM
If you stop and think about it, this is just a way of mentally abusing you first thing, as if you should be grateful this person is even bothering with you. Staying with someone who says things like this, you can count on hearing other degrading comments thrown in your face every chance they get. Mental abuse is just the start of worse things to come... GET AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
 cheerilystrawberry

Joined: 4/15/2009
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/21/2009 5:47:35 PM
After a moment of stunned silence, I'd get up and leave - not even bothering to dignify his remark with an answer.

And I thought I have been out with a few turkeys!
 SueCat51

Joined: 8/11/2007
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/21/2009 5:56:48 PM
I'd tell the guy not to let the door slam his ass when I kick him to the curb side. I'd get out and walk out on him, right then and there. That's low blow, period, end of story.
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 144
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/21/2009 6:04:05 PM
I would walk out.
I would wish I would have....
slapped his face
or
said "I was just thinking the same thing"

But being the kind of person I am I would just get up and walk out
 Terrence313

Joined: 10/16/2008
Msg: 145
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/21/2009 7:58:34 PM
I dislike shallow people ... if a girl said that to me the odds of her recovering from it would be slim at best. I for one have dated a range of girls. Including one who was an amateur model which after a while though seemed mature at first began to prove the contrary. If I make any comparisons to someone with people I've dated in the past ( which is unlikely ) it'd be that I was relieved they weren't as petty and immature as certain others ( certain immature attitudes are annoyingly common ).

I definitely wouldn't be too likely to go any further with the person. I don't judge their appearance, they shouldn't mine. Attitudes like that show that they have a fair bit of growing up to do.
 Internet-Guy

Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 146
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/28/2009 12:11:53 PM
I'd probably ask why they went on the date with me then?
 SandraB56

Joined: 10/16/2008
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Posted: 6/28/2009 2:32:57 PM
That's funny I got told once Gee you are better looking in person than your photo. I was speechless. The date did not go well.
If a guy said that to me, I'd say well nice meeting such a jerk as you, don't call me and I won't call you. Ta ra.
 superb_life

Joined: 6/16/2009
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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:02:18 PM
I'm reminded of a greeting card I once sent a friend about dating. The punch line was: I shaved my legs for this?
 TedJMill

Joined: 7/6/2005
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Posted: 6/28/2009 8:06:04 PM
I'd take it as a serious evaluation of me, rather than as being rude. I might say something like "But am I smarter than them?"
 Mystie_Dragonfly

Joined: 4/8/2009
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Posted: 6/28/2009 9:55:45 PM
Hi, I didn't really read the whole thread, just thought I'd answer the OP.


What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?



He told her that he was that way because he was use to dating women "prettier" than her.


... several men HAVE said this to me through out my life. From High School to this day. Either on the first or second date. USUALLY it is proceeded or followed by "I have no idea why I am so attracted to you". They go on to tell me that there is "something about me" that is not my looks that has them interested in me.


The woman looked stunned and didn't say anything else.... The guys apologized, but I think the damage was done.


Yeap... that is the moment that I am thinking to myself that I'd rather be home, eating a meal I made myself, watching Ghost Adventures and feeling really stupid for venturing out on yet another pointless date.
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