| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 2/18/2009 3:51:14 PM | Sweetie, don't take his no kissing you so personal. He has a BIG problem.....
I bet this guy is a Cancer by sign....and" He's Just Not That Into You" ....run....fast! | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 2/18/2009 4:08:51 PM | Well if someone from work should ever ask if he's kissed her she can honestly say "no".
She's convenient. He know's it and will do the minimal amount to get what he wants. I'm sure he care's for her in a detached way. If he hasn't kissed her by now it's not going to happen. She needs to move on. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/4/2009 8:24:34 PM | | Besides the fact that he's a wuss (maybe for him, as the male equivalent of Julia Roberts' character in Pretty Woman, kissing is "too personal"), and he's only thinking with his willy, he's really missing out--kissing is EXTREMELY EROTIC!!! | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/4/2009 9:15:29 PM | | Goodness! What is wrong with this picture??! Why would any woman want anything to do with a man who never kisses her, pushes her away, won't sleep in the same bed???!!! Tell "your friend" this guy is just not that into her, get some self esteem and stop wasting the pretty. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/4/2009 9:51:48 PM | thats pretty strange -kissing usually ignites the spark that makes her decide if your worthy of going any further. -if you cant woo her with a warm kiss, how did this ever end up making it to the bedroom? | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/4/2009 11:32:07 PM | | This is like putting the kart before the horse......I always thought kissing came before penetration...tell your friend to do what she wishes,but if this remains a problem to not give it up so easy the next time she meets someone. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/5/2009 8:19:18 AM | I have a FWB who is really funny about his mouth. He won't kiss. He also won't share a spoon, eat ice cream from a cone, and flosses his teeth more than anyone I've ever met. It has never occurred to me to feel like he should be paying me for the benefits because he won't kiss me. He has other tools in the box.
I've never seen him kiss his kids except for their tops of their heads either. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/17/2009 11:51:11 PM | One of my pal's dated a guy who couldn't kiss. It had to do with something his step dad did to him while he was a kid. He was very affectionate to her . Just couldn't kiss.
Personally, this I couldn't live with. No sex? Fine. No oral? Great. No sleeping next to me? Super. But no kissing? No. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/18/2009 4:12:17 PM | I think the whole board missed a part of this post too:
she says everytime she has tried he pushes her away, but he has no problem getting intimate with her..she also commented that afterwards he'll stay the night but won't sleep in the same bed with her...
It's one of 2 DEFINATE things .. no question
It's either:
a) Psychological (he has intimacy issues and sex is there so he takes it)
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b) She's a f**k toy to him.
He won't sleep in the same bed with her if he spends the night... AT HER PLACE????? Last time I checked- but if I put my penis in somebody.. at their home, and I'm staying there... I'm entitled to use 2 things of theres now... their bed (for sleeping / sex) and their shower lol.
I can't explain her deep feelings .. but they're deep enough that he can treat her like dog crap and she says 'I'll prepare the couch for you honey .. then we can have some unpassionate sex ...'
Sorry to be blunt/cold.. but the idea of a guy who can't show intimacy to somebody he's having sex with kind of sickens me.
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/21/2009 5:58:45 PM | | Some guys actually get more of a connection to a person when they kiss them. He's trying to stick to the just sex thing and not make it a relationship. If they're not together as boyfriend/girlfriend then that's probably the game he is playing. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/21/2009 6:08:40 PM | | I've only been kissed 5 times or so by S.O's. When I go out with a woman, I make damn sure I brush my teeth throughly like 5 times, gargle and use breath mints that teeth whiten. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/30/2009 9:54:08 AM | | Okay... so after reading your post heres what i think... I always say " You cant help who you fall inlove with" This goes for everyone! Even when you KNOW its the wrong person! Theres still something about that person you can get enough of.... You telling her she should forget that guy, just move on, you shouldnt see him isnt helping her. For some sick reason thats making her want to see him more.... She is going to have learn on her own that he is wrong for her. Hopefully that helped! | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/30/2009 11:40:09 AM | | well maybe there is oral sex involved cause i do the same thing too i can't never kiss a girl if she has sucked****or went down on me sorry thats just nasty llol | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/30/2009 11:57:57 AM |
i can't never kiss a girl if she has sucked****or went down on me sorry thats just nasty
then you should want the girl you're with to go down on you. If she refuses, accept it. Because you already think your own part is nasty. So why would you expect a girl to not think the same thing? | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/30/2009 5:59:42 PM | Good lord.
This is even a valid question? Is your friend a hooker? Usually John's don't kiss hookers....
Is she the maid? (Sleeps in another room to spend the night, but doesn't sleep with her)...
Why are you asking? So you can show all our posts to your friend and try to get her to come to her senses?
I'm thinking we should charge for this free psychological counseling........
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 3/30/2009 6:48:17 PM |
he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
OMG, I can't believe the variety of responses here....
Has she ever come right out and just asked him?
It's Duh~Obvious he's simply fuking her for the sake of a fuk...
And she's fully allowing it, developing "Deep feelings" for the guy ?
She'll end up very hurt by not accepting it is, what it is.
I did this a few times, I had a F.B. it was easy to get into the act cause we flirted and he was super sexy, I didn't care that we didnt kiss.
I did however say something in the beginning, his response was...
"I'm not gonna kiss you.. cause people fall in love when they kiss..."
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