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 Sublime_One

Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 151
he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/25/2009 11:36:12 AM
Since kissing is more intimate than sex. Sounds like all he wants is sex and nothing else. She may want to cut him off. What he's doing is very selfish, insulting and degrading.
 ~rain~

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 152
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/25/2009 11:44:24 AM
how could she even get to the point of wanting to sleep with him if he doesnt kiss her??
 Pedro 1976

Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 153
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:48:39 AM
he does not care abour her, what he wants is just sex.

kissing during sex is intimate so any man who refuses to kiss a woman during sex is because he does not like her nor does he care about her. even he may see her as nasty.

it is just a matter of sex, of being horny, that is all!

i may kiss any woman that i meet even if we just get on well, but i won't kiss a woman during sex unless i really like her and desire her.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 154
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 7:29:26 AM
OP: Her boy has SERIOUS intimacy issues. Doesn't he realize kissing is a glorious, extremely pleasure-filled part of sex? Wow, they skipped all the fun of foreplay and just got right to plowing the field.

I think he derives all his pleasure from his penis, and this is sad--he's missing out. The lips are extremely sensual. But I'm a lesbian in a man's body (so what do I know), and I enjoy kissing more than the more "manly" duties of pummeling (although that's fun too).

Yeah, I'll go along with reply 1976. He just ain't that into her. It's all about getting his rocks off.
 adventurousme57

Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 155
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 8:42:34 AM

Maybe someone told him he's a lousy kisser.


Maybe SHE'S a lousy kisser. I'd dump him in a heartbeat. Kissing is a soul-connection (when it's good, that is) for me and without it, I got nothing!
 Syr Sean

Joined: 12/31/2007
Msg: 156
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 11:26:05 AM
Here is a crazy scenario that has a twist to it and your the second one in my life time that this has happened to that I heard of. The fact that he can put something in you but not his tongue can have a few meanings but you being someone of complete importance isn't one. You are significant to him only as a release of testosterone. I would look into this mans background and find out if he is on the down low. Many men can have sex with a woman but kissing them is a turn off because they really want to be with a man but can find no problem with a temporary depository! Think about it...
The other side of the coin is there are some people who have a problem with saliva and cant' kiss without being turned off. That's just another view if you feel like you need one but the sleep in the other room thing...I say he gets the boot in the toot or she better have a real talk session before she jumps this sinking ship!
 Tenacious Forumite

Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 157
he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 2:41:48 PM


Does she eat a lot of garlic?

LOL!

This is just a weird story OP. I love kissing and not having that be part of the overall package is simply inconceivable. Walking into another room to sleep is even weirder. Really...why bother??!!!

 Aslanemperor

Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 158
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 4:42:24 PM
This is common. To be honest, she's deceiving herself. I read in a book once, "Wizards First Rule," a saying: "People are stupid. They will believe anything that they either want to be true, or are afraid is true." This is a classic situation. The sex is good, so the girl wants to believe there is more, even though it's obvious that to this guys point of view, she's just a booty call. I know it's harsh, but it's true. She can say he can get intimate all she wants, but if he can't bring himself to sleep in her bed and he won't kiss her, then she's never truly been intimate, no matter what he's said to her.
 *MisKa*

Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 159
he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 7/26/2009 5:16:50 PM
Good gawd, she is his fvck buddy, and she doesn't get it. Talk about blind.
 veteran heart

Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 160
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 8/11/2009 12:35:14 PM
I watched a CSI show once. Where whores don't mouth kiss because it is too intimate. Maybe he just wants a whore and not a relationship. This is his way of keeping his distance
 amyala

Joined: 8/22/2009
Msg: 161
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 9/2/2009 10:56:20 PM
I have never even heard anyone even mention anything so rediculious before, and to me it's quite clear as to why...kissing is way more intimate...kissing is a must have for me, actually a bad kisser is a dealbreaker for me, so without any kissing there certainly won't be any other forms of intimacy happening ever.....
 malibujay

Joined: 5/18/2009
Msg: 162
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he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 9/3/2009 6:34:31 AM
Does her breath stink?

If she had weird teeth, I wouldn't kiss her.

Maybe he doesn't sleep with her because she snores, or steals the blankets.
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