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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 7:42:45 AM | As long as you harbor hate in your heart you will never find happiness. Let it go,, you want to get even for him cheating on you? Move on, get over it! Your pissed because he hurt your pride,naturally. Have you ever heard of KARMA? What goes around,comes around. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 8:46:10 AM | I'm saving my revenge for the right time. I found out my BF was cheating when he had a major heart attack and both of us girls showed up at the hospital. Guess we know what caused the heart attack, huh? ...lol...Does anyone understand what major heart meds do to a man's libido? It's been a month and ITS not working very well-so I've heard (unless he uses the forbidden Viagra) which is what got him in trouble the first time! ...lol.....I'm saving this perfect picture of his p...s ---when it was still standing tall and I'm going to email it to him so he has it for prosperity. Its not like its ever going to look like that again (at least not without help)! Since it was his 'tool' that got him into trouble to begin with, I think it's a fitting revenge. But maybe that's just a girl's opinion.
But who knows? I may change my mind because I do believe it brings me to his level and I think much more of myself than that. Or should I say-I'm getting there? | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 8:57:40 AM | be successful, be happy.. those are the best ways to "get even".. it shows him you don't need him, for you to have a full life, that you are your own person who won't be shattered by his foibles or reduced to his level of behaviour, that you are a whole woman even when by yourself..
ignoring him and moving on is the best thing you can do, imo | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:14:28 AM | Don't stoop to his level...Two wrongs don't=right. Dump his arss, play Carrie Underwoods song "Before He Cheats" and be happy in finding a man who will be faithful. Living happy is always the best revenge. Good luck to you OP | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 10:06:39 AM | | don't even try ... waste of energy, and it will just make you feel worse in the long run! have a little grieve/cry, whatever, get it out of your system, then move on and enjoy your life. Easier said then done, of course, but try as otherwise you suddenly find you've been alone for years by accident!! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 10:35:16 AM | are you ****in' kiddin' me?
first off, if they are your ex, move on, if your still worrying, they are not your ex
and the best revenge, is to just go on being happy
you being a woman know that every woman get totally jeolous of any other woman being happy, so be happy and enjoy the knowledge that whoever he is with is jeolous of you
everybody comes to the answerman | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 11:13:29 AM | revenge garners bad karma.
The fact that you're hanging onto this not only brings bad karma your way, but also makes you sound horribly petty and unattractive. Just an FYI. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:12:11 PM | | I didn't know that any of them were ok to take with a stent in place. Of course, if he can't stop drinking & smoking, its a pretty moot point. He was buying the meds from the internet because he hadn't seen a doc in years. I'm certainly not going to tell him its ok to take them when he never mentioned the use to the docs to begin with. Thanks for the the input. | |
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Beedo
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Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 385 | |
| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:47:30 PM | Just start thinking.. how he's not even worth thinking about anymore,
and think of other things and other people, since even if you got some revenge..
he's still gonna be who he is either way,
and who he is .. aint worth your thought energy.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/3/2007 4:14:18 AM | | Best way to get even with your ex? I know. my ex hurt me. So I am going to cause him pain because he hurt me. Thats productive. Now we're at the two wrongs make a right theory? Sad... so sad. | |
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/3/2007 4:58:26 AM |
best ways to get even with your ex
Sounds like you're the inveterate scorekeeper, so they know you well enough to know you're keeping score. Throw the scorebook away. Change yourself completely. And let them live in shock and awe wondering if they're ever going to get smacked and resenting you for having a great life.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:39:23 PM | | Go to the gym, get fit,get hot.... See a shrink get well and be the best a person could be. The only one you will hurt in the long run is your self worth. Be Sane | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:40:25 PM | No wonder he cheated, ur evil! Move on! Stop the petty-ness. I cannot believe you seriously want us to give you tips ON HOW TO HURT SOMEONE!
IS THAT NOT WHY YOU WANT TO GET EVEN, BECAUSE YOU WERE HURT?
SO, YOUR DECISION IS TO SPREAD THE PAIN AROUND SOME MORE?
WHEN DOES IT STOP?
It stops with MATURE, loving people who realize things don't always go as you planned, but it is noones place to punish anyone.
The most fruitful people in life, are those who can let go of the past, and have the strength to create a new future in which all things are possible. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 12/4/2007 6:56:31 AM | How stupid can a thread get?
You both got away without totally destroying one another...Leave things be and move on... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/11/2008 5:20:07 PM | | oh my goodness, you actually want to get back at him for being a cheater, my advice is let him go. 2 wrongs dont make it right, i think you will feel better by just not doing anything, if he cared he will beg you back but dont take him back. that may teach him or not, but atleast you didnt go down to his level. good luck | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 5:59:17 PM | | To hate another hurts you not him. To plot to do something bad to him hurts you and is an indication you are an immature unhappy person. I suggest you take a good hard look at who you are and why you are on this road to unhappiness, then have the courage to change and accept others with their faults so you can accept the faults within yourself. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:02:27 PM | | You are also an unhappy miserable person. Those that cherish themselves and plot to hurt and destroy another are on the road to unhappiness and misery. Learn to love and accept others and your life will become happy. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:04:40 PM | Getting revenge is a waste of energy. Besides revenge only works when the other person dislikes what you deal.
By seeking revenge, your only showing him/her you still care and that'll trump any kind of revenge.
Your best bet is to move on with life and let time do it's thing. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:08:07 PM | As some of the folks on here have said - living well is the BEST revenge!
I have a friend who was married for 20 years in an abusive relationship. She left him and did not remarry in the end - as she told me and I'll quote her: "nobody has crossed my path". Well, she has 2 WONDERFUL children from this marriage and she is very, very close to them. She has a good income, tons of friends, is a substitute school teacher, is very active in her church, and enjoys very good health.
Her ex husband is on his third marriage, miserable, and has tons of health problems, while she virtually has NO health problems. She is 70 years old and is as spry as a 20 year old. She could easily pass for 50, while her ex looks like he is 90.
Soooo here she is, having a good life while he is MISERABLE!!!! Here is the funny part: When she left him, he went on and on about how she'll never make it on her own. She just kept working, finished raising her children and is enjoying the good benefits. It just goes to show you reap what you sow and that you can make lemonade when life hands you lemons........... You go, girl!!!!! I am very, very proud of her and honored to be her friend. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:09:48 PM |
please help me here... I really want to get even with my ex for cheating on me... after 3 years... I don't want to get caught, but I want to make him suffer... and nothing (too) illegal.
It's such a waste of energy to 'get even'....he's not worth the effort or energy...as the saying goes 'what goes around, comes around'....go live your life and don't look back to what he's done.....knowing that you're happy and living your life will be the 'sweetest revenge' on him!
Good luck! | |
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