| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:12:26 PM | Don't get your hands dirty and waste negative energy on this pursuit. It's really not worth it.
Karma in its good time will take care of things and he'll get exactly what he deserves or even more. Then you can be the last one laughing. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:14:46 PM | | Live good and have faith in the circle of life. What comes around goes around...FULL CIRCLE...just too damn bad we didn't get to watch...lol | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:20:03 PM | There is a movie starring Rosanne Barr called "She Devil" you might have fun watching. It's the perfect revenge movie. But revenge works better in the movies than in real life!! Remember that before you do something you might later regret!!
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:20:15 PM | Last 3 replies all women and all advocating the non-revenge strategy...
Where are the local women with attitudes like that?  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:25:45 PM | Wow, trying to get even with your ex will not get you dates on POF. Way to scare 'em all off.
BUT---The best way to "get even" is to do all you can to improve yourself. Make him regret he ever lost you. Most important, though, is that you forgive and move forward with your new cautious, sexy self! | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:42:26 PM | | The best revenge is to be happy. Move on and let him see He isn't important enough to waste you energy on. Let it go and realize life is too short to waste one more minute on something that's in the past, and probably never was what you believed it to be in the first place. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 9:55:16 PM | | Was it really that bad that you have to seek some type of revenge on them? I mean if you were not doing anything "wrong" in the relationship to drive them to such, then there wouldn't have been any cheating. You don't find yourself cheating on someone you truly love and have no problems what so ever with. Most of the time people don't want to admit that they had any part in anything when the relationship goes "bad"... It's way to easy to point fingers and blame the other so that the other person would have to take all the responsibility for what happened. Yet they continue on doing the same thing in other relationships all the while wondering why their relationships are not working out... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:00:29 PM | I find forgetting they existed to be quite the fix. I don't have ex's, I have people I have forgotten I had sex with at one time.......
Other than that, it will burn your ass for a while, then slowly, you will forget and not care. Back to square One again right?
You then go on with life, remembering you forgot someone who was a real **stard in there, but for the life you, you can't remember WHO that was........... | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:11:08 PM | now i completely understand your feelings... i have been there... however, you absolutely need to get this toxic event out of your life for your own well being... if you do not you will waste precious years... and honey, we're women... we have a shelf life no matter what anyone tells you... it's true... do NOT waste one more minute on someone who does not care at all about you... while you have this jerk in your head and heart you will not be accesible to someone else. really. you could be missing out on big love RIGHT NOW AS WE SPEAK!
when someone cheats on a spouse... sig other...etc. .. this is one of the most hurtful things that one can do. it is an anti social act. it is a suppresive act... it can also really screw someone up badly... that is how serious it is... and this is why you absolutely need to get this person OUT of your head...not just your life...
my best guess... if and when you do run into him etc... he's probably really nasty... why? because seeing you is a constant reminder of his imoral behavior... thus he has to make out that YOU deserved it... he has to... otherwise he'd then be a "bad" person..
the best revenge ever?
1. thrive and prosper
2. become indifferent
3. fall madly in love with someone that is madly in love with you
those are the best techniques for getting even... and may you accomplish ALL three!!!
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:37:10 PM | The Best way:
In your fantasies, ONLY.
You can do whatever you want to do them in there, with no resultant judgment, recrimination, or long stays in closed governmental facilities... 
You can be mean, nice, sarcastic, evil, hurt their feelings, physically and/or emotionally abuse and/or torture them with electric wires or perhaps long, sappy and repetitious poetry - whatever you want or maybe need to make yourself come to terms with what happened and how you feel about it.
Then - after having fully explored the fantasy, while having caused no harm to them or yourself, you can do it the Right Way (not 'best' way), by just walking away from that person and the circumstances they've thrust upon you, dropping it, and getting on with your life.
A life which is better off without it being cluttered up with someone who is obviously not healthy for you.
Good luck! Have fun!  | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/14/2008 1:10:40 AM |
Don't get your hands dirty and waste negative energy on this pursuit. It's really not worth it.
Karma in its good time will take care of things and he'll get exactly what he deserves or even more.
well said..
Move on, its not worth it | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/14/2008 1:41:31 AM | I already have a line of people waiting to rip my ex to shreds.
But anyway, I say, just forget about them and be better for your new honey. | |
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Posted: 4/14/2008 5:28:41 AM | | why worry about revenge, they will manage to get revenge on themselves. But if all else fails, scrub the toilet with their toothbrush. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/14/2008 8:32:43 AM | Dont get even at all otherwise you could end up in prison !
I found the best way to get over the ex was to find someone else. | |
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Posted: 4/14/2008 9:07:04 AM | "When seeking revenge, dig two graves "* Canoist-#406
Its funny this was originally posted in 2004--Wonder what she did....and yet it carries on four years later, with the same 'question' over and over.....don't we ever learn, or is it something we can't let go of--it-revenge- takes your life and time and effort--from what I've seen, the other person is not out anything---the same responses over and over--get over it---don't waste your time, time---I have been there, Im sorry to say, and when I look back I thank God for taking this person out of my life when I was not strong enough to---Is ANYONE worth all this-----------your better than that | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/14/2008 9:07:40 AM | The best way to get even?
Get over it and move on.
Truly the best way ever.
What is it with all of these folks hell-bent on revenge? Wow! Revenge really is not a dish best served cold - it is a dish best never served.
All that wasted energy spent plotting, planning, imagining, dreaming, and carrying out a plan - for what? That is time better spent getting over the hurt and moving onward with your life.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/14/2008 9:17:32 AM | I agree with all those advocating that the best revenge is in living well, and not looking back.
It was pointed out to me many years ago, (not when I was considering revenge, but in the depths of despair), that the person you are so focused on probably isn't even giving you two thoughts. They're out there laughing it up with their friends, having fun and the business of getting on with their life....hmmmm...being of the philosophical sort, there was something to that thought, that cured me right quick.
hnh
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/14/2008 10:29:36 AM | Ok first off the anger stage is pretty normal. Spending some time with fantasy revenge thoughts can be a way to release a lot of the negativity.
Bottom line ... stop giving the person space in your head. It's been 3 more years of your life they have stolen from you.
I have walked in your shoes btw, my 20+ yr marriage ended due to infidelity about 3 yrs ago and the X and the other woman are still together. In fact since they both cheated on spouses that loved and trusted them and broke up families to be together. The fact that they are still together IS my revenge! They seem real secure and trusting of each other ... NOT. 
I on the other hand have been putting a lot of work into myself, learning who I am as a single person after so many years, what my new life goals are etc etc. I'm creating a life were I am happy and content with myself and getting stronger as a person everyday. That too is my revenge. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/18/2008 8:15:05 AM | It depends if you want to be mean, or just do something that makes you feel better, and he's unaware of.
Dip his toothbrush in the toilet, I did this daily before i moved and it made me smile everytime i heard him brushing his teeth. Also years ago when someone cheated on me, I emptied a vitamin e capsule and filled it with food dye, then i unscrewed the showerhead and placed it inside. When the capsule melted the dye washed over him. Hilarious, he was kinda blue for a few days. | |
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