| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/18/2008 9:24:01 AM | | Well the best way to get revenge or get even is simply by "Living well". So go out there and do it, be the best that you can be, the other person will notice and you can take comfort in knowing that they are sorry over their choices. You don't know what you got till its gone, so true. | |
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/18/2008 9:26:23 AM | First off I am very sorry what happend. but get over your ego and dont be childish.
Act like a grown up and just move on.
No matter what you could come up with, It most likely wont work either, cause a cheater doesnt care. It is more likely that he will just NOT care a darn.
If he seems upset, then its just his pure male ego and selfish guilt, not love.
Why would you want to descend yourself down to his level?
I think that Carry Underwood song should have been baned. What a joke, songs like that make people think its ok for women do go distroy cheating bfs things, stalk them or do other stupid things.
Do yourself a favor, forget about him, take time to look afteryourself and heal, find someone for the right reasons to fall in love again when you are ready.
Dont look back and dont waste your time for immature things like getting even cause life will get even withhim through his own actions sooner or later....Karma
You might teach him what he did was wrong only if you just walk away from it and dont give a care what he is doing, if he calls, dont answer, dont call back, if you see him on the street just walk by him. He does NOT deserve your attention or 1 second of your time.
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| best ways to get even with your ex
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:50:45 AM | | The best way to get even is to forget that he ever existed. You will not win by playing the revenge game. You will only be less of a person than you could be. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 11:36:33 AM | The best revenge is to move on, but make sure your success after him gets back to him via a mutual friend.... | |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 11:50:27 AM | What everyone else said about the *move on* deal....
& try to remain calm, collected & polite when speaking with them. Do not rise to any bait or comments they throw out there. The longer you maintain calm the more unhinged your ex will become.
It absolutely infuriates the hell out of them....
Case in point:
Was on the phone with my ex one day talking about some kid stuff & she's loosing all decorum on the other end of the phone while I maintain a calm attitude. She gets to the point where she is literally screaming down the phone at me.
What she didn't know was that I happend to be about 4 cars behind her on the same road & got to witness her blow right thru a red light in front of a cop..
Made my day just a little better
Even more so when I said "Try not to rant like that at the cop pulling you over"
She hung up at that point...I waved as I drove past | |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 12:35:02 PM | everyone~
look... i read these posts... and everyone says "move on," or "get over it," etc. the problem is:
how does one actually DO that?
i have my own method, but i know it is very very hard having to force yourself to "get over" something that left a huge scar.... and let's face it... scar tissue doesn't function as well as normal tissue that has been untouched by pathology.
it's not as simple as "get over it."
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Posted: 4/18/2008 1:57:35 PM | Thank you Limey, that story made my day!!
Amazing how kharma worked for you right then.
How to go on, you just do it. One day at a time, one action at a time. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 2:03:56 PM | | Stop all contact with them. When you do it the first day, no matter how much you want to contact them, don't. It has to be taken one day at a time, but it is possible. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 3:07:34 PM | | Success and happiness if the "greatest revenge", if you will. Getting your self esteem back is worth at least $225,000, I figure. When someone has gone out of their way to be particularily vicious to you, don't argue. It's like dealing with a drunk, etc. Just disapear. Bury yourself in a constructive activity that will improve your life. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 5:40:25 PM | | Depends whether you have feelings for them still. The best revenge is to cut them out completely, not to obsess over them still and not to let them know they've hurt you. Although not healthy to think about getting revenge,no matter how crappy they've been...two wrongs don't make a right and all that shizzle..! | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 5:42:55 PM | | The best way to get even with anyone..is work on yourself..and better yourself. Then let her/him see that you moved on and didn't stay in a rut like they did. I would much prefer them see me smiling and being happy, and wonder what the hell I'm up to..:):) | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 1:52:28 AM | | The best way to get even is to get even with yourself. Make sure you hit that gym, stay healthy, get a grip on your desires, and keep in contact with that person. Try to be their friend with benefits, and if you can't swing that, just become their "friend". Then you have to systematically destroy them. First you take small steps that add up until the tipping point. When they are totally on one knee, you just push them over. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 2:01:42 AM | Best way to get even or over your ex is to get under another "kidding to a degree" .....revenge is sole destroying and seriously unhealthy.....hard to say move on but its the absolute best option.
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Posted: 4/29/2008 6:41:08 PM | | There are so many things you could do, but after you are done laughing about it, will u feel like an idiot or as low as he sunk ? After my ex cheated I was told to rub his underware in insulation, put eye drops in his drink, throw all his clothes on the front lawn, let the air out of his tires, hide his phone, sleep with his friend, and so on. I didn't do any above and honestly looking back I wish i did something. I did take the higher road, but I was way too nice. I do completely agree with the people who say, just keep your mouth shut and that is it, I was too angry and upset to do that and I wish I did do that. But anyway If you are strong enough the best revenge is to act like you don't care, even if you do. They have to walk away thinking you don't care and that confuses the heck out of them. Don't have anycontact with them, that is the best revenge, he calls your busy or I'll call u back and don't that is how u hurt them, they don't like being avoided !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They need to feed there ego's. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 6:43:40 PM | Get someone to piss all over his car door handles. He won't know but you will.
Edit- remember though... karma's a bitch. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 1:46:11 PM | "getting even"? What's the point?
Just learn from what went wrong and move on. Be happy, it just wasn't meant to be.
From T.D. Jakes:
When someone can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 1:49:55 PM | I agree with everyone that says move on forward , dont look back , be happy and successful . Dont name call because when you do that means that you are still thinking about him ... live the good life ... cause in the end you have won....that is when you have gotten even with your ex...... | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 4:28:26 PM | The sweetest revenge (if you feel it is necessary) is to live a better life.
no sense in lowering yourself to get even with anyone who hurts you.
try praying for that person. at least you won't end up in jail or dead for getting even.
keep your chin up, don't lose yourself respect by taking revenge. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 1:31:21 PM | | I agree, revenge is petty and makes you look pathetic. Move on with your life. He cheated for a reason so maybe he did you a favor and saved you years of heartache. Be the best YOU you can be and lose the anger. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 5:26:29 PM | I agree the best revenge is to lead a good life.
I'd make myself better though.. I'd dress better.. look better.. so next time he runs into you he will be sorry he cheated on you. Lead your life in such a way that those who know you will say "man he was an idiot to lose her"..
Nothing made me feel better than to see my ex with his new wife and she was fatter than me.. made me feel so good!!!! And Baby I was looking hot too!!! | |
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lol kidding. im not one to give you any good advice because im all for revenge.